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David Turlington: What Happens To My Children If I Get Divorced?
1. Q: What Happens To My
Children If I Get A Divorce?
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The different child custody classifications
Physical custody: Physical custody is the provision of a living space
for the child. The child lives with the parent with physical custody.
Legal custody: Legal custody is the right to make decisions
regarding the upbringing of the child. This includes determining
religious practices, the school the child will attend, and medical
decisions.
Joint custody: Both parents have either legal or physical custody, or
both.
Sole custody: Only one parent has legal or physical custody of the
child. This arrangement is becoming increasingly rare, as courts
tend to favor joint participation.
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Consequences of divorce for children
Reduction of parental attention and support. Children might feel
neglected, confused, and possibly to blame for the domestic
upheaval.
Lack of access to one parent for extended periods.
Lack of stability. Children may feel unmoored by continually
switching residences – always visiting but never staying.
Conflict between parents. Children may be caught in the middle of
an acrimonious relationship between ex-spouses.
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Consequences of divorce for parents
The stress of parenting responsibility. Parents who must suddenly
take sole daily responsibility for the care of a child may undergo a
period of stress-related emotional flux.
Lack of emotional support. Many newly single parents experience
loneliness and a difficulty adjusting to an absence of additional
parental support.
Conflict with ex-spouse. An unstable relationship with the ex-
spouse can further exacerbate stress.
Economic hardships. There may be a reduction in financial
resources and retrenchment due to pressing financial obligations.
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Common child custody challenges
Custody interference. Failure to respect or adhere to contact and/or
visitation agreements, including hand-off refusal, intruding upon
scheduled visitation, and limiting phone calls.
Interstate custody/relocation. Without advance relocation agreements,
parents might not be able move to a different state and legally maintain
the existing custody agreement.
New personal relationships/dating. Developing intimate relationships
during custody disputes might be ill-advised depending upon a number of
factors, including how the children feel about the relationships.
Parental fitness concerns. Drug or alcohol dependency, or allegations of
spousal abuse, are extremely difficult to overcome.