Here are some simple tips on what to text a girl of your dreams the first time, in order to stand out from all of the other guys.

1. WHAT TO TEXT A GIRL
YOU LIKE (HOW TO TEXT
A GIRL)

2. You’ve got her phone number; now what do you do?
Well, in this video I’ll break down exactly what to text
a girl you like to get a date fast. Because I typically
send only three to five text messages to get a date.
I’ll show you how to text a girl and I’ll give you those
exact messages in just a second.

3. The key is that you have to stand out from all of the
other guys that are messaging her. Because if she’s
an attractive woman, then she’s getting bombarded
by guys messaging her every single day. I’m going to
show you exactly how to stand out.

4. Okay, now let me help you out with your texting. I’m
going to give you five texting tips and examples. And
number five is the exact sequence that I use to get
the date.
WHAT TO TEXT A GIRL YOU LIKE

5. First, let’s clear one thing right now. Texting is a lot
easier when you have a solid interaction in person. If
you didn’t create any connection or attraction and
you just had a nice, plutonic interaction, there’s not
much you can do through texting to fix that.
Assuming you had an excellent face-to-face
interaction, or maybe you got her phone number of
Tinder, or Bumble, tip number one has to do with
timing. Timing is crucial.

6. Typical Guy Tips:
Yeah, two’s enough not to look anxious, but I think
three days is kind of money.
You know what? Maybe I’ll wait three weeks.
#1
DON’T TEXT TOO SOON OR TOO LATE!

7. Wrong.
Don’t wait too long! If you meet a girl at a bar text
her the next day, in the afternoon, because if you
wait longer than that, the memories start to fade.
Women are being bombarded by messages from
guys on Tinder and social media, so if you wait too
long, she may already be into another guy.

8. I only text her the same night if I think there’s a
chance that she might come over that night. I will
text her what I’m doing. For example, “Went to go
grab a pizza to kill the hangover,” or “Milkshakes at
2:00 AM rock!”
And if she replies, and says, “Mmm, I wish I could
have a milkshake,” then, of course, I’m going to invite
her. This works, because sometimes she just needed
to drop off her friends then she’s willing to meet up
alone.

9. If you meet a girl during the day, don’t wait more
than 3 or 4 hours to send your first text, unless you
had a really long or intimate interaction, which I’ll
show you how to do, then you might still be on her
mind the next day. But during the day I usually text
her around 3 or 4 hours after I met her.
Now, what about replying to her texts?

10. How soon should you text back? The key here is to
be random. Don’t always text back right away and
don’t always wait too long.
Don’t just stop whatever you’re doing to check your
phone and text her back. Keep your phone on silent.
That way … Sometimes you’re going to text back
right away. Sometimes you’re going to wait two or
three hours. Sometimes you’re going to be waiting
even longer, maybe all day, because you’re busy.

11. I go for the date usually within five texts, because
why do more work than needed? Plus, if you’re
texting her all the time, it shows her that you’re
not a busy guy and don’t have much going on in
your life. Women like guys that have other things
going on in their life other than them.
#2
DON’T OVER TEXT.

12. Also, keep your texts short and sweet. Before you
send the text, look through it again and see if there
are any unnecessary words that you can eliminate.
Don’t send a text that’s three or four sentences when
you could have said the same thing with just one
sentence.

13. Also, keep your texts short and sweet. Before you
send the text, look through it again and see if there
are any unnecessary words that you can eliminate.
Don’t send a text that’s three or four sentences when
you could have said the same thing with just one
sentence.

14. Next, I want you to start being slightly more playful in
your texts. Here’s why. If she sees you as a fun,
playful guy, then she will assume that going on a date
with you will also be fun and not dull.
#3
BE PLAYFUL!

15. But if you’re sending her a bunch of boring texts, like,
“Hey, what’s up? What are you doing?” She’s going
to assume that going on a date with you is going to
be boring and that you are going just to ask her a
bunch of annoying questions on the date.
But if you’re sending her a bunch of boring texts, like,
“Hey, what’s up? What are you doing?” She’s going
to assume that going on a date with you is going to
be boring and that you are going just to ask her a
bunch of annoying questions on the date.

16. Just adding the word trouble makes it a little bit
more interesting. Instead of sending a ping text like,
“Hey!” you could say something like, “Hey, you just
popped into my head. What kind of weird voodoo
magic are you using?” A text like that can actually
make her smile, causing her to associate you with
positive emotions. Whereas, “Hey!” doesn’t do
anything. And there are a lot more examples of these
in the free texting cheat sheet.

17. Just adding the word trouble makes it a little bit
more interesting. Instead of sending a ping text like,
“Hey!” you could say something like, “Hey, you just
popped into my head. What kind of weird voodoo
magic are you using?” A text like that can actually
make her smile, causing her to associate you with
positive emotions. Whereas, “Hey!” doesn’t do
anything. And there are a lot more examples of these
in the free texting cheat sheet.

18. Number four is Text like a man. What I mean by that
is cut out unnecessary questions. Okay, sometimes
you do want to ask her questions.
I like exciting questions, by the way, like, “If you could
travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?”
Or, “If you could have any superpower, what would
you have and why?“
#4
TEXT LIKE A MAN!

19. That can create some fun back and forth. But you
want to avoid questions that make it seem like you’re
not sure if she’s into you yet, or you’re not sure if she
wants to hang out with you and use command
statements instead. Instead of texting, “Want to
meet up sometime?” say, “Hey! Let’s meet up
Saturday night. I know this great place.“

20. This shows that you assume that she’s attracted to
you and wants to see you. And be more specific
about when you want to hang out. Women like a
man with a plan. So instead of “Let’s hang out
sometime.” Send, “Hey, let’s hang out tomorrow
night. I have an amusing idea…“. Or, tell her the exact
location, “Cancel all plans tomorrow night. I know a
great band that’s playing at Crazy Charlie’s. Let’s go.
It’s gonna be fun.” It’s specific, and it’s a command
instead of a question.
Now, I want to give you the exact sequence that I
use, from start to finish, to go for a date. First, I start
off with a callback, something that relates or calls
back to the initial interaction.

21. If it was at night, then usually something funny, that
we joked about, or that I teased her about. For
example, if we did a fun marriage role play, I might
text her the next day “Hey wifey I cheated on you
with the housekeeper don’t be mad.”
If we met during the day, then I might recall
something that happened during the initial
interaction such as her reaction to my approach.
For example, “So crazy meeting you today. It was
cute how you dropped your phone when I said hi.”
Or, if she didn’t drop her phone, but she just seemed
nervous, I might say, “It was cute how nervous you
got when I said hi.”

22. Notice also, how I don’t say “nice meeting you” because
the word “nice” is too overused. Be more original than
that and say, “so random meeting you,” or, “so
unexpected meeting you.”
And then, after she replies, send a fun yet challenging
text like, “Make it or break it question. Would you rather
be poor and travel the world or be rich but could never
leave your city?” I use this one because I love to travel. I
encourage you to pick something that qualifies her or
screens her based on a quality that you that you want in
a woman.
But don’t make it too complicated. Don’t start asking her
about her passions and goals in life. That’s too long and
personal through text. Keep it fun and save those
questions that for the date.

23. Notice also, how I don’t say “nice meeting you” because
the word “nice” is too overused. Be more original than
that and say, “so random meeting you,” or, “so
unexpected meeting you.”
And then, after she replies, send a fun yet challenging
text like, “Make it or break it question. Would you rather
be poor and travel the world or be rich but could never
leave your city?” I use this one because I love to travel. I
encourage you to pick something that qualifies her or
screens her based on a quality that you that you want in
a woman.
But don’t make it too complicated. Don’t start asking her
about her passions and goals in life. That’s too long and
personal through text. Keep it fun and save those
questions that for the date.

24. By the way, you should be qualifying and challenging
women in your initial interactions as well. Let them
win you over. A woman wants to win you over. She
wants to chase you a little bit. Okay? She doesn’t
want a guy who’s just too easy and falls head over
heels over her right away.
#5
QUALIFY HER.

25. And I like the “make it or break it” part because
that’s what actually makes it sound like a challenge.
Or, for example, you if you like adventurous women,
you can text, “Tell me this, are you adventurous?“
It’s short and sweet and causes her to invest a little.
And then after she replies to that, there might be a
little bit of back and forth, depending on her answer.
Then find out what her schedule is, when is she free.
Just ask, “When are you free this week?”

26. Or if you want to be more playful, you could add in,
“Besides missing and doodling hearts on a piece of
paper, what are you doing this weekend?“
Remember to keep it fun and playful. Don’t be too
serious. And then, just go for the date. For example,
if she said she’s free on Sunday, you can text,
“Okay, listen. I have a super fun idea. Keep Sunday
night open.” I like that because it gets her wondering
what the fun idea is. It sounds like a surprise.
And, some women will just go for that. Other women
might ask, “What is the fun idea?” In which I just say,
“Cool bar that you probably haven’t been to. First,
meet at Handle Bar. Be there at 8:00 PM.”

27. That works really well. Try it out, man. Remember,
women like a man with a plan who go for what they
want.
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28. In there, I’ll show you what to text when she’s not
responding. And I’ll show you what to text to turn
her on.
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