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Great Days Workshop:
Part 3 - Values

Suzanne Hazelton
working with individuals and teams
to THRIVE!
© 2013 - Suzanne Hazelton

© 2013 Suzanne Hazelton
Paths to happiness

Enjoy the moment

Be in flow

Finding meaning & purpose

2
Purpose
Sweet Spot

Hedonic

Flow
3
"If you don't know
where you're going, any
road'll take you there“
~ Alice in Wonderland
“If you're trying to achieve, there will
be roadblocks. I've had them;
everybody has had them. But obstacles
don't have to stop you. If you run into a
wall, don't turn around and give up.
Figure out how to climb it, go through
it, or work around it.” ~ Michael Jordan
For most people, figuring out
our vision, is less like a flash
of lightning. It often takes a
bit more thought. I’ve found
it to be an iterative process.
A process of hewing and
refinement.
It’s been said that most people
spend more time planning their
summer holidays than they do
their life.

Picture: Where’s Wally: http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/news/wheres-the-brains-behind-wally-6261459.html
Picture © 2013 Natalie Rose – http://natalie-rose8.deviantart.com/art/Dare-to-dream-296273574
If you’re not building your
dream – you’ll find you’re
contributing to someone
else’s.
Does that work for you?
Our Greatest Fear
It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other
people won't feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the glory of
God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.
Marianne Williamson
Picture: By NASA, ESA, and the Hubble Heritage Team (STScI/AURA) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
Time to get practical. Every
masterpiece starts somewhere …

Picture: http://100swallows.wordpress.com/2009/05/20/how-to-carve-a-figure-in-marble/
Lifetime
Goals
•
•
•
•

Note what
you enjoy

“Towards”
Discover your
values
80th
Birthday

success

“Away from”

Visualisation
Reminder of context: e.g. Business
CONTEXT
“Business”
Most
Important

Least
Important

Scale
Cards

Not at all
important

Your values,
sorted

Marginally
Important

Reasonably
Important

Not at all
important

Download a set of values cards from:
http://www.thebusinessofchange.co.uk/resources/free-personal-development

Important

Very
important

Not at all
important

Not at all
Not at all
important
important

13
• Find the 7 or 8 values which are the most
important to you. Are values are the criteria
by which we make (some) decisions. It can be
useful to know what the underlying criteria
behind your decisions are.
• It’s also useful to know that sometimes values
may clash – this can be a source of conflict.
More information can be found in Chapter 4 of Great Days At Work
Values Conflicts
Openness
to change

Self-Direction
Creativity
Freedom

Self-transcendence

Universalism
Social Justice,
Equality

Benevolence

Stimulation

Helpfulness

Exciting Life

Conformity

Hedonism

Obedience

Pleasure

Achievement
Success
Ambition

Self-enhancement

Tradition
Humility
Devoutness

Security
Social Order

Power
Authority
Wealth

Conservation
15
You did the activity – well done!
Take a moment to celebrate.
Suzanne Hazelton’s contact details
Suzanne is a leadership coach, working with individuals and teams to THRIVE! A
positive psychologist, coach and trainer – she’s worked with thousands of people.
She’s the author of not just one, but two books: Raise Your Game, and Great Days at
Work (Kogan Page). She’s a contributing author to a third: Entrepreneurs Succeed
With Us. She works with a range of clients on people & thriving related topics.

• Email:
suzanne@thebusinessofchange.co.uk
• Twitter: @SuzanneHazelton

© 2013 Suzanne Hazelton
References
Schwartz, S. (2005). Basic Human Values: An Overview.
http://www.unienna.it/scienzepsicologiche/doc/tirocinio/Schwartz_paper.pdf
Schwartz, S. H., & Sagiv, L. (1995). Identifying culture-specifics in the content and structure
of values. Journal of Cross-Cultural Psychology, 26(1), 92-116. doi:
10.1177/0022022195261007

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Values as a path to happiness & fulfillment

  • 1. Great Days Workshop: Part 3 - Values Suzanne Hazelton working with individuals and teams to THRIVE! © 2013 - Suzanne Hazelton © 2013 Suzanne Hazelton
  • 2. Paths to happiness Enjoy the moment Be in flow Finding meaning & purpose 2
  • 4. "If you don't know where you're going, any road'll take you there“ ~ Alice in Wonderland
  • 5. “If you're trying to achieve, there will be roadblocks. I've had them; everybody has had them. But obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.” ~ Michael Jordan
  • 6. For most people, figuring out our vision, is less like a flash of lightning. It often takes a bit more thought. I’ve found it to be an iterative process. A process of hewing and refinement.
  • 7. It’s been said that most people spend more time planning their summer holidays than they do their life. Picture: Where’s Wally: http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/news/wheres-the-brains-behind-wally-6261459.html
  • 8. Picture © 2013 Natalie Rose – http://natalie-rose8.deviantart.com/art/Dare-to-dream-296273574
  • 9. If you’re not building your dream – you’ll find you’re contributing to someone else’s. Does that work for you?
  • 10. Our Greatest Fear It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, Our presence automatically liberates others. Marianne Williamson Picture: By NASA, ESA, and the Hubble Heritage Team (STScI/AURA) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
  • 11. Time to get practical. Every masterpiece starts somewhere … Picture: http://100swallows.wordpress.com/2009/05/20/how-to-carve-a-figure-in-marble/
  • 12. Lifetime Goals • • • • Note what you enjoy “Towards” Discover your values 80th Birthday success “Away from” Visualisation
  • 13. Reminder of context: e.g. Business CONTEXT “Business” Most Important Least Important Scale Cards Not at all important Your values, sorted Marginally Important Reasonably Important Not at all important Download a set of values cards from: http://www.thebusinessofchange.co.uk/resources/free-personal-development Important Very important Not at all important Not at all Not at all important important 13
  • 14. • Find the 7 or 8 values which are the most important to you. Are values are the criteria by which we make (some) decisions. It can be useful to know what the underlying criteria behind your decisions are. • It’s also useful to know that sometimes values may clash – this can be a source of conflict. More information can be found in Chapter 4 of Great Days At Work
  • 15. Values Conflicts Openness to change Self-Direction Creativity Freedom Self-transcendence Universalism Social Justice, Equality Benevolence Stimulation Helpfulness Exciting Life Conformity Hedonism Obedience Pleasure Achievement Success Ambition Self-enhancement Tradition Humility Devoutness Security Social Order Power Authority Wealth Conservation 15
  • 16. You did the activity – well done! Take a moment to celebrate.
  • 17. Suzanne Hazelton’s contact details Suzanne is a leadership coach, working with individuals and teams to THRIVE! A positive psychologist, coach and trainer – she’s worked with thousands of people. She’s the author of not just one, but two books: Raise Your Game, and Great Days at Work (Kogan Page). She’s a contributing author to a third: Entrepreneurs Succeed With Us. She works with a range of clients on people & thriving related topics. • Email: suzanne@thebusinessofchange.co.uk • Twitter: @SuzanneHazelton © 2013 Suzanne Hazelton
  • 18. References Schwartz, S. (2005). Basic Human Values: An Overview. http://www.unienna.it/scienzepsicologiche/doc/tirocinio/Schwartz_paper.pdf Schwartz, S. H., & Sagiv, L. (1995). Identifying culture-specifics in the content and structure of values. Journal of Cross-Cultural Psychology, 26(1), 92-116. doi: 10.1177/0022022195261007