31. Buying a car
Buyer
Wants to get the right car
Wants to get the options
they want
Wants a good warranty
Wants the best price
Needs approval from
spouse
Dealer
Wants to meet quota – end of
month
Wants to move specific cars
Wants to move cars on the lot
Wants to make a huge
commission
Wants to get it over with to
get to next sale
32. Buying a car
Buyer
Wants to get the right car
Wants to get the options
they want
Wants a good warranty
Wants the best price
Needs approval from
spouse
Dealer
Wants to meet quota – end of
month
Wants to move specific cars
Wants to move cars on the lot
Wants to make a huge
commission
Wants to get it over with to
get to next sale
THEY BOTH WANT A SALE TO
GET DONE
34. ADD something…
How we can do it…
Another thing we can do…
An example of something similar you’ve done
before…
A possible problem…
…WITH a possible solution!
SOMETHING relevant
35.
36. NEVER negate
FIND the good, the agreement
Every bad idea has a good kernel…and if
not, make one up.
There’s a reason someone proposes
something…find it, and “yes, and” THAT
37.
38. Buying a car
Buyer – dad, 3 kids, married
◦Wants a red SUV
◦Priced it out wants it for
$40K with DVD player
◦Wants to come back with
wife for final decision
Dealer
◦End of month – needs to
move cars and fast
◦Sold last SUV on the lot
yesterday
◦Gets bonus if they close a
deal today
40. Buying a car
Buyer – dad, 3 kids, married
◦ Wants a red SUV
Dealer
◦ YES - need a large car for your family
◦ AND no SUV currently BUT minivan
styling and drive has drastically improved
◦ AND full package with DVD + rear-view
camera = $37K
41. Buying a car
Buyer – dad, 3 kids, married
◦ Wants a red SUV
◦ OK, I’ll take this home and discuss
with my wife, come back tomorrow
Dealer
◦ YES - need a large car for your family
◦ AND no SUV currently BUT minivan
styling and drive has drastically improved
◦ AND full package with DVD + rear-view
camera = $37K
42. Buying a car
Buyer – dad, 3 kids, married
◦ Wants a red SUV
◦ OK, I’ll take this home and discuss
with my wife, come back tomorrow
Dealer
◦ YES - need a large car for your family
◦ AND no SUV currently BUT minivan
styling and drive has drastically improved
◦ AND full package with DVD + rear-view
camera = $37K
◦ YES - major decision you wouldn’t make
alone
◦ AND use my office, I’ll wait
◦ AND take it tonight = $36K
43. Buying a car
Buyer – dad, 3 kids, married
◦ Wants a red SUV
◦ OK, I’ll take this home and discuss
with my wife, come back tomorrow
◦Done
Dealer
◦ YES - need a large car for your family
◦ AND no SUV currently BUT minivan
styling and drive has drastically improved
◦ AND full package with DVD + rear-view
camera = $37K
◦ YES - major decision you wouldn’t make
alone
◦ AND use my office, I’ll wait
◦ AND take it tonight = $36K
44. Buying a car
Buyer – dad, 3 kids, married
◦ Wants a red SUV
◦ OK, I’ll take this home and discuss
with my wife, come back tomorrow
◦ Done.
Dealer
◦ Yes, I can see you’d need a large car for
your family, AND while we don’t have an
SUV currently, they have made drastic
improvements in minivan styling and
drive AND with the full package with DVD
AND rear-view camera it prices at $37K
◦ Yes, of course this is a major decision and
one you wouldn’t make alone, AND you
can use my office while I wait as long as
you need to discuss it AND if you guys
take it I can go down to $36K
Both sides wanted to get a car sold.
The car got sold.
47. Establishing identity is
key to defining your
brand.
YES!
Can you make the logo…BIGGER?!?!
48. Establishing identity is
key to defining your
brand.
Set the logo off with
ample whitespace to
draw attention on it’s
own
Gives the gravitas of
subtlety.
AND!
Can you make the logo…BIGGER?!?!
50. We want a fun box! With hangman!
For our safety supply site….
51. We want a fun box! With hangman!
For our safety supply site….
People waste time distracting
themselves
Your product selection is rather
dry
YES!
52. People waste time distracting
themselves
Your product selection is rather
dry
Use cleverly titled blog posts
direct relevance to your
work
draw people’s attention
driving sales
maximizing visitor utility
they can crush candy on a site
made for that
AND!
We want a fun box! With hangman!
For our safety supply site….
55. Last night…
I HAD PIZZA
oIt was deep dish
opepperoni and sausage
oIt was good
56. Last night…
I HAD PIZZA
oIt was deep dish
opepperoni and sausage
oIt was good
I HAD ADRIATICO’S PIZZA
oThick, rich crust
oSauce – spicy, not
overpowering
oGIANT pepperonis
oHomemade sausage, seeds
and all
63. The response
NO
Don’t do it.
It’s a bad idea.
People don’t use
them.
YES, AND!
YES - communicate the many aspects of
your site
AND - Eric Runyon: ND.edu, 84% of
rotator clicks on slide #1, others equally
distributed
AND people use mobile more, used to
scrolling
same goal more effectively with parallax and
properly placed links*Source: http://erikrunyon.com/2013/01/carousel-stats/
69. So why?
In improv, you’re responsible for the And.
In everyday communication, you may need to help
your partner find the And.
Questions aren’t inherently bad, but there are bad
questions
70. Questions
BAD
Showing off, not trying to get
info
Hidden agenda – you already
know the answer
Not working towards the And
71. Questions
BAD
Showing off, not trying to get
info
Hidden agenda – you already
know the answer
Not working towards the And
GOOD
Educated – filling in what you
couldn’t find, not asking b/c
you’re not prepared
New perspective – questions
THEY haven’t thought of
Helping them get to the And
73. Good Questions
Which persona would be using this new feature?
Would we be able to apply this new technology to this?
74. Good Questions
Which persona would be using this new feature?
Would we be able to apply this new technology to this?
Did you talk to Person X about the time they did this?
75. Good Questions
Which persona would be using this new feature?
Would we be able to apply this new technology to this?
Did you talk to Person X about the time they did this?
How did you come to this conclusion?
77. Summary
Yes! Start in a Yes-Space, prepared to find the agreement
AND! Add something to the communication. Be prepared.
78. Summary
Yes! Start in a Yes-Space, prepared to find the agreement
AND! Add something to the communication. Be prepared.
Don’t negate – There’s something good in everything. Find
it, and “yes and” that.
79. Summary
Yes! Start in a Yes-Space, prepared to find the agreement
AND! Add something to the communication. Be prepared.
Don’t negate – There’s something good in everything. Find
it, and “yes and” that.
Details, details, details – Make it clear, eliminate the
ambiguity
80. Summary
Yes! Start in a Yes-Space, prepared to find the agreement
AND! Add something to the communication. Be prepared.
Don’t negate – There’s something good in everything. Find
it, and “yes and” that.
Details, details, details – Make it clear, eliminate the
ambiguity
Ask good questions – Help everyone to find the And
81. Summary
Yes! Start in a Yes-Space, prepared to find the agreement
AND! Add something to the communication. Be prepared.
Don’t negate – There’s something good in everything. Find
it, and “yes and” that.
Details, details, details – Make it clear, eliminate the
ambiguity
Ask good questions – Help everyone to find the And
Support local improv, buy speakers beer
Notas del editor
In the box thinker
None – I’d probably have to ask someone where they are, I can work in the dark just fine.
Stereotypes of developers as loners who’d rather have their fingernails pulled out than talk to someone are not completely unfounded.
If you stand out as someone who can not only code like crazy but can communicate with other humans, it’s a huge advantage in your career development
Next “How to give a presentation” recommendation: Answer The basic questions of journalism, Who, What, Why, When, Where and How?
Built off of a basic idea, then filled in based on audience suggestion
Something Dada - “Never the Same Show Twice”
Built off of a basic idea, then filled in based on audience suggestion
Something Dada - “Never the Same Show Twice”
Go to Chicago you can’t help but trip over it
Second City birthed Saturday Night Live
Just our luck, no shows this weekend, but…
Improv IS communication
Communication to make someone laugh
If you don’t know what the heck I’m talking about, you won’t laugh
Need to get idea to audience
This is basically standup
I need to get my ideas to the other perofrmers, and vie versa
Improves communication with audience
The rules of improv comedy (dirty little secret) AREN’T just about improv comedy
The same rules I used to make people laugh as an improviser are the same ones I use to facilitate meetings, discussions with co-workers, negotiations, my order at Starbucks
Unless you work at home…for yourself…and no clients…and never want to sell anything to anyone ever…you are always communicating, or preparing to communicate.
I scoped this towards career development, and towards developers, so I could give it here, but another dirty little secret is you can use this with any communication
Unless you work at home…for yourself…and no clients…and never want to sell anything to anyone ever…you are always communicating, or preparing to communicate.
I scoped this towards career development, and towards developers, so I could give it here, but another dirty little secret is you can use this with any communication
Unless you work at home…for yourself…and no clients…and never want to sell anything to anyone ever…you are always communicating, or preparing to communicate.
I scoped this towards career development, and towards developers, so I could give it here, but another dirty little secret is you can use this with any communication
Unless you work at home…for yourself…and no clients…and never want to sell anything to anyone ever…you are always communicating, or preparing to communicate.
I scoped this towards career development, and towards developers, so I could give it here, but another dirty little secret is you can use this with any communication
Since improv comedy IS communication, the rules of improv comedy ARE the rules of communication (that’s math)
Once the essence is boiled down, the same ideas used to communicate the funny can be used to communicate your ideas, and most importantly, communicate your ideas WITH others
Not those rules
- start from a positive point
Anyone bought a car recently?
Worst experience ever?
Just hearing someone blindly agree with everything you say is no more useful than someone blindly DISAGREEING with everything you say…and possibly LESS so, since then you don’t have to evaluate what you’re saying.
We remember the people who brought something to the table
Improv example
- Best way to be prepared to And – be prepared – know what’s going to be talked about, have ideas ready to go
Pizza – Manhole Cover example
Play “What are you doing?”
What are you doing?
Dealer doesn’t HAVE a red SUV
OH NO! If this doesn’t close today kiss the bonus goodbye
OH NO! If this doesn’t close today kiss the bonus goodbye
Find the kernels of agreement:
Not NO we don’t have your car, YES we have a similar car
Not NO you can’t come back tomorrow, YES you can have the conversation you need to have
Let’s talk about things closer to home. I work for a web development shop, but the ideas carry over
Find the kernels of agreement:
Not NO we don’t have your car, YES we have a similar car
Not NO you can’t come back tomorrow, YES you can have the conversation you need to have
Let’s talk about things closer to home. I work for a web development shop, but the ideas carry over
Not our client. If you recognize this site, this is not our client. I just wanted something with cool hazmat suits. Just representative of the general idea.
Seriously. They wanted users to be able to play hangman, on their site. Where they were shopping for safety supplies, or whatever the hell it was. Inside, I was screaming, SCREAMING, NO!!!! When we got back to the office, I said ARE YOU SERIOUS?! NO WAY! But to the president of the huge company who thought this idea was the bees knees?
Sounds so much worse that way doesn’t it?
Do amusement park example
Not like that, sickos
Who’s hungry now? Seriously, go to Adriatico’s, it’s amazing.
But how about another work-related example…
It’s right, but…
Gets people’s hackles up, they get defensive and plant their flag
Who’s hungry now? Seriously, go to Adriatico’s, it’s amazing.
But how about another work-related example…
Sounds so much worse that way doesn’t it?
Do amusement park example
No questions is a key rule of improv
Why?
Why are they bad?
Showing off – let’s try this new technology I read about (even though I have no idea if it would actually be helpful)
Hidden agenda – “Did you think about how they’re going to validate?”
Filling in gaps – where is this data coming from?
Perspective – Will clients like to register before buying?