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SSS/Anand_Self leadership program

5/18/2012

Sri Suprabatha Sabha, Chennai -33

Self awareness improvement Workshop for ‘Leaders’ of tomorrow

Title : Today for “MY” better tomorrow
•Venue : SSS , Baroda street , Chennai -33
•Time : 6.30 pm – 9 pm – 3 days ( 14 /15/16th May 2012)
•Recommended age group : > 12 years
•All should participate with open mind
•English , Tamil – both language acceptable for discussion
•Interested parents are also invited for witnessing the workshop
•40 page note book , pen , pencil and eraser should be carried
•Chart paper (big sheet ) + sketch pens ( all colors ) to be brought
•LCD projector is required
•Laptop would be brought by Mr.Anand
•If some extra time is taken , children /parents to be patient
•Children should be fed sufficiently by 6 pm
•There will be two 5 min brake in between for children to relax
•Home work shall be given
Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare !
Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program

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Agenda for 3 days workshop
Day 1 Day 2 Day 3

Self awareness Self Leadership Goal setting

•Values •Faith •Time management
•Character •Self Motivation •Theory of Karma
•Behavior •Balance of life •How to shape future
•Attitudes •Success and Failures •SWOT analysis
•Perception •6 Enemies •Goal setting exercise
•Personality •Need for change • Peace and Happiness
•Communication •Ownership
•Purpose of Life •Responsibility
• Self contentment


Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare ! SSS/Anand_Self leadership program

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VANDE MAHA PURUSHATE CHARANARAVINDAM!

1. Values
2. Character & Behavior
3. Attitude and Perception
4. Personality
5. Communication
6. Goal(s )for our life
7. Self leadership
8. Goal setting
9. Time management
10. Faith and self motivation
11. Theory of KARMA
12. Success and Failures
13. 6 Enemies of our life
14. Change !
15. Accept Life ‘as it comes “
16. Future
17. Duty
18. Which is True happiness for our life ?


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What is ‘VALUE s“ in life ?
Strong belief , principle of life

It really drives our every activity

If we do not have values … our life is waste !

List some great men and the values they stood for ? –
Discussions for 10 minutes !


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VALUE BASED LIFE


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Value Based Life


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Value System

Can we make a Values Chart for ourselves ?

Ramayana gives us the ‘Collective Values for a Society”

Values have no caste , creed , nation , language , religion , race –
no barriers at all


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1.
2.
Truthfulness
God Loving For Discussions with Children
3. Kindness
4. Unconditional love
5. Balanced mind
6. Treat all same ( equanimity)
7. Courage and Fortitude of Mind
8. Health both body and mind
9. Never quit friendship
10. Never mind others mistakes
11. Treat a small help ‘ great “
12. Gratitude
13. Forgiving nature
14. Empathy
15. Self Confidence
16. Humility
17. Responsibility and ownership
18. Proactive

Add on if you think right

•WHO IS THE ‘ MAN “ WITH BEST CHARACTER IN THIS WORLD

VALUE BASED CONSISTENT BEHAVIOR FORMS A CHARACTER

A CHARACTER SHAPES A LIFE

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Some thoughts ….

- treat others the same way as u expect to be treated

- be aware that we are constantly watched

"SOW THINKING REAP ACTION, SOW ACTION REAP HABIT, SOW
HABIT REAP CHARACTER,SOW CHARACTER REAP DESTINY"


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How to
Do you motivate
know U have own self ?
a magical
tree in U ?

Positive
Key to attitude !
Super
happiness !
power !


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ATTITUDE


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Discussions on

1. Perception
2. Perception barriers


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PERCEPTION

Miracles happen in someone’s life occasionally …

If you chant ‘ MAHAMANTRA “ i.e RAMA’s divine name

Life itself is a Miracle …..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pl experience


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Discussion on attitudes /
PERCEPTION of
1. Sugriva
2. Duriyodhana
3. Devas
4. Asuras
5. Prahladha
6. Bhisma
7. Vibhisana


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BHISMA’S STRORY

•Knowledge
•Valor
•Attitude
•Perception
•His end


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• Demography How a person
reacts to a
Social • Race situation in life
Environment
is called
personality

PERSONALITY
Character
• Values

Behavior
Values
Family/Culture • Wealth
• Religion

• Status ATTITUDE Perception

Job /Friends
• Training
• Education
•Thoughts
•Actions
•Words

Communication

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COMMUNICATION – THE PROCESS

Coding
Sender Barriers Receiver

•Visual medium – maximum reach
•Listening process
•Asking questions Ex: Saying Yes
by Nodding !


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COMMUNICATION –
BARRIERS

Prior
Voice experience
modulations

Ugly Attitude
gestures

Culture Perceptions
/language


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COMMUNICATION – LIFE LINE !

Verbal /Oral

• Language /Sounds /AV
• Voice modulation / Softness
• Choice of Words

Non verbal
Audio Video aids
• Written
• Body language
• Gestures
• Video
Listening is
communication


FAITHFULNESS !!!!

Sincerity Patience


FAITHFULNESS !!!!

Prayer can Make Impossible Possible

•Chanting Lord’s Holy name with Sincerity & Patience

•Mahamantra is God’s Cell Phone No.

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare


Purpose of Human Life
To ask this questions

1. What is Self Awareness ?
2.
3.
Who Am I ?
Why did I get this human body ?
Purpose of
4. From where do I come from ? Life ?
5. Where do I go to ?
6. Why people suffer or be happy ?
7. Why I was not born as an animal or else?
8. In which way I am different ?
9. Can I enjoy permanent happiness ?
10. Can I see God ?

& Find answers also


ONE ness !!!!
ONE
Living
(GOD)
World
Non
LIVING

Wisdom
5 basic elements
Artificial Natural 1. Sky /space
2. Air
3. Water
4. Fire
5. Earth

Intelligence
1. Sound/Ears
Emotional
Feelings
Human 2.
3.
Sense /Skin
Vision /eyes
5 senses
Mind beings 4. Taste / tongue
5. Smell /Nose


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SELF DEVELOPMENT / LEADERSHIP
Environment

Econo Profe
my ssion
al

G G

Environment
O Personality
Values /
Social O
A A
Menta Awareness /
l will to achieve
goals

L L
S S
Physic
Spiritu al
al


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6 Enemies I fight every day !
Anger

Desire

A tree with 2 seeds and 6
big fruits ?

Pride
Miserlines
s

I , My

Discrimination

Possessiveness


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Story of well frogs
!!!!! And snakes

‘Constant’
Inevitable
for all in this
/unavoidable
world and
universe

Accept it / Painful
don’t resist as If we do not
it is natural accept it , will be
forced to ----------


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Thoughts

Words

Action

Excellence in Thoughts , Words and Action

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6 Enemies I fight every day !
Anger

Desire

A tree with 2 seeds and 6
big fruits ?

Pride
Miserlines
s

I , My

Discretion

Possessiveness



Theory of Karma

• Speak NO Evil

• See NO Evil

• Hear NO Evil

THREE WISE MONKEYS
Purpose of mouth is say only good things , eyes are see only good ,
hear only good …

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Remember ‘GIGO’ always

Garbage IN Garbage
Good IN Good


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TIME MANAGEMENT

50 to60% of your life spent
in sleeping
•Life is short …. 20% life goes in childhood
•Can I waste Time ? Noooooo! 10% is only available for
•I think I can fix my priority growth
•I can carry a list – things to do ? 20% illness , old age , family
•I make lot of plans but never follow it?? No ??!!
• What is an ‘early bird” ?


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Time management

Hey … I want to manage my time
effectively from this sofa … in front
of TV


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TIME MANAGEMENT - ART
DECISION MAKING
• Decide quickly
• Take plunge Hey ! I have decided
• All decisions have + and –
• Good or bad decision depends on
to jump !
result
• Hindsight , all are intelligent

•Success has lot of
fathers ! But failure is
an orphan !

•Experience is a comb
given when I am bald !


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Time management

Give your
comments ?


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Time management

U want to do or don’t want to do …?

24 hours is too short !
Can I get more hours /
day ?!!!! Napoleon


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Time lost cannot be regained
All of us walk towards ‘death “ only “
Never say tomorrow … do it right
now
Don’t worry about past .. As u do not
live there anymore ….
Giving excuses is an habit ….


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Time management

Time is
circular for
European

Time is linear
for Asians


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Time management Some
thoughts for
time
management

•Casual approach to time
•TV
•Chats
•Extended play hours
•Being aware of waste of time
•Time sense is a habit
•Be careful of time wasters
•Excellent time is morning
•Physical exercise
•Eating time
•Observe the world
•Walking or cycling
Balance of •Time to Talk to parents ( 10
time mins)
•Temple time
•Prayer time

• Plan
•Prioritize
• Schedule
• Follow up
• Write down your time
•Exercise : Own time chart schedule
•Prepare
•Follow
•Monitor utilization

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Nothing is sweeter than success !
NOTHING FAILS LIKE SUCCESS !
Longest and shortest journey starts
with the ‘FIRST “ little step


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1. Success and Failure – two sides of the same coin
2. No failure …. No success
3. A success cal always be succeeded by a failure
4. Success without failure has no taste
5. One’s success is another’s failure
6. Being always No.1 is a tough situation
7. We can do our best … but we cannot stop others doing better !
8. Always ask , did I give my 100%


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Past is only Present is in Future is
an your hand and hidden
experience is real ..ACT


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Short term Medium term

Long term Dream Goals


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SWOT analysis .. Let us do for ourselves

Let’s do our
individual SWOT


REMEMBER … ALWAYS DUTY

Duty is the Motivator
• Kick start
1. Always have FAITH in GOD • Smooth start
2. Develop a positive attitude
3. Do not appreciate others mistakes
4. Learn to forgive
5. Neither live in past /nor fear future/ Live NOW Duty is our energizer
6. If you commit a mistake , apologize • Gives energy
7. Appreciate others lavishly for their good • Refills
8. Carry a ‘smile’ always !
9. Do not worry about failure !
10. Ensure that you give your best always
11. Remember we will become ‘Old “ one day Duty is happiness & peace
12. Remember GOD is always watching
• God likes those who is dutiful
13. Be assured that GOD is impartial
• Ultimate reward
14. Be patient and never stop praying and working hard
15. Say to yourself ‘I make my life”

THE PURPOSE OF LIFE IS LIFE OF PURPOSE!!!

WE HAVE DUTY TOWARDS
1. Our ancestors who are no more

2. Living parents

3. Teacher /Saints

4. Mother earth /Nature

5. Animals , birds , poor and needy

6. A supreme power which shapes our life (GOD)


7 HABITS OF EFFECTIVE PEOPLE -SUMMARY


FIVE SECRETS BEFORE U DIE !


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HANUMAN STORY – MESSAGE

Self Confidence

Knowledge

Power

Team player
Becoming
Self
Realization
Self
Leadership
a ROLE
MODEL
Obedience

•Values •Faith
•Self Realized soul Self motivation
•Peaceful and contented
•Discipline •Self Motivation
•Unconditional Love
•Character •Value of our life
•Motivate others by deeds
•Attitude & Perception •Control over 6 enemies
•Education /senses
•Create leaders
•No one can repay to him
Selflessness
•Purpose of Life •Goal orientation
•Effective communicator


THANK U MY DEAR FRIENDS ….


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