2. This time, like all times, is a good one if we
know what to do with it.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Food for thought
3. Fractal Theory
Dr. Jean Houston
Fractal Waves
Fractals are repetitions of the same pattern, even in the same
details in both the ascending and descending scales
Coastline versus coastal mountains
Vascular system: vein / artery branching
Atomic structure versus stellar structure
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Power of ten
4. Fractal Waves
Repetitions in the history of a people / race
Order arising out of chaos and heat: hot plasma of charged
particles at the creation of the earth
Hot plasma of charged nations and people today: new orders
in society
Bonding of the universe at atomic level as a result of heat.
Bonding at individual level as a result of shared history of
difficult times
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Fractal Theory
Dr. Jean Houston
5. So what does it mean for us?
Our dichotomies: Old order versus the new wave, sureness
versus the unknown
Sanctifying of stupidity versus trying new methods
Traditional ways of progress versus leveraging learning in
unrelated areas
Studying our patterns helps us see what we did to deal with
change and what we need to do today
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Fractal Theory
Dr. Jean Houston
6. Think of an experience of your earliest childhood:
something you may not have thought of for a long time
1. Draw a small wavy circle in the middle of your sheet and
draw this incident inside the circle.
2. Then draw another circle around the first and draw incidents
in it from later years, as your mind begins to see the patterns.
3. As the past coalesces into the present, draw the patterns in
your life currently, in the form of current events.
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Drawing Fractals – Stage 1
8. Drawing Fractals – Stage 2
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Find a partner – and share what you have
discovered about your fractal patterns
Have a conversation where you help one another see
new patterns that you may not have seen by yourself
If some information is private, you need not share it
Especially identify the thresholds and places of
‘Movement’ in your life. The decisions and actions you
took that led to your development.
10. Window of Opportunity
In the life of every man and woman comes a time
when they have a unique opportunity to make an
impact and influence others.
To succeed we need to anticipate, prepare and act
with courage when it opens
The window remains open only for a time
11. Living life is about making choices:
Choosing to be a “Victim”
Or choosing to be a “Master”
Both stances are subject to the same givens of society,
environment, organization etc.
But have very different implications in terms of your
development and happiness
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The time to choose is NOW
The Essential Truth
12. Distinguishing features
Victims
1. Whine about what
happened
2. Think of excuses
3. Blame others
4. Lose hope & give up
5. Perish
Masters
1. Say, “What can I do?”
2. Think of solutions
3. Own responsibility
4. Have courage to try new
ways
5. Win, even if they fail
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Possible only for those serious about success
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14. Price of My success?
In terms of the challenges that I face today, what
do I need to do if I want to be a ‘Master’ and not a
‘Victim’?
What is the investment in myself that I need to
make in order to succeed?
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Clarity about reward, sustains effort
10 minutes
16. I x U = R
2 x 4 = 6
My action (Your reaction) = Result
We can get whatever result we want by changing our
action
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Development is a product of thought, not time
17. Life is Math
Think of any interaction as an equation
It has two sides which produce the outcome
What happens on either side affects the outcome
We control only one side, but….
We can choose whatever outcome we want
Being proactive is to try to affect both sides
Being proactive is about sustained effort
It is about building a reputation of integrity
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18. Maximize ROI
What is our investment and what is the return?
What did we gain and what did we lose?
When you said ‘Yes’, what did you say ‘No’ to?
Return depends on investment but even
more on the multiplier
22. Am – Do – Get
Relationships are based on words.
Words are indicators of mental models and attitudes.
When words are changed the attitudes behind them
change as well.
And new ways of relating reveal themselves
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Who I Am influences what I Do,
which determines what I Get
23. Food for thought
“It is not because things are difficult that we do not
dare. It is because we do not dare that they are
difficult.” ~ Seneca
The reasonable man adapts himself to the situation.
The unreasonable man tries to change the situation
Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
~George Bernard Shaw
24. Tool
Imagine that you are listening to your own farewell
speech being delivered by someone who has
worked with you, for many years and knows you
very well.
What would you like to hear?
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25. Drawing Fractals – Stage 1
When you finish drawing, sit back in silence and reflect:
What is the optimal future that you see emerging for
yourself?
What signals for action are you getting from looking at your
own life story?
What patterns are positive and what do you need to stop doing?
What other messages are you getting from your drawing?
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