3. General info about hosting Communication Students have strict instruction from me to ask questions when they don’t know something and when they are not sure about something Treat the student like your own child Patience
4. First Things to Talk About Hygiene Punctuality/time management Appliances Chores Budgeting Internet & phone usage Interaction with host family and classmates Conserving energy
5. Cultural differences to be aware of Eye contact Giving things with left hands Picking nose Politically correct words and statements “the finger” American English vs. British English Pants vs. trousers
6. Africans and pets Most Africans do not like dogs Dogs in Africa are not friendly Dogs are use for security, they are rarely seen as pets Please explain to your student that your dog is friendly and encourage them to pet them
8. Winter They will be scared at first but they adjust easily Most of them will say a few weeks into the winter that they “love the snow but hate the cold” If you don’t have a winter coat for your student(s), we have a few donated ones in the office that we could send you Reminders about hats and mittens/winter safety
9. Hosting a Muslim Student Pray 5 times a day Do ablution before each prayers –use bathtub Mosque on Fridays; however, most of them understand that they won’t be able to go to mosque every Fridays Do not eat pork Most of the girls will wear a headscarf (Hijab)
10. Ramadan Starts on August 21st Ends on September 20th Students will be fasting from sunrise to sunset Please make a plate for them the night before Give them an alarm End of Ramadan there is a feast called EidFitr If you can, take your student to the nearest mosque that day
11. School Have to take at least a semester of American Government or History Take a year of English We also encourage them to take a “fun” class Encourage the students be involved with sports, plays, clubs, and art classes
13. STIPEND CHECKS, HEALTH INSURANCE AND SCHOOL START UP FUND Martha Pope IRIS Operations Manager
14. African Hair Hair You can find most hair product at your local Sally’s Beauty Supply or at Target in the ethnic hair section In case they want to braid their hair: It cost a lot of money to have extensions done You can find a hair salon in big cities (Des Moines, Cedar Rapids, Omaha) Some of the YES students can braid hair.
15. African Skin African skin gets extremely dry especially during the winter. Any lotion, especially for dry skin, will help the student. It is important that they use a lot of lotion
16. YES Program Rules There are two types of rules: Probationary Rules Dismissive Rules
17. Probationary Rules A few examples of Probationary Rules: Less than 2 hours of community service per month Failure to be involved in family and school activities Failure to use your stipend money while in the program Less than a C grade in any class
19. Dismissive Rules As a general rule, all YES students must obey the laws of the United States of America and the State of Iowa. If found guilty of violating any law, they will be returned home as soon as possible.
22. Community Service Students are not allow to work for pay. Everything should be volunteer work. At least two hours of community service every month. They could volunteer at the church, school, nursing home, make presentations, etc…
23. Communication with IRIS An IRIS staff will call you and your student(s) at least twice a month Please use this opportunity to share any concerns/issues you may have with the student(s) If any issue arises, we will be more than happy to help and even come to your home if you need us to do so. An IRIS staff will call the school at least once a month
24. Advice from former host family and former YES student Mike and Faye Adamu Ibrahim
25. Thank you Dr. Saidu Yakubu West Africa Country Coordinator