Most pickup artists agree: Don't take a girl to the movies for a date! That's a terrible date idea! Actually, it can work well if you do it right. Find out how.

1. The Movie Date
Ah, the classic “movie date,” the most infamous and hated type of Day 2 in the
community. Seeing a movie in a theater is often referred to by PUAs as the worst
date idea ever.
OK, we all know why a movie date can be a terrible idea, so I’m not going to get into
that. However, we also know that rules can be broken.
I went to high school in a boring city where a lot of old and rich people live. There’s
never anything exciting going on, and it costs a lot of money to do anything
remotely fun. Unfortunately, one of the most exciting date ideas in this city is
watching a movie. As a young practitioner of pickup, I was forced to hone my “movie
date” game. Yes, now I can work movie dates just fine, and I’m here to tell you
exactly how you can make a movie date awesome.
To say, “Watching a movie is a terrible date idea” is a limiting belief. I was having a
conversation with a random girl one day and I asked her what her favorite date was
like. She went on to describe a movie date she once had! She told me that it wasn’t
the date that made her date experience an excellent one, it was the guy she was out
with. He was obviously a guy who could evoke strong emotions within her, thus
making her feel attraction for him. Then, I thought to myself, “Hey, wait a minute! I
know how to do that! I know PUA shit!” This realization gave me the confidence to
be able to have a really fun date no matter what the setting.
This realization of mine took some prerequisite knowledge and skill, though:
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2. 1. Knowing the difference between situational confidence and core confidence.
2. Being able to express my core freely without being stifled.
3. Having solid post-isolation game.
4. The secret of self-amusement.
Knowing the difference between situational confidence
and core confidence.
I learned this one through RSD’s Blueprint De-Coded program. Situational
confidence is confidence you gain from being in a familiar situation that you are
comfortable with, such as your workplace if you are the boss, the bar if you are a
bartender, the dance floor if you’re Michael Jackson, or the basketball court if you’re
Michael Jordan.
Core confidence, however, is something that the best Natural PUAs have. No matter
what the situation they are in, even if it’s a place he’s never been before, he’s still
glowing with confidence. He’s confident about any situation because he’s confident
about himself. He understands that he is not his situation. He knows that he is the
all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world (watch Fight Club) and he loves it.
Being able to express my core freely without being
stifled
I first learned this one through Vin DiCarlo’s “The Attraction Code” ebook. His “4EP
Model” for Natural Game as described in his ebook helped me fully realize how I
should express myself, which is without shame. Basically, I think the main thing to
take away from this is “honesty is the best policy.” The Blueprint De-Coded program
also goes into these same Natural Game concepts very in-depth.
Pickup is an art, and art is something you use to express what’s inside of you, so
fucking express yourself and don’t hold back.
Having solid post-isolation game
Take out factors like AMOGs, obstacles, meta-game, and other shit like that and
you’ve got a pretty simple and straightforward game. After isolation, it’s just you and
her. You don’t have to worry about all that other crap that usually gets in the way. A
date or day 2 is basically a huge chunk of isolation time.
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3. The secret of self-amusement
If you’ve ever had anyone tell you that you’re easily amused, you already have this
down. Being good at self-amusement means that you’re able to take any situation
and make it fun for you. When you’re on a date or day 2 with a woman, you should
be determining the frame simply by having a stronger frame. Once you do that, any
emotion that YOU feel is going to be highly contagious to her. That means if YOU
are having fun, SHE will be having fun.
Now that we have that shit covered, let’s get back to the actual date…
As a general rule of thumb, I always bounce to several different locations during a
date, and I always start at a coffee shop. Drinking coffee at the start of a date will
energize both you and her so you can both be ready for a fun time. The caffeine
intake also promotes the release of dopamine, which scientists have found to be
associated with good feelings like love and infatuation. Going to several different
locations is an old trick used by Mystery to create a time distortion. She’ll feel like
she’s spent more time with you because she has more experiences with you
(locations she’s been to with you) to look back on. Let’s say you meet up for coffee,
bounce to the park to people-watch, bounce to your place for a moment to get your
hat or whatever, bounce to the convenience store to look at magazines and make
fun of the celebrities in them, bounce to grab some grub at wherever (really doesn’t
matter where and what you eat), then bounce to the movie theater to watch the
movie you both want to see. This is just a rough outline, by the way. Don’t try to
follow it step by step. Mix and match as you please. Before you do any of that stuff,
though, be sure to have your logistics planned out nicely. More on that later.
All throughout your day 2, you should be running whatever game you’ve got with
light kino. Save the heavy stuff for later.
Yes, movie dates cost money. Get over it and dish out the ticket fee unless you have
connections that allow you to watch movies in the theater for free. Don’t feel
obliged to pay for your date’s ticket. You can do it out of the kindness of your heart,
but be sure to frame it properly if you do. You want to frame it as though you are
doing it just to be generous, but NOT supplicating or expecting anything in return. In
fact, you can even say outright, “The thing I hate about paying for girls is that
sometimes it makes them feel like they owe me something. I’m going to pay for your
ticket, but don’t feel like you owe me anything.” I did that once, but the girl still felt
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4. like she owed me something (lol) so she bought me some ice cream inside. It was
nice. It was pistachio flavored. I thought it would be mint, though, since it was
green. Don’t judge an ice cream by it’s color.
I recommend picking out a comedy to watch. If you and her are sharing laughs, her
BT is going up and she’s associating positive feelings with being with you.
Don’t bother with getting popcorn or soda before the film. Completely unnecessary
and overpriced. It can also get in the way of gaming her in the theater. You should
both be satiated from the grub you grabbed before the movie, anyway.
Once you enter the theater, find a pair of seats where the arm rest between them
can be lifted and tucked away. Lead her and pick the seats. Assume she will follow
and she will follow. Then, sit down and lift that arm rest to tuck it away
immediately. This is your SOI. Actions speak louder than words. You will be kino
escalating throughout the movie and she knows this by your SOI here. If you’ve been
running decent game (*cough*being yourself*cough*) before you got to the theater,
she will comply every step of the way.
As the beginning advertisements and previews for upcoming films are rolling,
continue running game as normal. Talk as much as you want. Other people around
you should not be annoyed because the movie’s not actually playing. If some
douchebag actually gets annoyed and gives you shit, punch him in the face. I mean,
tell him to shut the fuck up. I mean… oh whatever. It’s never happened to me so just
don’t expect it to happen. It would make no sense for anyone to want to actually
quietly focus on some fucking advertisements.
Yes, put your arm around her. As cheesy of a move this is, it’s a necessary one. You
can do this ANY time you want. Just don’t make a big deal out of it. As long as you
feel casual, it’ll be fine. Assume the frame of “This is a movie date. OF COURSE we
are going to be physically close and touching like this, DUH!” Don’t say that out
loud, though… unless that’s something you would actually say while you were being
yourself.
Continue talking to her during the movie, but this time whisper in her ear. I usually
just make funny comments that relate to what we’re seeing on the big screen to
elicit some giggles or whatever, but you can tease her and stuff too if you want. Kino
escalate slowly and smoothly, triangular gaze if you make eye contact, and get in
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5. sexual state. Save the make out for the credits. Use the actual movie time to build
up the anticipation for it.
Let’s say you already stopped by your place before the movie (maybe to get your hat
or ANYTHING, basically). She’s already comfortable with being at your place because
of that. After the movie, pull her back to your place. I usually use my Tarot cards for
plausible deniability. I could also use my guitar, a youtube video, some music that I
want her to check out, or basically ANYTHING. Mystery covers this in his method, but
be sure to mention your plausible deniability early on so the transition from the
theater to your place is smooth. Have these logistics planned out ahead of time.
Once you and her are at the “seduction location,” kino escalate further or just go
caveman. Just do whatever you normally do at this stage (as long as it works lol).
Don’t forget to wrap your tool, tiger.
Chief
About the author:
Michael Chief started learning pickup and seduction in 2003. He has extensive
experience in not only dating plenty of wonderful women, but also in teaching other
men how to be successful in their love lives. His views on seduction and dating have
been largely influenced by his experience as a musical performer, American culture,
and Zen Buddhism. Check out ChiefPUA.com for more information.
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