Understand my PPT Thanks!

1. COURTSHIP, DATING
and MARRIAGE
ALFRACE C. TASI
BPE-4A

2. Activity 1: FOUR PICS ONE WORD
Identify what word best describes the pictures.

4. COURTSHIP

6. TRADITIONAL
COURTSHIP

8. DATING

10. MARRIAGE

12. Courtship is the period in a
couple’s relationship which
precedes their engagement and
marriage.
COURTSHIP

13. During courtship, a couple gets
to know each other and decides
if there will be an engagement.
COURTSHIP

14. Courtship is also a test of
compatibility between the two
persons.
COURTSHIP

15. Courtship is an opportunity to
know the background of each
other, including the family where
each one belongs.
COURTSHIP

16. Different
Traditional
Practices
of Courtship
in the Philippines

17. Tapat
 serenading (harana)
 “to be in front of the
woman’s house”
ILOCOS REGION

18. Balagtasan
 The suitor begins singing a
romantic song, and then the
courted lady responds by
singing, too.
TAGALOG REGION

19. Naninilong
 “serenading from
the basement”
BULACAN

20. Gestures and Actions
 Serenading with Tagalog love
songs accompanied by a guitar
 Doing household chores
 Pay respect to the woman’s
parents by saying “Mano po.”
BATANGAS

21. Dating

22. Dating is a social activity which
involves two or more people
generally assessing each other’s
suitability for a potential
relationship.
DATING

23. Dating can also be enjoyed as
part of an already active
relationship.
DATING

24. Dating is a form of courtship
consisting of social activities done
by two people, as partners in an
intimate relationship or as a
spouse.
DATING

25. Dating is an act of meeting and
engaging in some mutually agreed
upon social activity, together as a
couple.
DATING

26. What are the
types
of dating?

27. 1. Standard Date – involves two people
2. Double Date – two couples go on a
date at the same time and place
3. Group Date – where any number of
couples can enjoy a date
TYPES OF DATING

28. Importance
of Dating

29. 1. Strengthen the relationship
2. Spend quality time with each other
3. Observe the other person’s character
4. Know one another better
5. Know one’s strengths and
weaknesses
IMPORTANCE OF DATING

30. 6. Reveal any potential problems the
partners may have
7. Develop affection and respect for
each other
IMPORTANCE OF DATING

31. Engagement

32. Engagement is a period of
agreement entered between two
people in love for them to be able
to know each other and their
families well enough to be sure
that they are ready and are suited
for life-long companionship.
ENGAGEMENT

33. Marriage

34. Marriage is the most enjoyable
human relationship.
MARRIAGE

35. Marriage is the most significant
event that may happen to
one’s life.
MARRIAGE

36. It take only two people, a man
and a woman, to unite and
make a successful relationship
as married couple.
MARRIAGE

37. Marriage is a lifelong
partnership of a man and a
woman.
MARRIAGE

38. Marriage is a bond between two
people who continue to grow
and develop their best qualities
as human beings.
MARRIAGE

39. What are the
factors to consider in
choosing a lifetime partner?

40. 1. Good character
a. God-fearing
b. Responsible and honest
c. Hardworking and industrious
d. Respectful and compassionate
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN
CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

41. 2. Maturity
a. Handles relationship responsibly
b. Makes wise and well thought-out
decisions
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN
CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

42. 3. Fidelity
a. Makes the relationship lasting
b. Considers the relationship sacred
c. Sincere and true to promises
made to one’s partner
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN
CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

43. 4. Commitment
a. Makes peaceful and lasting
relationship
b. Dedicated in fulfilling
responsibilities
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN
CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

44. 5. Love
a. Strengthens the relationship with
the partner
b. Understands one’s partner
c. Endures till death
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN
CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

45. 6. Economic Readiness
a. Aims for a better future of the
family
b. Able to provide for the needs of
the family
c. Maintains stable job or business
that can support a family
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN
CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

46. 7. Physical Maturity
a. Has a healthy body
b. Accepts and is proud of partner’s
physical features
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN
CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER

47. FIXED
MARRIAGE

48. Fixed or arranged marriages is a union
between a groom and bride who are
selected by other parties rather than by
each other. The marriages are usually
fixed by the parents, grandparents, or
other older and respected relatives or
members of the community.

49. The following are some kinds of fixed marriages in the Philippines:
1. Pikot- This is a forced marriage or shotgun marriage wherein one gets married against his or her
free will. This is usually upon the command of the parents.
2. Buya - This is the parents' prearranged or preplanned future marriage of their child. The marrying
couple do not go through the usual dating and courting stages of a relationship. The parents or the
family sets the standards and guidelines of who marries their child. Wealthier families arrange for their
children to marry into a friend's family of similar status even as early as childhood.
3. Elope - This is when someone runs away secretly with a lover, especially with the intention of
getting married. This is done without the consent or knowledge of the parents.
4. Dowry - This is a process wherein the property of the parent is distributed to a daughter at her
marriage rather than at the holder's death (mortis causa). This process establishes and ensures conjugal
fund and assures support (endowment) in widowhood and eventually used to provide for the needs of
her sons and daughters.

50. Activity 2: ROLE PLAY

51. Activity 2: Role Playing
To fully understand courtship, dating
and marriage, form a group and decide
on which to portray. Your group will be
given (15) minutes to prepare for the
presentation. Be guided by the scoring
rubric to be used in the presentation.

52. ›Rubric for the activity

53. THANKS