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Conflict Management
Conflict
• Conflict is associated with situations that involve contradictory
interest between two opposing groups.
• Appearance of difference, difference of opinions, of interests.
• A process that begins when one party perceives that another party
has negatively affected, or is about to negatively affect, something
the first party cares about.
• Disagreement between two or more individuals or groups trying to
gain acceptance of its view over others.
Features of conflict
• Not able to choose among the available course of action
• Conflicting perceptions, values and goals
• Series of events
• Must be perceived by the parties
Transitions in conflict thought
• The Traditional view
Conflict was considered totally bad and was to be avoided.
• The Human relations view
Management should be concerned with avoiding conflict if possible and
resolving it as soon as possible
• The Interactionist view
Group leader must allow some conflicts to happen in the group, so that
the group may remain self critical & creative.
Types of Conflict
Functional vs. Dysfunctional
Functional and dysfunctional conflict
FUNCTIONAL CONFLICTS
• Release of tension
• Analytical thinking
• Group cohesiveness
• Competition
• Challenge
• Identification of weakness
• High quality decisions
DYSFUNCTIONAL CONFLICTS
• High employee turnover
• Tensions
• Dissatisfaction
• Climate of distrust
• Conflict as a cost
Conclusion-optimum level of conflict
Levels of conflict
• Individual / intra-individual level conflict
• Interpersonal conflict
• Group level conflict
• Organization level conflict
Intra-individual conflict
• Unacceptability
• Incomparability
• Uncertainty
Individual experiences three types of conflict
with in himself:
Frustration- aggression, withdrawal, fixation, compromise
Goal conflict- approach-approach conflict, approach-avoidance
conflict, Avoidance –avoidance conflict
Role conflict- role ambiguity, role conflict, role overload
Interpersonal conflict
• Personal differences
• Information deficiency
• Role incompatibility
• Environment stress
Group level conflict
• Intragroup conflict
• Intergroup conflict
Organizational conflict
• Conflicts at individual level, group level or inter group level are all
inherent in the organization level conflict.
• Between seller and buyer organization
• Interdependent organizations.
Causes of conflict
• Communicational Aspects of conflict
• Behavioral aspect of conflict
• Structural aspect of conflict
Causes of Team Conflict:
External Issues
• Competing for scarce resources
• Lack of information sharing
• Lack of clear direction
• Others working on same issue
Causes of Team Conflict
Team Member Issues
• Performance issues
• Behavior problems (absenteeism, late work, not doing what promised)
• Work quality problems
Causes of Team Conflict:
Team Member Issues
• Interaction/Communication Issues
• Schedule conflicts
• One member taking over
• Conflict between members
• Disagreeing over responsibilities
• Differing values, attitudes, or personalities
Conflict:
When to call the boss
• External issues - almost always
• Team performance issues
• use strategies for conflict management and attempt to resolve
• if no immediate and sustained improvement, ask the boss for facilitation
assistance
Conflict:
When to call the boss
• Team interaction/ communication issues
• require immediate facilitation, inform boss and discuss next steps together
Conflict Process
Conflict Management
• Preventive measures
Establishing common goals
Reduction in interdependence
Reduction in shared resources
Trust and communication
Coordinating
Exchange of personnel/ role reversal
Use of superior authority
Reorganization of groups
Curative Measures
• Conflict resolution model
• Avoidance
• Competing
• Collaboration
• Accommodating
• Compromise
Conflict Management Styles
Accommodating
People who accommodate are unassertive and very
cooperative.
• Give in during a conflict
• Acknowledge they made a mistake/decide it was no
big deal
• Put relationships first, ignore issues, and try to keep
peace at any price
• Effective when the other person or party has a better
plan or solution
Avoiding
People who avoid conflict are generally unassertive and uncooperative.
• Avoid the conflict entirely or delay their response instead of voicing
concerns
• Can create some space in an emotional environment
• Not a good long-term strategy
Collaborating
Collaborators are both assertive and cooperative.
• Assert own views while also listening to other views
and welcoming differences
• Seek a “win-win” outcome
• Identify underlying concerns of a conflict
• Create room for multiple ideas
• Requires time and effort from both parties
Competing
People who approach conflict in a competitive way assert themselves
and do not cooperate while pursuing their own concerns at another’s
expense.
• Takes on a “win-lose” approach where one person wins and one
person loses
• Does not rely on cooperation with the other party to reach outcome
• May be appropriate for emergencies when time is important
Compromising
Compromisers are moderately assertive and
moderately cooperative.
• Try to find fast, mutually acceptable solutions to
conflicts that partially satisfy both parties
• Results in a “lose-lose” approach
• Appropriate temporary solution
• Considered an easy way out when you need more
time to collaborate to find a better solution
Methods to deal with conflicts
• Competition (win-lose situation)
• Accommodation (win-win situation)
• Avoidance (lose-lose situation)
• Compromise (lose-lose situation)
• Collaboration (win-win situation)
Which one is best?
There is no BEST way to handle conflict. Each conflict is different and
requires a different response.
As a society, we teach:
“Two heads are better than one.” (Collaborating)
“Kill your enemies with kindness.” (Accommodating)
“Split the difference.” (Compromising)
“Leave well enough alone.” (Avoiding)
“Might makes right.” (Competing)
Conclusion
• Different conflict management styles may be used when faced with
different situations.
• Knowing yourself and fully understanding each situation will help you
understand the conflict management style needed.
• Try a scenario-based approach to test the effectiveness of different
approaches to specific situations.
Which Conflict Style Is Best?
• Use compromise
• When goals are important
but not worth the
effort/disruption of more
assertive approach
• Use collaboration
• When concerns are too
important to be
compromised
• When objective is to merge
insights, gain commitment
• When have the time
• Use avoidance
• When an issue is trivial
• To temporarily delay, allow
emotions to cool
• Use accommodation
• When you find you
are wrong
• As a favor, build relationship
• Use competition
• When quick, decisive action
vital
• When don’t trust opponent
You can decide...
• Understanding the impact of your family and community on your
ideas about conflict can allow you to make decisions about how you
deal with conflict now
• We are our history
• We make our history

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Conflict managemnet.pptx

  • 2. Conflict • Conflict is associated with situations that involve contradictory interest between two opposing groups. • Appearance of difference, difference of opinions, of interests. • A process that begins when one party perceives that another party has negatively affected, or is about to negatively affect, something the first party cares about. • Disagreement between two or more individuals or groups trying to gain acceptance of its view over others.
  • 3. Features of conflict • Not able to choose among the available course of action • Conflicting perceptions, values and goals • Series of events • Must be perceived by the parties
  • 4. Transitions in conflict thought • The Traditional view Conflict was considered totally bad and was to be avoided. • The Human relations view Management should be concerned with avoiding conflict if possible and resolving it as soon as possible • The Interactionist view Group leader must allow some conflicts to happen in the group, so that the group may remain self critical & creative.
  • 7. Functional and dysfunctional conflict FUNCTIONAL CONFLICTS • Release of tension • Analytical thinking • Group cohesiveness • Competition • Challenge • Identification of weakness • High quality decisions DYSFUNCTIONAL CONFLICTS • High employee turnover • Tensions • Dissatisfaction • Climate of distrust • Conflict as a cost
  • 9. Levels of conflict • Individual / intra-individual level conflict • Interpersonal conflict • Group level conflict • Organization level conflict
  • 10. Intra-individual conflict • Unacceptability • Incomparability • Uncertainty
  • 11. Individual experiences three types of conflict with in himself: Frustration- aggression, withdrawal, fixation, compromise Goal conflict- approach-approach conflict, approach-avoidance conflict, Avoidance –avoidance conflict Role conflict- role ambiguity, role conflict, role overload
  • 12. Interpersonal conflict • Personal differences • Information deficiency • Role incompatibility • Environment stress
  • 13. Group level conflict • Intragroup conflict • Intergroup conflict
  • 14. Organizational conflict • Conflicts at individual level, group level or inter group level are all inherent in the organization level conflict. • Between seller and buyer organization • Interdependent organizations.
  • 15. Causes of conflict • Communicational Aspects of conflict • Behavioral aspect of conflict • Structural aspect of conflict
  • 16. Causes of Team Conflict: External Issues • Competing for scarce resources • Lack of information sharing • Lack of clear direction • Others working on same issue
  • 17. Causes of Team Conflict Team Member Issues • Performance issues • Behavior problems (absenteeism, late work, not doing what promised) • Work quality problems
  • 18. Causes of Team Conflict: Team Member Issues • Interaction/Communication Issues • Schedule conflicts • One member taking over • Conflict between members • Disagreeing over responsibilities • Differing values, attitudes, or personalities
  • 19. Conflict: When to call the boss • External issues - almost always • Team performance issues • use strategies for conflict management and attempt to resolve • if no immediate and sustained improvement, ask the boss for facilitation assistance
  • 20. Conflict: When to call the boss • Team interaction/ communication issues • require immediate facilitation, inform boss and discuss next steps together
  • 22. Conflict Management • Preventive measures Establishing common goals Reduction in interdependence Reduction in shared resources Trust and communication Coordinating Exchange of personnel/ role reversal Use of superior authority Reorganization of groups
  • 23. Curative Measures • Conflict resolution model • Avoidance • Competing • Collaboration • Accommodating • Compromise
  • 25. Accommodating People who accommodate are unassertive and very cooperative. • Give in during a conflict • Acknowledge they made a mistake/decide it was no big deal • Put relationships first, ignore issues, and try to keep peace at any price • Effective when the other person or party has a better plan or solution
  • 26. Avoiding People who avoid conflict are generally unassertive and uncooperative. • Avoid the conflict entirely or delay their response instead of voicing concerns • Can create some space in an emotional environment • Not a good long-term strategy
  • 27. Collaborating Collaborators are both assertive and cooperative. • Assert own views while also listening to other views and welcoming differences • Seek a “win-win” outcome • Identify underlying concerns of a conflict • Create room for multiple ideas • Requires time and effort from both parties
  • 28. Competing People who approach conflict in a competitive way assert themselves and do not cooperate while pursuing their own concerns at another’s expense. • Takes on a “win-lose” approach where one person wins and one person loses • Does not rely on cooperation with the other party to reach outcome • May be appropriate for emergencies when time is important
  • 29. Compromising Compromisers are moderately assertive and moderately cooperative. • Try to find fast, mutually acceptable solutions to conflicts that partially satisfy both parties • Results in a “lose-lose” approach • Appropriate temporary solution • Considered an easy way out when you need more time to collaborate to find a better solution
  • 30. Methods to deal with conflicts • Competition (win-lose situation) • Accommodation (win-win situation) • Avoidance (lose-lose situation) • Compromise (lose-lose situation) • Collaboration (win-win situation)
  • 31. Which one is best? There is no BEST way to handle conflict. Each conflict is different and requires a different response. As a society, we teach: “Two heads are better than one.” (Collaborating) “Kill your enemies with kindness.” (Accommodating) “Split the difference.” (Compromising) “Leave well enough alone.” (Avoiding) “Might makes right.” (Competing)
  • 32. Conclusion • Different conflict management styles may be used when faced with different situations. • Knowing yourself and fully understanding each situation will help you understand the conflict management style needed. • Try a scenario-based approach to test the effectiveness of different approaches to specific situations.
  • 33. Which Conflict Style Is Best? • Use compromise • When goals are important but not worth the effort/disruption of more assertive approach • Use collaboration • When concerns are too important to be compromised • When objective is to merge insights, gain commitment • When have the time • Use avoidance • When an issue is trivial • To temporarily delay, allow emotions to cool • Use accommodation • When you find you are wrong • As a favor, build relationship • Use competition • When quick, decisive action vital • When don’t trust opponent
  • 34. You can decide... • Understanding the impact of your family and community on your ideas about conflict can allow you to make decisions about how you deal with conflict now • We are our history • We make our history