The document discusses how children interact freely with others regardless of gender but as people mature they begin categorizing and judging others, including being fearful of females. It suggests the key is seeing females as ordinary people by having casual conversations without expectations of anything happening, as this builds comfort and sees them as people rather than creatures with power. Regularly talking to females helps reach a level of comfort where interaction becomes fun.

1. Become Comfortable With
Females

2. Remember when you were a kid?

3. Maybe, maybe not.

4. If you've ever watched kids interact
with each other, it's pretty amazing.

5. Generally, the younger they are, the
more fearless they are.

6. They don't stop and think about what
they are going to say based on what
they think might happen.

7. They don't hesitate in talking to
somebody based on how they think
they might respond.

8. They see all people as regular people.

9. They haven't learned to categorize
anybody according to race or gender.

10. Then, as we grow up, we start to
categorize people.

11. We have to.

12. The more we have to start becoming
responsible for our lives, the less free
stuff and support we get from our
parents and other adults, we don't
really have the luxury to throw caution
to the wind.

13. We have to sort of pick and choose.

14. Now, this may not sound very
politically correct, but if we didn't do
this, we'd be conned right and left.

15. However, often times we make huge
errors in judgment.

16. Whenever we discriminate based on
race or gender.

17. Now, before you think I'm going to go
off on a PC-preachy tangent, hold your
horses.

18. Consider how we perceive females,
before and after we start to "judge"
people.

19. When we are kids, they are kids, just
like us, and we treat the like such.

20. But then we go through puberty, and
they suddenly have amazing power.

21. They can provide us with incredible
pleasure, or horrible rejection.

22. All in the way they look at us and talk
to us.

23. If you've got any married guy friends
that are pretty happy in their
relationship, watch how THEY interact
with women.

24. Usually, they're much more laid back
than single guys.

25. Why is that?

26. Because, for the most part, females
have become normal females again.

27. Unless of course, they run across some
incredibly hot super model who's
TRYING to create sexual energy
everywhere she goes.

28. The secret to talking to women is to
simply see them as people, instead of
those amazing creatures with such
amazing power.

29. How do you do that?

30. Well, you could go out and get
married, but that would kind of defeat
the purpose!

31. The easiest way to see females as
ordinary people, (which they are,
BTW) is to simply talk to as many as
you can WITHOUT having any kind of
hope or expectation that anything will
happen OTHER than a polite
conversation.

32. The more you do this, the easier it will
get.

33. Once you get to a certain
level of comfort, that's
when the fun begins.
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