Teenage is a person between 13 to 18 years old. ¨The word puberty is derived from the Latin pubertas, which means adulthood. ¨Puberty is initiated by hormonal changes triggered by a part of the brain called the hypothalamus, which stimulates the pituitary gland, which in turn activates other glands as well.
¨These changes begin about a year before any of their results are visible. ¨Both the male reproductive hormone testosterone and female hormone estrogen are present in children of both sexes.
In this seminar I will be covering the sexual problems that teenagers go through and find it difficult to deal with.
Its will cover various topics like
1. How parents discuss body parts
2. Hormonal glands and hoe sexual organs develop.
3. Growth and development in an adolescent
4. Does maturing early or late have a life long effect?
5. Is there a right time for discussing sexuality?
6. Period problems
7. Poly cystic ovaries
8. Wet dreams
9. Erectile dysfunction
3. When and how is the child’s
sexual Identity formed ?
1. At 2 years children begin to
notice differences between male
and female
2. The boy forms attachment to his
mom and the girl forms
attachment to her father
3. By 5-6 years boys start
identifying with dad and girls
identify with there mom’s
4. How parents discuss body parts
We do not teach them to
say
• Vagina
• Penis
• Scrotum
• Breasts
• These are taboo words
• So the child
understands that these
parts of his body are
not to be discussed
5. Adolescent
When does adolescence begin and how long
does it last?
Sometimes referred to as
teenage years, youth,
or puberty ,
adolescence is the
transitional period
between childhood and
maturity, occurring
roughly between the
ages of 10 and 20.
15. Does maturing early or late have a life
long effect?
Early matured Late matured
16. Does maturing early or late have a life
long effect?
• Boys who mature early are
tall and strong. Their
classmates admire them.
They are considered more
attractive . They are
selected as leaders. They
excel in sports. They are
treated as adults
• They are more flexible ,
• They are more assertive ,
rebellious impulsive and
perceptive
Early matured Late matured
17. Is there a right time for discussing
sexuality (discussion)
• Did your parents talk about sex?
– If yes – how was the information given
– If no how did you get information?
– Are you okay with giving the information you have
got to your children?
– Are there still questions about sex that you don’t
know?
– Do you wish you were better informed?
18. Is there a right time for discussing
sexuality? (discussion)
• There is no right or wrong age to discuss sex.
• It is good if the information given to your child
comes from you and it is a match for the child’s
intellectual and emotional level.
• Parents can help themselves and there child by
admitting that they ,too, are uncomfortable
about discussing sex but feel that it is too
important an issue to neglect.
• Your honesty will put your child at ease and
he/she will be able to voice her concerns and
questions
20. Masturbation
Masturbation refers to
sexual stimulation of a
person's own genitals,
usually to the point of
orgasm. The stimulation
can be performed
manually, by use of objects
or tools, or by some
combination of these
methods
21. Masturbation
Who Masturbates?
Just about everybody. Masturbation is a very common
behavior, even among people who have sexual relations
with a partner. In one national study, 95% of males and
89% of females reported that they have masturbated.
Masturbation is the first sexual act experienced by most
males and females. In young children, masturbation is a
normal part of the growing child's exploration of his or
her body. Most people continue to masturbate in
adulthood, and many do so throughout their lives.
22. Why Do People Masturbate?
In addition to feeling good, masturbation is a good way of
relieving the sexual tension that can build up over time,
especially for people without partners or whose partners
are not willing or available for sex. Masturbation also is a
safe sexual alternative for people who wish to avoid
pregnancy and the dangers of sexually transmitted
diseases. It also is necessary when a man must give a
semen sample for infertility testing or for sperm donation.
When sexual dysfunction is present in an adult,
masturbation may be prescribed by a sex therapist to allow
a person to experience an orgasm (often in women) or to
delay its arrival (often in men).
23. Is Masturbation Normal?
While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a
mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal,
healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable,
and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and
can be done throughout life.
Masturbation is only considered a problem when it inhibits
sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes
significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is
done compulsively and/or interferes with daily life and
activities.
25. The child was beaten up by his dad
because he was masturbating
26. Wet dreams
“I sometimes wake up with a wet, sticky spot
on my underwear or pajama pants. It's not
urine, so what is it?”
27. Wet dreams
– "wet dream” is something that can be embarrassing and
confusing to teen guys, but is completely normal.
– A wet dream is also known as a nocturnal emission.
Nocturnal means "at night" and emission means
"discharge."
– This makes sense because a wet dream is when semen
(the fluid containing sperm) is discharged from the penis
during ejaculation while a guy's asleep.
– Usually wet dreams occur during dreams that have
sexual images. Sometimes guys wake up from a wet
dream, but sometimes they sleep through it.
28. Wet dreams
– Wet dreams begin during puberty when the body starts
making more testosterone, the major male hormone.
– Although some guys may feel embarrassed or even
guilty about having wet dreams, they can't be controlled
and you can't stop them from happening
— most guys experience them at some point during
puberty and even sometimes as adults.
– Wet dreams are normal, they are believed to happen
when the body is not getting release from the hormonal
build up of the teen years or sudden "dry spells" in
sexually active individuals.
29. Wet dreams
- Girls do get wet dreams, but they are far more
common and much messier in guys.
-Masturbation can, but won't always, put a stop to
frequent wet dreams.
-Some experts theorize that wet dreams are one of
the many sub conscious ways that the body handles
stress - they seem to happen more frequently in teens
and young adults because this age group is thought to
be under extreme stress.
30. Wet Dreams
-Wet dreams are not drug induced.
-Wet dreams do not signal a sexual
abnormality or mean you are sexually
deviant.
-Wet dreams have nothing to do with
being gay or straight, the type of wet
dreams you have in no way represent
your sexuality.
31. Wet dreams
•Wet dreams about taboo subjects like; incest, animals, rape, sex with a
superior or elder, public sex, group sex, and homosexuality are common
and do not have anything to do with your waking sexual preferences (it
doesn't mean you secretly want to do these things).
• There is no reason to ever feel guilty about having a wet dream, they
are subconscious and can not be easily controlled or manipulated.
• Many people have wet dreams and don't even know it is happening,
for guys the morning mess is often the only evidence and for girls they
can go unnoticed - for this reason they may be more common in girls
than is currently believed (under reporting may be the real reason girls
seem to have them less often).
32. Wet dreams
-Wet dreams about taboo subjects like; incest,
animals, rape, sex with a superior or elder,
public sex, group sex, and homosexuality are
common and do not have anything to do with
your waking sexual preferences (it doesn't mean
you secretly want to do these things).
-There is no reason to ever feel guilty about
having a wet dream, they are subconscious and
can not be easily controlled or manipulated.
33. Wet Dreams
Many people have wet dreams and don't even
know it is happening, for guys the morning mess
is often the only evidence and for girls they can
go unnoticed - for this reason they may be more
common in girls than is currently believed (under
reporting may be the real reason girls seem to
have them less often).
36. Break up of UTERUS
Uterus: U + TER + US
‘U’ means ‘you’,
‘Ter’ means ‘three’,
‘Us’ means together.
37. UTERUS
ZERO SPACE Place of creation
Child grows from
the union of an
ova and sperm
From Nothing
more than love
and light a
complex Human
being is created
44. What is UTERUS?
• Perimetrium(ou
termost layer)
• Myometrium
(middle layer)
• Endometrium(in
nermost layer)
PERI + METRIUM
MY+ O + METRIUM
ENDO + METRIUM
YOUR UTERUS IS MADE UP OF THREE LAYERS
45. What is UTERUS?
• Around the womb
• My (muscle around
the womb)
• Innermost layer of
the womb
PERI + METRIUM
MY+ O + METRIUM
ENDO + METRIUM
METRIUM= Matrix =breeding female =womb
48. Endometrium= Endo [inner most]
Endo=end + o
End of a chapter
Metrium = matrix of blood relations
49. What is endometrium lining?
If the conception does not occur, this layer sheds
off during menstruation.
BLOOD LINE MATRIX
IDENTITY
NAME
RELIGION
VALVE SYSTEM
BELIEFS
LANGAUGE
54. Reasons for painful periods
EstrogenProgesterone
SEX HORMONES
puberty
TALKING ABOUT SEX IS A
WE HIDE AND LIE
55. Reasons for painful periods
EstrogenProgesterone
SEX HORMONES
puberty
SCARED OF PREGNANCY
56.
57.
58. FEAR
I DON’T KNOW WHAT
IS HAPPENING TO ME?
UDIN’S
MY BODY AS AN
EMBARRASSMENT
ANXIETY
NO CORRECT
KNOWLEDGE
PREGNANY
MEN ARE DANGEROUS
59. .
She is told that
she has to be
careful, because
she is a good girl
and good girls
only get pregnant
after marriage.
This may create
painful periods