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Attachment and Literacy in Internationally Adopted Children: Age 0-6
1. Attachment and Literacy
Development for Internationally
Adopted Children
Ages 0-6 Years
Allacyn Rowe
Child Development and Family Studies
West Virginia University
2. Table of Contents
Important Note
What is Attachment?
Types of Attachment
Security
Signs of Attachment
Disorders
8 Tools of Literacy
Bonding
0-1
2-3
4-6
Language
Benefits of
Bilingualism
Talking To Children
About Adoption
Helpful Links
Work Cited
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3. Important Note
All children are different and depending on a child‟s
background or situation every child is going to come
with different needs. It would be impossible to asses
every child on an individual basis, however this is a
broad overview of attachment difficulties and
techniques for internationally adopted children. It is
important to be sensitive to each child's individual
background that may include, but not limited to, abuse
(physical, emotional, or
sexual), neglect, abandonment, and/or institutional
care.
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4. What is Attachment? (pg.1)
Attachment is not something that happens, it is a state of
being. Everyone is attached, however depending on the
circumstances, this could be a secure or insecure
attachment.
All children, adopted or biological, form
attachments, however children that have had unstable
relationships are more likely to be insecurely attached.
Parents should be aware of child's background, home life
and routine before the adoption to gage where their child is
at.
Ie. A child who was in institutionalized care may have been
“trained” to go to bed without a fuss. When a child goes to
bed, it may reflect the training they had verses actual secure
attachment during bed time routines.
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(Riley, San Juan, Klinkner&Ramminger, 2008)
(Mikkelson)
5. What is Attachment? (pg.2)
Attachment security is an ongoing process and can
change depending on the level of care and
responsiveness given.
Eirk Erikson was the first to touch on attachment through the
importance of trust. Infants trust in their parents and mistrust in
strangers. Erickson‟s theory was later expanded by John Bowlby.
Bowlby sought to look at the parent-child relationship, how it
developed, and why it was important. He defined this as the
„attachment- relationship‟ and studied the „attachment behavior‟s that
result from that behavior.
These behaviors include crying, cooing, or reaching for a caregiver.
Through internal working models, infants can soon learn the reactions
of the caregivers and how to elicit a reaction again.
(Gross, 2010)
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6. Types of Attachment Security (pg.1)
Secure
Parents respond quickly and effectively to infants cues
Infants can trust the reaction of parents
Baby uses parent as a secure base for exploring
Baby becomes distressed when separated
Babies are happy and easily soothed after reunion
Insecure – Avoidant (Type A) & Insecure –
Resistant/Ambivalent (Type C
Infants are unable to predict the mood or actions of their caregiver and
are unsure of how to respond.
Infants may be angry or upset upon mothers re-entry to the room or
seem to not care at all.
This imbalance may be due to over stimulation or a lack of stimulation
at all
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7. Types of Attachment Security (pg.2)
Disorganized/Disoriented (Type D)
Infants are unsure of how to respond, and unlike insecure-
resistant, infants respond with a variety of reactions.
This usually arises in high stress atmospheres like low
income, teen, or single mother households.
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8. Signs of Attachment Disorders(Taken from the Mayo Clinic online website)
In Infancy
Withdrawn, sad and listless appearance
Failure to smile
Lack of the normal tendency to follow
others in the room with the eyes
Failure to reach out when picked up
No interest in playing peekaboo or other
interactive games
No interest in playing with toys
Engaging in self-soothing behavior, such
as rocking or self-stroking
Calm when left alone
Toddler +
Withdrawing from others
Avoiding or dismissing comforting
comments or gestures
Acting aggressively toward peers
Watching others closely but not engaging
in social interaction
Failing to ask for support or assistance
Obvious and consistent awkwardness or
discomfort
Masking feelings of anger or distress
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9. 8 Tools of Literacy
Nurture relationships
Adults valuing and modeling the importance of literacy
Exposing and providing opportunities to explore the world
Positive experiences with books, stories, and reading
Listening and talking
Listening to rhymes, rhythms, and songs
Exposing symbols and explaining meaning
Providing and experiencing print and writing
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(Knapp-Philo, Notari-Syverson, &Stice 2005)
10. Bonding
Bonding with children is not a science and many techniques
are already activities one would normally do with a child.
While some parents instantly connect with their child, others
are waiting to fall in love with their child and/or fear their
child may never love them.
Those feelings are normal and okay, it might take time but it
WILL happen.
A child who has had an unstable background may be wary
to trust new adults in their lives.
The following slides are different activities and techniques
that will help form that secure attachment with your child
depending on the age of their adoption.
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11. Bonding ages 0-1
Holding your baby
Other countries have different practices and beliefs on
childrearing. If a baby is uncomfortable being held, try looking
up how the baby might have been held in their home country
Make direct eye contact with your baby
Feed your baby
Talk, sing, and make direct eye contact during feedings
Sing, read, and talk to your baby
Respond to your baby‟s verbal and nonverbal expressions
If your baby babbles, respond back
Responding to your baby‟s cries
This shows baby that when they are distressed you will be
there for them and they can learn to expect you
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12. Bonding ages 2-3
Reading to your child
Cuddle your child
Tell child your love them
Take your child on errands with you
When ever it is possible to take child with you, do.
Establish hello and goodbye routines
If you must leave your child establish a special routine for
partings and greetings
Feed your child
Even if they are old enough to self-feed, feed them anyways.
This shows that you are there to care and take care of them
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13. Bonding ages 4-6 pg. 1
*Important note: As children get older their past is more likely to
affect their behavior. Parents and caregivers need to be
extra sensitive to previous events/ living conditions
Be sensitive to your child‟s home country‟s belief on making
eye contact
Take your child on errands with you
Read, talk, and listen to your child
Establish goodbye and bedtime routines
Dress your child or pick out their clothes
Even if a child is old enough to perform this task alone, children
may feel overwhelmed with too many choices.
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14. Bonding ages 4-6 pg.2
Tell your child you love them
Hug your child
Be sensitive to child's comfort level on direct touch
Brush your child‟s hair
This is a form of safe touching
Lotion your child‟s hands or feet
This could be especially helpful for children of a different
race (particularly dark skinned children).
This is a form of safe touching
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*Note: if a child is at any point uncomfortable with any form of touch do not
force it. Write down the encounter and speak with physiologist or
pediatrician next visit
("Bonding," 2008)
15. Language (pg.1)
The first few years of life are a critical period of language
development.
Babies brains are able to adapt to any language but as they
grow their brains start to only differentiate and recognize the
main language spoken.
Parents may wonder if there child will continue to speak their
home language after they enter a English enriched
environment.
The answer to that is no. Language is a “use it or lose it”
process. If a child is not exposed to their home language
frequently they may lose the ability to speak or understand that
language all together
On the flip side a child will pick up the language (most likely
English) very quickly.
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16. Language (pg.2)
To help a child acclimate to the new environment, it may be
helpful to have a translator present before, during, and upon
arrival in America.
While transitioning from one language to another it is
common for children to “cross over languages” (referred to
as code-switching) when they are still learning the names for
different objects.
Labeling different objects in the home with pictures will help
all children in the home ( biological, adopted, English
speaking or not) learn the names for those objects
Consider adding the child's home language equivalent (if
possible) as well.
(Guttierrez-Clellen, 1999; Kohnert et al., 2005)
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17. Language (pg. 3)
Reading and talking to your child is a great way for
them to pick up the language
Asking them questions to help expand on their thoughts
or help them come up with the words they are trying to
think of
Guided participation, even if they are older, helps them
learn the names of different things they are looking at.
This could be done at the store, in the car, really anytime
they are unsure of the words
Remember to be patient and give them time to think and
respond.
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18. Benefits of Bilingualism (pg.1)
Some parents may want their child to only speak English
for different reasons. Maybe they fear their child will not
acclimate into American culture or may be picked on for
being different, but there are many benefits to being
bilingual.
These benefits help children (according to “Infant and Toddler Language and
Literacy Course Module 4: Listening and Talking”)
maintain their connections with multiple cultural and
linguistic communities.
feel at ease with diverse communication styles and social
rules.
develop skills that help them focus their attention on
relevant information.
(Bialystok, 2001; Hakuta, & Pease-Alvarez, 1992; Wong-Fillmore, 1991) Back to Table of Contents
19. Benefits of Bilingualism (pg.2)
However, in order to maintain their home language they
need to exposed to that language as well. They will not
use their home language when they learn that others
expect them to use English
Consider getting books and music in your child‟s home
language (if possible) as well as in English
Consider learning your child's home language while they
learn English
Consider hiring a tutor or find a friend that can use their
home language with them
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20. Talking to Children about
Adoption (pg.1)
This is a resource for parents who might be wary to talk to
their children about their adoption in fear of how their
child might react and/or if they are not sure how to
bring up the subject or what to say.
Every parent should gage what developmental stage
their child is on when deciding when, what, and how
much to say.
It is important to be honest, but depending on their
age/developmental level, the whole truth does not have
to come all at once.
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21. Talking to Children about
Adoption (pg.2)
Some parents may rely on their children to ask them
questions, however, even though it is important to
leave the door open, it may not be best to solely rely on
children to bring up the topic.
Some parents chose the “ripple-stone effect” by
throwing out small comments or questions to gage their
child‟s interest in talking about the subject and go from
there.
If a child is not interested in talking about the subject, it
is better not to force it, but to wait and gage their
interest at another time
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22. Talking to Children about
Adoption (pg.3)
If your child is older when you adopt them, talk to them
about their past experiences and what that means.
Don‟t negate their former life. They might be new to your family
but that does not mean their life “started over”
Let your child grieve their loss. Even if they came from a rough
home or a terrible situation, acknowledge that and acknowledge
they have losses.
Read to your child
There are a lot of different children‟s books about different kinds
of adoption stories. Pick stories that best fit your family (aka
adopted children of a different race or with homosexual parents
or foster care-to-adoption, ect)
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23. Helpful Links
http://www.adoption.com/
http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/
http://www.adoptinfo.net/
http://www.buildingyourfamily.com/options/international-
adoption.php
http://www.creatingafamily.org/adoption-
resources/langdev.html
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24. Work Cited (pg.1)
Bialystok, E. (2001). Bilingualism in development: Language, literacy and cognition. New York:
Cambridge University Press.
Bonding [Web log message]. (2008, April 28). Retrieved from
http://buildingtheblocks.blogspot.com/2008/04/bonding.html
Gross, D. (2011). Infancy: Development from birth to age 3. (2nd ed., pp. 279-280).
Boston, MA: Pearson.
Gutierrez-Clellen, V. (1999). Language choice in intervention with bilingual children.
AmericanJournal of Speech-Language Pathology, 8, 291–302
Hakuta, K., & Pease-Alvarez, L. (1992). Enriching our views of bilingualism and bilingual
education. Educational Researcher, 21, 4–6.
Knapp-Philo, J., Notari-Syverson, A., &Stice, K. (2005). Tools of literacy for infants and toddlers.
In E. Horn & H. Jones (Eds.). Young Exceptional Children monograph Series: Supporting early
literacy development in young children. Young Exceptional Children Monograph Series, 7, 43-
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Kohnert, K., Yim, D., Nett, K., Kan, P. F., & Duran, L. (2005). Intervention with
linguisticallydiverse preschool children: A focus on developing home languages(s).
Language,Speech and Hearing Services in Schools, 36, 251–263.
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25. Work Cited (pg.2)
Mayo Clinic Staff. (2011, July 6). Diseases and conditions: Reactive attachment disorder.
Retrieved from http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/reactive-attachment-
disorder/basics/symptoms/con-20032126
Mikkelson, K. (n.d.). All through the night: Parents and experts weigh in on the best ways
to get our kids to sleep. Retrieved from
http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/articles.php?aid=1074
Paddock, D. (2011, 01 01). Grief and loss issues for adopted children: Caring adults can
make all the difference in an adoptees life. Retrieved from
http://www.rainbowkids.com/ArticleDetails.aspx?id=331
Riley, D., San Juan, R. R., Klinkner, J., &Ramminger, A. (2008). Social & emotional
development: Connecting science and practice in early childhood settings. (1st ed., pp.
5-26). St. Paul, MN: Red Leaf Press.
Russell, B. (2000). Talking to kids about adoption: Is it what you say, how early you say
it, or how often you say it that matters most to your child?. Adoptive Families, Retrieved
from http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/articles.php?aid=173
Wong-Fillmore, L. (1991). When learning a second language means losing the first.
EarlyChildhood Research Quarterly, 6, 232–346.
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Notas del editor
I can say from experience I only spoke Russian when I came to America when I was three. By the start of PreK I only spoke English. My parents only regret is not exposing and keeping my Russian, now looking back they wish they had.