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How to ALTER Your BELIEF
System and CHANGE Your Life
ALTER YOUR LIFE WITH 5 BELIEFS
• Believe You Matter
• Believe Life Matters
• Believe there are amazing stories of potential
within you
• Believe Relationships Matter Most
• Believe you can make a difference
• You are important. There is value to
your existence.
• You are a person of worth.
• It makes a tremendous difference to
the world that you exist.
• There are things that you were meant
to do and become what you want to be.
• You matter because you belong to the
human family and therefore have an
innate meaning and purpose.
BELIEVE YOU MATTER
• Not only do you matter but life itself matters.
• We are only given one mortal life to discover and fulfil our
purpose, to develop our talents, abilities and character, to love
and lead and become the best we can.
• Life is dynamic and explosive filled with creativity, wonderful and
crazy moments.
• Because life matters and we have a finite amount of time to live it
to the fullest.
• Build a life that is rich with significance meaning towards life
which will unfold its greatest rewards to you.
BELIEVE LIFE MATTERS
• Belief is the first step. No matter how far
away you are today from where you want to
be, believe you can develop those attributes,
attitudes and skills necessary to rise to the
level of your willingness to grow and
succeed.
• Believe in the amazing exceptionalism of the
human being.
• Those who believe in their potential, take
steps to eliminate those obstacles that stand
in the way.
• Dig down deep in search of that hidden
potential and polish it up to a golden shine!
BELIEVE THERE ARE AMAZING
STORIES OF POTENTIAL WITHIN YOU
• You recognize the only way your relationships
will be given the time needed to be beautiful
is spending quality time with them
• You make room for the most crucial
relationships in your life
• Your relationships in many ways determines
the value of the life you live because your
value is not ultimately found in your bank
account.
• It is in the lives you touch, those you reach
out to and the seeds of kindness, respect and
love you plant around yourself makes you
smile at the end of the day.
BELIEVE RELATIONSHIPS
MATTER MOST
• You can live a profound life by adding
meaning and purpose to life by doing
meaningful and purposeful things.
• Believe you have the capacity for great
things in life by touching a life and
making it better.
• You believe that people matter and you
take action to serve them.
• You join organizations that makes a
difference in the lives of others.
• You send little ripples of service and
kindness out into the world.
BELIEVE YOU CAN MAKE A
DIFFERENCE
“If you believe
in yourself,
anything and
everything is
possible”
WHAT IS YOUR LIMIT?
SKY OR YOUR BELIEF?
SKY IS NOT
THE LIMIT,
YOUR BELIEF
SYSTEM IS THE
LIMIT.
WHAT ARE LIMITING
BELIEFS?
Limiting beliefs are false
beliefs that prevent us from
pursuing our goals and
desires.
Like the elephant that remains
stuck to the fence post, these
limiting beliefs keep us in place
without us even realizing it.
Which are the three areas you get
limiting beliefs about yourself ?
PERSONAL
TRAITS
FEELINGS
AGE
AGE
For example, some people think they’re too old to start a
business while others think they’re too young.
Which one is it?
Many people use age as an excuse to not do the
things they wish to do. A lot of people think they’re
too old to go back to school, change careers,
start dating again, or even just learn some new skill.
At the other end of the spectrum, I often hear
from people who think they’re too young to
apply for an awesome job, move to a new city, or
change career
PERSONAL TRAITS
The tough part about limiting beliefs around our personal traits
is that we (usually) can’t change them.
So if we’ve decided that the world will simply forever hate us
because we’re short, well, we will feel doomed by that for the
rest of our lives.
Maybe you think you’re too dumb to apply
for a scholarship, or a certain school, or job,
or even just have a conversation about
something “smart” with someone.
Maybe you think you’re
too ugly to talk to
anyone who’s even
remotely attractive.
FEELINGS
Not doing these things is what leads to the vicious cycle of these
kinds of limiting beliefs: we don’t do something we should because
of our current feelings , and doing nothing leads to more of those
feelings. Go figure.
I can’t go back to work because I’m too embarrassed.
If you’re easily embarrassed, facing the judgment of
others is the only way to get over that
embarrassment.
I can’t have a good relationship because I’m too
angry all the time.
If you’re so angry at someone you don’t want to talk
to them, chances are that talking to them will help
you get over your anger.
Which are the three areas you get
limiting beliefs about the world ?
PREJUDICE BEING SPECIAL
DISAPRROVAL
DISAPRROVAL
If you’re considering something and your first thought
is,
“What would people think?” you’ve already
lost.
I can’t talk to them because people
will think I’m weird.
I can’t quit grad school because mom
and dad will be disappointed.
I can’t leave my cushy job to take
a lower-paying job that I’d enjoy
more because people won’t
respect me.
PREJUDICE
One way to think about these issues is that while they may
be true population-wide, they are not true from individual
to individual.
Besides, the only way to overcome these prejudices in
society is for individuals to stand up for themselves. Why
not be that individual?
I’m Asian, and women don’t like Asian
men, so I’ll never find a girlfriend.
I’m short, and short people make less
money than tall people, so I didn’t try for
that promotion.
I’m a woman, and people
don’t listen to women’s
ideas, so I’ll just keep quiet
at work meetings
BEING SPECIAL
This is really just a perverse form of entitlement.
We think the world owes us something because we’re
so special, but the world doesn’t understand our
specialness, so why even try? We’ll never get what
we’re owed. Because you are you and you have your
own self importance.
I want to make music, but no one
appreciates my electric influences.
I want to write comedy, but no one
would understand my sophisticated
humor.
I have a business idea, but nobody
understands my vision
Which are the three areas you get
limiting beliefs about your Life ?
TIME IT DOESN’T
EXIST
MISSED
THE BOAT
MISSED THE BOAT
Underneath it all is the belief that there’s just not enough
left for us. There are not enough customers, not enough
ideas, not enough money, not enough time, not enough love.
The world is a big place. There’s plenty of room for you and
me and anybody else who wants to dive in.
Wanna be entrepreneurs complain that
“someone’s already built that.
But have you ever considered the fact that
someone else already making money off
something is actually evidence
you should start a business and compete with
them?
The aspiring novelist laments that their
idea has already been written. Hell,
write it better!
TIME
When someone says, “I don’t have time!” What I hear is, “I don’t
care enough!” Because the fact is that if you made that change a
priority, you’d clear your schedule and/or re -organize your schedule
around it
Possibly the most common excuse I see from
people, especially those who are considering a
major lifestyle change like changing their diet,
exercising more, reading more books, etc., is that
old complaint about time:
“I’m too busy. I don’t have the time!”
But you know how they say if someone
really likes you, they’ll find a way to
spend time with you? Well, if you really
want to do something, you’ll find a way
to make time for it too.
IT DOES NOT EXIST
Perhaps the most unshakeable limiting beliefs have to
do with what actually exists and what doesn’t exist.
Sometimes we choose to believe things are
impossible as a way to prevent ourselves from trying
and failing to achieve them.
Love between two people is fleeting at best
and made up at worst, so why even look for
it?”
Success is just a fabricated ideal created by
society to control us, so why do anything?”
HOW TO
OVERCOME YOUR
LIMITING BELIEFS?
Ask Yourself, “What If I’m
Wrong?”
Ask Yourself, “How Is This Belief Serving
Me?”
Create Alternative Beliefs
Test Those Alternative Beliefs to See
If They Might Be True
Ask yourself Why?
Ask yourself where you are
unhappy or dissatisfied in life?
“NO MATTER WHAT ANYBODY
SAYS,
WHAT MATTERS MOST IS
WHAT YOU THINK OF
YOURSELF”
~MANABI MAITY
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How to alter your belief system

  • 1. A R E Y O U R E A D Y T O S U P E R C H A R G E Y O U R L I F E ? How to ALTER Your BELIEF System and CHANGE Your Life
  • 2. ALTER YOUR LIFE WITH 5 BELIEFS • Believe You Matter • Believe Life Matters • Believe there are amazing stories of potential within you • Believe Relationships Matter Most • Believe you can make a difference
  • 3. • You are important. There is value to your existence. • You are a person of worth. • It makes a tremendous difference to the world that you exist. • There are things that you were meant to do and become what you want to be. • You matter because you belong to the human family and therefore have an innate meaning and purpose. BELIEVE YOU MATTER
  • 4. • Not only do you matter but life itself matters. • We are only given one mortal life to discover and fulfil our purpose, to develop our talents, abilities and character, to love and lead and become the best we can. • Life is dynamic and explosive filled with creativity, wonderful and crazy moments. • Because life matters and we have a finite amount of time to live it to the fullest. • Build a life that is rich with significance meaning towards life which will unfold its greatest rewards to you. BELIEVE LIFE MATTERS
  • 5. • Belief is the first step. No matter how far away you are today from where you want to be, believe you can develop those attributes, attitudes and skills necessary to rise to the level of your willingness to grow and succeed. • Believe in the amazing exceptionalism of the human being. • Those who believe in their potential, take steps to eliminate those obstacles that stand in the way. • Dig down deep in search of that hidden potential and polish it up to a golden shine! BELIEVE THERE ARE AMAZING STORIES OF POTENTIAL WITHIN YOU
  • 6. • You recognize the only way your relationships will be given the time needed to be beautiful is spending quality time with them • You make room for the most crucial relationships in your life • Your relationships in many ways determines the value of the life you live because your value is not ultimately found in your bank account. • It is in the lives you touch, those you reach out to and the seeds of kindness, respect and love you plant around yourself makes you smile at the end of the day. BELIEVE RELATIONSHIPS MATTER MOST
  • 7. • You can live a profound life by adding meaning and purpose to life by doing meaningful and purposeful things. • Believe you have the capacity for great things in life by touching a life and making it better. • You believe that people matter and you take action to serve them. • You join organizations that makes a difference in the lives of others. • You send little ripples of service and kindness out into the world. BELIEVE YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE
  • 8. “If you believe in yourself, anything and everything is possible”
  • 9. WHAT IS YOUR LIMIT? SKY OR YOUR BELIEF?
  • 10. SKY IS NOT THE LIMIT, YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM IS THE LIMIT.
  • 11. WHAT ARE LIMITING BELIEFS? Limiting beliefs are false beliefs that prevent us from pursuing our goals and desires. Like the elephant that remains stuck to the fence post, these limiting beliefs keep us in place without us even realizing it.
  • 12. Which are the three areas you get limiting beliefs about yourself ? PERSONAL TRAITS FEELINGS AGE
  • 13. AGE For example, some people think they’re too old to start a business while others think they’re too young. Which one is it? Many people use age as an excuse to not do the things they wish to do. A lot of people think they’re too old to go back to school, change careers, start dating again, or even just learn some new skill. At the other end of the spectrum, I often hear from people who think they’re too young to apply for an awesome job, move to a new city, or change career
  • 14. PERSONAL TRAITS The tough part about limiting beliefs around our personal traits is that we (usually) can’t change them. So if we’ve decided that the world will simply forever hate us because we’re short, well, we will feel doomed by that for the rest of our lives. Maybe you think you’re too dumb to apply for a scholarship, or a certain school, or job, or even just have a conversation about something “smart” with someone. Maybe you think you’re too ugly to talk to anyone who’s even remotely attractive.
  • 15. FEELINGS Not doing these things is what leads to the vicious cycle of these kinds of limiting beliefs: we don’t do something we should because of our current feelings , and doing nothing leads to more of those feelings. Go figure. I can’t go back to work because I’m too embarrassed. If you’re easily embarrassed, facing the judgment of others is the only way to get over that embarrassment. I can’t have a good relationship because I’m too angry all the time. If you’re so angry at someone you don’t want to talk to them, chances are that talking to them will help you get over your anger.
  • 16. Which are the three areas you get limiting beliefs about the world ? PREJUDICE BEING SPECIAL DISAPRROVAL
  • 17. DISAPRROVAL If you’re considering something and your first thought is, “What would people think?” you’ve already lost. I can’t talk to them because people will think I’m weird. I can’t quit grad school because mom and dad will be disappointed. I can’t leave my cushy job to take a lower-paying job that I’d enjoy more because people won’t respect me.
  • 18. PREJUDICE One way to think about these issues is that while they may be true population-wide, they are not true from individual to individual. Besides, the only way to overcome these prejudices in society is for individuals to stand up for themselves. Why not be that individual? I’m Asian, and women don’t like Asian men, so I’ll never find a girlfriend. I’m short, and short people make less money than tall people, so I didn’t try for that promotion. I’m a woman, and people don’t listen to women’s ideas, so I’ll just keep quiet at work meetings
  • 19. BEING SPECIAL This is really just a perverse form of entitlement. We think the world owes us something because we’re so special, but the world doesn’t understand our specialness, so why even try? We’ll never get what we’re owed. Because you are you and you have your own self importance. I want to make music, but no one appreciates my electric influences. I want to write comedy, but no one would understand my sophisticated humor. I have a business idea, but nobody understands my vision
  • 20. Which are the three areas you get limiting beliefs about your Life ? TIME IT DOESN’T EXIST MISSED THE BOAT
  • 21. MISSED THE BOAT Underneath it all is the belief that there’s just not enough left for us. There are not enough customers, not enough ideas, not enough money, not enough time, not enough love. The world is a big place. There’s plenty of room for you and me and anybody else who wants to dive in. Wanna be entrepreneurs complain that “someone’s already built that. But have you ever considered the fact that someone else already making money off something is actually evidence you should start a business and compete with them? The aspiring novelist laments that their idea has already been written. Hell, write it better!
  • 22. TIME When someone says, “I don’t have time!” What I hear is, “I don’t care enough!” Because the fact is that if you made that change a priority, you’d clear your schedule and/or re -organize your schedule around it Possibly the most common excuse I see from people, especially those who are considering a major lifestyle change like changing their diet, exercising more, reading more books, etc., is that old complaint about time: “I’m too busy. I don’t have the time!” But you know how they say if someone really likes you, they’ll find a way to spend time with you? Well, if you really want to do something, you’ll find a way to make time for it too.
  • 23. IT DOES NOT EXIST Perhaps the most unshakeable limiting beliefs have to do with what actually exists and what doesn’t exist. Sometimes we choose to believe things are impossible as a way to prevent ourselves from trying and failing to achieve them. Love between two people is fleeting at best and made up at worst, so why even look for it?” Success is just a fabricated ideal created by society to control us, so why do anything?”
  • 25. Ask Yourself, “What If I’m Wrong?”
  • 26. Ask Yourself, “How Is This Belief Serving Me?”
  • 28. Test Those Alternative Beliefs to See If They Might Be True
  • 30. Ask yourself where you are unhappy or dissatisfied in life?
  • 31. “NO MATTER WHAT ANYBODY SAYS, WHAT MATTERS MOST IS WHAT YOU THINK OF YOURSELF” ~MANABI MAITY Connect me on Instagram Follow @inspirer_manabi for more updates !