I made this during my talk in Singles for Christ event. To all the single ladies out there...

1. Talk #4
NEW
HEARTBEATS
By: DARYL CADANILLA

2. January 13-
14, 2013

3. WORST LIE
God will not
come through
for us!

4. Lies about
Woman’s
Desires
Lies about
Woman’s
Design
Lies About
God
You are not worth
pursuing, not worth
fighting for.
Mystery to be
Exposed or Kept
Hidden
God chooses.
You are not
needed. You have
nothing to offer.
Relationship to be
Used or Denied
God is indifferent;
He doesn’t care.
You are not
beautiful; you don’t
have what it takes
to inspire me.
Beauty to be
Exploited or to be
Veiled
God is helpless, a
loser.

5. Am I
lovely?

6. Core Desires of a Woman
To be
romanced
Is my mystery worth revealing for you?

7. Core Desires of a Woman
To play an
irreplaceable role
Do I offer you something that will
make you pursue a relationship with
me?

8. Core Desires of a Woman
To unveil
beauty
Do you appreciate and value
the beauty I unveil?

9. Is the question
in your heart
being
answered?

10. Who has been
answering it?

11. Are you
satisfied with
the answer?

12. Whom have you been
asking the question
to?
Father
Mother
Other men
friends

13. We counted on the answers
of others , rather than on
bringing our Question to
the one who made us and
designed our hearts: GOD

14. Lord, do you see me flawed and
sinful yet call me beautiful?
Will you fight for me?
Will you come for me?
Despite the scars left on my
pierced heart,
AM I STILL LOVELY?

15. You were all God’s
idea and you are
beautiful to HIM!

16. ENCOUNTERS
WITH WOMEN

17. THE ADULTEROUS WOMAN
(JOHN 8:3-11)
The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery.
They made her stand before the group 4 and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was
caught in the act of adultery. 5 In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such
women. Now what do you say?” 6 They were using this question as a trap, in order to
have a basis for accusing him.
But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. 7 When they
kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who
is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” 8 Again he stooped down and wrote
on the ground.
9 At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until
only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. 10 Jesus straightened up and
asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”
11 “No one, sir,” she said.
“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

19. THE WOMAN AT THE WELL (John 4:5-29)
• 5 So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had
given to his son Joseph. 6 Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from
the journey, sat down by the well. It was about noon.
• 7 When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give
me a drink?” 8 (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)
• 9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritanwoman.
How can you ask me for a drink?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.[a])
• 10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a
drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”
• 11 “Sir,” the woman said, “you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep.
Where can you get this living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob, who
gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his livestock?”
• 13 Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14 but
whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give
them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”
• 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirstyand
have to keep coming here to draw water.”
• 16 He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.”
• 17 “I have no husband,” she replied.
• Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. 18 The fact is,
you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband.
What you have just said is quite true.”

20. 19 “Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. 20 Our ancestors worshiped on
this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.”
21 “Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the
Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do
not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is
coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the
Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is
spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”
25 The woman said, “I know that Messiah” (called Christ) “is coming. When he comes, he
will explain everything to us.”
26 Then Jesus declared, “I, the one speaking to you—I am he.”
The Disciples Rejoin Jesus
27 Just then his disciples returned and were surprised to find him talking with a woman.
But no one asked, “What do you want?” or “Why are you talking with her?”
28 Then, leaving her water jar, the woman went back to the town and said to the
people, 29 “Come, see a man who told me everything I ever did. Could this be the
Messiah?”

22. THE CRIPPLED WOMAN(Luke 13:11-13)
11 and a woman was there who had been
crippled by a spirit for eighteen years. She was
bent over and could not straighten up at
all. 12 When Jesus saw her, he called her
forward and said to her, “Woman, you are set
free from your infirmity.” 13 Then he put his
hands on her, and immediately she
straightened up and praised God.

24. Lies about
Woman’s
Design
Mystery to be
Exposed or Kept
Hidden
Relationship to be
Used or Denied
Beauty to be
Exploited or to be
Veiled
Jesus forgives and offers us
new life.
He fills our woman’s desires
and reveals to us our true
dignity.
Jesus heals and gives hope.

25. Song of Songs 2:14
Show me your face,
let me hear your voice;
for your voice is sweet,
and your face is lovely.

26. Bring to the Lord
your pierced
hearts and ask
for His grace to
remove the
thorns, the
hurts that have
pierced them.

27. MAKE A CHOICE.
Do you want a
NEW HEARTBEAT?

28. Steps to Healing
• Invite Jesus in.
• Renounce the lies you have
believed.
• Forgive: yourself, others, God
• Ask Jesus to heal you and answer
your deepest question.

29. • This is the beginning of new heartbeats for us
all. To let our once pierced hearts beat anew---
for Him, with Him.
• Our dance does not end here.
• There’s a place in God’s heart that YOU alone
can fill.
• If you allow God to remain in your heart, then
you are secure of His healing grace.
• Proclaim your unveiled beauty to the world!

30. Diary Entry No. 4
Write in your diaries what you
sense the Lord is revealing to
you about who He is and who
are you to Him, either from your
personal conversation with Him
or from the pray over by your
sisters.