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Positive Parenting   Reeths Puffer Elementary     PRESENTED BY STEVE VITTO
Lets begin at the end of the journey:Adulthood YOUR CHILDREN ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Hopeful Responses ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
What influences the way you parent? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The research is clear. In over 10,000 studies conducted all over the world the most common variable associated with a child having a healty social emotional adjustment  is:     a. strict disciplne and limits   b. consistent punitive consequences    for bad behaviors   c. being your child’s friend   d. rewarding good behavior   e. believing that they are loved ,[object Object]
The research is clear. In over 10,000 studies conducted all over the world the most common variable associated with a child having a healty social emotional adjustment  is:     ,[object Object],    e. believing that they are loved by you!!
So how do we get there???? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Always show your child that they come first, that they are the most import thing in your life ,[object Object]
CHILDREN GO WHERE THERE IS EXCITEMENT AND STAY WHERE THERE IS LOVE!
But surely their needs to be consequences, but…. ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Social Emotional Development as a Foundation for School & Life Success ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
What about spare the rod??? “The Rod” was intended to be a symbol of guideness. There is no record of Jesus EVER encouraging parents to hit their children!!! ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Do parents who hit their kids love them??? Absolutely!!! ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Universality  of Effective Parenting Approaches ,[object Object],[object Object]
Authoritarian Parenting Style ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Building Strong Families – Positive Discipline Overhead #1 Less Effective
Permissive Parenting Style ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Building Strong Families – Positive Discipline Overhead #2 Less Effective
Authoritative Parenting Style ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Building Strong Families – Positive Discipline Overhead #3 This is the most effective style supported by extensive research!!!
Alternatives to Punishment ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Building Strong Families – Positive Discipline Overhead #7
The Parenting Tips Booklet Positive Approaches for  Challenging Behaviors   Developed by Susan Mack, MA  Steven Vitto, MA MAISD Behavioral Consultants A POSITIVE BEHAVIORAL SUPPORTS PROJECT
Basic Principles of Positive Behavior Support ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
POSITIVE PARENTING BOOKLET TABLE OF CONTENTS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
TABLE OF CONTENTS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
POSITIVE BEHAVIOR SUPPORTS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Recognize that all behaviors meet needs. The needs are:  ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The Conflict Cycle
Steps for Corrective Teaching ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
FOR MORE INFORMATION ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

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