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Nordic Forum for Mediation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
How to avoid Deadlocks? - Breaking the Impasse! ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Hans Boserup ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Privileged Hans in Pakistan in unbelievable aftermath of Cashmere earthquake 2005 ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Overcoming mediators' nightmares in mediation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
What is conflict? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
What is Impasse or Deadlock? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
The  Magic  of  Empathy ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
It takes  genuine  empathy to get behind these  resolute  faces ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Mediating in Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Empathize with all parties ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Empathize with all parties ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
How does the party  experience  and  interact  with the world?   ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Hans’ staf in Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Empathize with his  Mental Status ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Imaging that your party due to stress  reacts  with an appearance  similar  to mental disorder ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Pakistan-Indian Frontier –  Rituals  to avoid open conflict ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Styles adopted ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Striking the right balance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Striking the right balance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Striking the right balance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Striking the right balance ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Striking the right balance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Afghan palace lacking mediation ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
So many beauties of cultural values to draw on inside Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Once Afghanistan was known for the Moguls’ beautiful gardens ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
…  And for millenniums of skilled pottery ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Striking the right balance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Striking the right balance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Afghan Minister  of Refugees Dr.  (psychiatry)  Dadfar  (trained in Germany)  discussing  traumatized  parties ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Pick the  impasse breaking  strategy from  each  of the different styles and paradigms ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Characteristics ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Mediation ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007 A way to solve insolvable conflicts so all parties feel better
Afghan children learning about mediation in open air school ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Ideas behind mediation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
So many Perceptions of mediation ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Content ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
6 mainstreams ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Existence’s dimensions ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
More dimensions ,[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007 Physical Rational Emotional Spiritual
Teaching Giraffe and how to summarize what you just heard ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
The generic style ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
The generic style ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Generic mediation is not for everyone ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
A conversation in 5  stages ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Stage 2: Defining the issues / tasks 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Stage 2: Defining the issues / tasks 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Occasionally you must draw on rehabilitation centers when parties are traumatized ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Are the former inhabitants of this house now  your  neighbors? ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Will she ever find  herself  again? ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
And even  professionals  may become  frustrated  and  exhausted ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Stage  2: Defining the issues / tasks 3 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Stage  4: Negotiating options ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Generic style ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Generic style ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Advanced dispute resolution (in problem oriented ADR) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Interests and concerns habitually  tend  to be expressed though  positions   (in problem oriented ADR) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Advanced  negotiation  –  The pyramid   (in problem oriented ADR) ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007 Positions Interest Needs/Concerns
Positions – Interests - Needs ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Overlapping pyramids ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007 Positions Interests Needs
Do  you recognize the situations? ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Everyone Can Win ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Settlement driven style 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Settlement driven style 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Settlement driven style 3 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Try to imagine what the pictures are trying telling you ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Cognitive  style 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Cognitive  style 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Transformative style 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Transformative style 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Robert Baruch Bush presenting  transformative  mediation in Copenhagen ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Terminology ,[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Empowerment ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Recognition ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Encourage the parties to talk about ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Assume that the parties occasionally realize that they look like this ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
So many agendas to recognize ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Humanistic style 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Humanistic style 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Humanistic style 3 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Every child across the Globe have  feelings ,  hopes  and  unmet  needs ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Narrative style 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Narrative style 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Narrative style 3 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Structure ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
The Law and the Variety of Perceptions ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Terminology 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Terminology 2 ,[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Terminology 3 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Is compromise a solution? ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Exploring unmet needs and underlying emotions across Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Emotions ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Basic emotions ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
You can even fear Buddha ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Shortcuts to unmet needs ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Coping with fear in Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
The styles of mediation 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
The styles of mediation 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Affective or cognitive grounded mediation 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Affective or cognitive grounded mediation 2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
From these Afghan wells drank also Greek Emperor Alexander   ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Process oriented or settlement driven styles of mediation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Information  gathering  or  free  storytelling ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Understanding the Context ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Questions may be  dangerous ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
And the whip of the Dragon’s tail  parted the rocky mountains ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
…  Just one lash - And earth parted ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Intentions  behind questions  ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Effects  of questions  ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Active listening  when you are the third party ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Active listening when being the mediator ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Questions when you are the mediator ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Circular questions  (requires practice and knowledge)   1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Circular questions  (requires practice and knowledge)   2 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Logistic ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Examples of positive and negative  micro  dynamics ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Mediation is founded on ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Please empathize; – Advise is simply not useful ©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
But be aware of personality! ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007
Thanks for your attention ,[object Object],[object Object],©hansboserup@gmail.dk  www.mediator.dk  2007

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Advanced Mediation Boserup

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  • 2. How to avoid Deadlocks? - Breaking the Impasse! ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 4. Privileged Hans in Pakistan in unbelievable aftermath of Cashmere earthquake 2005 ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 9. It takes genuine empathy to get behind these resolute faces ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 10. Mediating in Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 11. Empathize with all parties ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 12. Empathize with all parties ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 14. Hans’ staf in Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 17. Pakistan-Indian Frontier – Rituals to avoid open conflict ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 24. Afghan palace lacking mediation ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 25. So many beauties of cultural values to draw on inside Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 26. Once Afghanistan was known for the Moguls’ beautiful gardens ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 27. … And for millenniums of skilled pottery ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 30. Afghan Minister of Refugees Dr. (psychiatry) Dadfar (trained in Germany) discussing traumatized parties ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 33. Mediation ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007 A way to solve insolvable conflicts so all parties feel better
  • 34. Afghan children learning about mediation in open air school ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 36. So many Perceptions of mediation ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 41. Teaching Giraffe and how to summarize what you just heard ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 44. Generic mediation is not for everyone ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 48. Occasionally you must draw on rehabilitation centers when parties are traumatized ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 49. Are the former inhabitants of this house now your neighbors? ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 50. Will she ever find herself again? ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 51. And even professionals may become frustrated and exhausted ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 58. Advanced negotiation – The pyramid (in problem oriented ADR) ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007 Positions Interest Needs/Concerns
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  • 60. Overlapping pyramids ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007 Positions Interests Needs
  • 61. Do you recognize the situations? ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 62. Everyone Can Win ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 66. Try to imagine what the pictures are trying telling you ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 71. Robert Baruch Bush presenting transformative mediation in Copenhagen ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 76. Assume that the parties occasionally realize that they look like this ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 77. So many agendas to recognize ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 81. Every child across the Globe have feelings , hopes and unmet needs ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 86. The Law and the Variety of Perceptions ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 91. Exploring unmet needs and underlying emotions across Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 94. You can even fear Buddha ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 96. Coping with fear in Afghanistan ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 101. From these Afghan wells drank also Greek Emperor Alexander ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 104. Understanding the Context ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 106. And the whip of the Dragon’s tail parted the rocky mountains ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
  • 107. … Just one lash - And earth parted ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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  • 118. Please empathize; – Advise is simply not useful ©hansboserup@gmail.dk www.mediator.dk 2007
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