“ A truly good wife is the most precious treasure that a man could find!” Proverbs 31:10

1. 10 Steps To A Bountiful Faith
Based Marriage
Presented by: Ty Vaughn

2. Tell him you love him
frequently
• Love is an action word and it calls for movement
• Surprise him by leaving love notes
• Be imaginative and creative
• Share with him you want to be more than a
companion
• Tell him how important he is to you each and
every day.

3. Spend Quality Time Together
• Make pleasurable plans for the weekend
• Purposefully make time to just sit and talk
• Be totally connected to him by listening
carefully with your ears and eyes
• Having some shoulder-to-shoulder activities
together
• He may like to just enjoy your
companionship without conversation

4. Acknowledge His Areas of
Interest
• Always let him know that you appreciate
him
• Be his “Pillar of Support" by finding ways
to uplift him
• Stroke his Ego
• Do things together that He enjoys

5. Give up Control to Eliminate
Power Struggles
• Recognize when you begin to feel the desire to
control him
• You may be dealing with some internal fears
• Write down a few situations where you found
yourself controlling your husband
• For each situation, ask yourself what were you
afraid of?
• Was losing intimacy worth your need to control?

6. Communicate With love
• Speak to your spouse with respect and relevance
• Always speak in the affirmative
• Express your true feelings even if it’s a sensitive
subject
• Never assume your spouse can read your mind
and know how you feel
• You must open your heart and tell the unspoken
truth.

7. Give Him Space to be Alone
• Personal quiet time is necessary for self-
development
• When his mind is filled with distractions do not
crowd or badger him
• Give him space and time to think things over and
recover (i.e unwinding from his work day)
• Refrain from being that wife who starts
complaining about her day and demanding his
immediate attention

8. Do Not Give Societal and
Religious Matters More
Significance Than Your Spouse
• God gave you himself first, your spouse
second, and everything else must come
after.

9. Conclusion
Give your all in all. Be vulnerable to his love
and began to appreciate the little nuisances
that so easily beset us. “ A happy marriage is
the union of two good forgivers.”
Ruth Bell Graham

10. Never Forget the Reasons Why
You Married Him
• Keep these reasons paramount in your
mind
• Share the reasons with him from time to
time
• You married him because he was
unparalleled and different

11. Set Family Goals Together
• Be specific
• Work diligently to achieve them
• Objectives could be long or short term
• Working together improves and strengthens
your bond as husband and wife.

12. Pray For Your Husband
• He cannot fight in the ring and in the corner
• Pray that God leads him with a spirit of
excellence to become a pioneer in his home
and community
• Do not promulgate pressure on him
• Pray with him and for him so that he will
enjoy God's best throughout his life.

13. Contact
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