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Coaching Thoughts and Models For the Development of a Coaching Practice
1. Introduction (Framework)
 1.1 Coaching – A Definition 2001 2002 2003 2004 2005 2006 2007 2008 2009 A  conversation that inspires and equip someone to create a life/career/circumstances that will have purpose and meaning for them. 2010 2011 1 3 Your own footer
1.2  The Three Pilars of Coaching Direction and Meaning Sustainable Ecology Disciplined Implementation 1 Your own footer
1.3 Unpacking The Three Pillars Clarity Purpose and Vision Direction and Meaning + = Your own footer
1.3 Unpacking The Three Pillars Focused Planning Pacing Action Disciplined Implementation + = Your own footer
1.3 Unpacking The Three Pillars Life Long Learning Relationships and Support Sustainable Ecology + = Your own footer
2. Competencies (The Competencies a Coach Transfers In the Helping Relationship)
3. Interventions (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
3.1 Gaining Clarity (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
“ Let Silence do the Heavy Lifting”  Susan Scott
Mindfulness is paying attention to your life, here and now, with kindness and curiosity  Dr. Amy Saltzman, Stanford
Mindfulness Research In a randomized controlled trial conducted by Maria Napoli, Ph.D., first, second, and third graders who participated in a bi‐weekly, 12‐session integrative program of mindfulness and relaxation showed significant increases in attention and social skills and decreases in test anxiety and ADHD behaviours. Napoli, M. ”Mindfulness Training for Elementary School Students: The Attention Academy” Journal of Applied School Psychology (2005) Vol. 21(1)
Mindfulness Research A study conducted by Amy Saltzman, M.D., in collaboration with the Department of Psychology at Stanford, with 4th‐7th graders and their parents, showed that after 1 hour of mindfulness training for 8 consecutive weeks the children demonstrated increased ability to orient their attention, as measured by the Attention Network Task, and decreased anxiety Goldin, P., Saltzman, A., Jha, A. “Mindfulness Meditation Training in Families” ABCT conference abstract (2008)
Mindfulness Exercise  This is an easy mindfulness exercise that you can do anytime throughout the day. Check your watch and note the time. For the next 60 seconds your task is to focus all your attention on your breathing. It’s just for one minute, but it can seem like an eternity. Leave your eyes open and breathe normally. Be ready to catch your mind from wandering off (because it will) and return your attention to your breath whenever it does so. Keep in mind that this mindfulness exercise is not a contest or a personal challenge. You can’t fail at this exercise, you can only experience it. Use this exercise many times throughout the day to restore your mind to the present moment and to restore your mind to clarity and peace. Hint: Do this with your client
Mindful Eating This mindfulness activity is definitely the tastiest of them all! It involves nothing more than eating a meal No gobbling! Eat slowly and deliberately. Mindful eating means paying full attention to each piece of food you select to eat, how it looks, how it smells, how you cut the food, the muscles you use to raise it to your mouth, the texture and taste of the food as you chew it slowly. Be absorbed by the experience This is a meditation on the present moment, and the present moment consists of you eating a meal...nothing more. If your mind wanders off, then bring your attention back to the experience of eating. Be with the moment throughout your mindful meal.  Hint: Take your client out for dinner
Mindful Listening When was the last time you REALLY listened to the sounds that are taking place around you?  Much like the noise inside your mind, external noises often go unnoticed. The noise in your mind and the noises in the world around you both form an invisible backdrop to your entire life Stop and notice some of the sounds around you right now...the sound of the computer humming away under your desk. The car that passes by in the distance. The sound of the television in the next room. The birds outside. All these sounds present you with an excellent opportunity to experience the serenity that comes from mindful listening Hint: Do this with your client
Mindful Walking The same principles apply to mindful walking as they do to mindful listening and eating. In this mindful activity, you simply bring your full attention to the simple act of walking With this mindfulness technique, you become consciously aware of and absorbed in the movement of your body as you walk Concentrate on the feel of the ground under your feet, or your breathing as you travel. Observe what is going on around you in the world, you don’t have to try and ignore or blot out anything. Just observe everything that you experience, staying in the present moment as you do so. If thoughts pop up, just let them go and return your awareness to the walk.
Mindfulness Log
3.2 Developing Vision (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
“Our unresolved (inner) conflicts will come to meet us as fate”  Carl Gustav Jung
Writing your Eulogy Imagine that you are at your own funeral. You're listening to what your loved ones are saying about you: the good stuff (and the not so good), the dreams, the aspirations, the things that you were connected to, the things that meant a lot to you. Perhaps they mention the things that you didn't get to do, or the opportunities that were lost Take 45 minutes to write up your eulogy. Be honest. What are the core values and the achievements that you would like to be remembered for? If you are finding this process difficult, you can spend time on it Sometime after you have completed the eulogy, reflect on your experience of the exercise. Ask yourself what you learnt from writing it Next, consider whether the values you listed are really yours and not someone else's (e.g., what you think they should be). Settle on the values that feel most real to you Finally, think about how you can turn your core values into goals. They may be small things, like coming home from work earlier, or bigger things that you've been wanting to do for a while. Whatever these steps are, write them down, make sure they reflect your authentic values and do them!.
Writing your Eulogy
3.3 Values Alignment (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
“If you must tell me your opinions, tell me what you believe in. I have plenty of doubts of my own” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Values Alignment INSTRUCTION: Considering the previous exercises, make a list of the six most important values in your life (thus the six things you regard as most important). List these in the left hand column (espoused values) of the table provided. Now estimate the percentage time you spend attending to these priorities in your life; In the third column to the right, list current priorities that you spend significant time on. If these issues directly support the corresponding value there is effectively no gap and you don’t have to attend to it.  If it however keeps you away from living the espoused value stated in the left column determine the time spent on it and determine the gap. Reflect on the following: Are my values consistent with what I want to achieve in my life? How can I align my current priorities to support my values, thereby living an authentic and fulfilling life?
Values Alignment
3.4 Goal Setting (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
"The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don't define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them” Denis Watley
Specific Goals/Outcomes Step I. Create a positive, specific goal. Step 2. State your outcome in terms of ability, not lack of ability. Step 3. Context Step 4. Sense Modalities Step 5. Resources Step 6. Perform an ecology check Step 7. Milestones Step 8. Record
Specific Goals/Outcomes
Specific Goals/Outcomes
SMART Goals/Outcomes
Goals in writing are dreams with deadlines. Brian Tracy
4. Sustainable Ecology (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
4.1  Self Awareness (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Self-Awareness – Emotional Intelligence Link Emotional Intelligence consist of 4 elements: To understand your own emotions better. To manage your own emotions more effectively and thereby increase one’s own quality of life. To understand others better and thereby live more comfortably with other people. To build more satisfactory relationships with other people at all levels and in all walks of life, thereby improving your personal power and productivity. Minnaar, G. 2004
Why Self Awareness? One of the foundations of emotional competence -- accurate self-assessment – was associated with superior performance among several hundred managers from 12 different organizations (Boyatzis, 1982). Consortium for research on emotional intelligence in organizations ( www.eiconsortium.org ) by cary cherniss, ph.d. rutgers university. (1999).
Why Self Awareness? There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving and that is your own self.  Aldous Huxley You cannot teach people anything. You can only help them discover it within themselves.   Galileo
Assessing Self Awareness – Major Assessment Tools Note Health Professions Act, Act 56 of 1974, only registered psychologists are  permitted to perform psychological acts which, in relation to evaluation, testing and  assessment, are defined in Section 37 (2) (a), (b), (c), (d), and (e)
Assessing Self Awareness - Constructs Intrapersonal Self-regard; emotional awareness; assertiveness; independence; self-actualization Interpersonal Empathy; social relationships; relationship building Stress Management Stress tolerance; impulse control Adaptability Reality; flexibility; problem solving General Mood Optimism; happiness
Creating Self Awareness EQ – Bar-On Contructs Adaptive emotions - reading Future Pacing Active visualization of implementation Assessment Translating into goals and actions Incorporating into planning  Individual 360 degree Self  interpretation Planning Feedback Identify common ground Identify strenghts leverage Identify growth areas Dialogue and Synthesis
Assessing Self Awareness – Adaptive Emotions Self Discovery
Assessing Self Awareness – Adaptive Emotions Self Discovery WHERE ARE YOU NOW The rating scale offers a quick overview of where you are in terms of self-awareness, and provide feedback on what you can do to develop in this area. 65+ You are very self-aware and probably need only to hone your skills in specific areas  where you feel it will enhance you interaction and relationships with other 40-64 There could be areas where not being aware of your influence on others or how situations influence your emotional states could influence your life and work negatively – review questions with lower scores and formulate an action plan to address these If your scored less than 40 there are significant opportunities to improve the quality of your life and work, through further growth and development– review questions with lower scores and formulate an action plan to address these
Assessing Self Awareness – Feedback and Planning Session
Assessing Self Awareness – Feedback and Planning Session
Self-Awareness – Reflective Dairy
Self-Awareness – Reflective Dairy
4.2  Emotional and Social Intelligence (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
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Competency research in over 200 companies and organizations worldwide suggests that about one-third of this difference is due to technical skill and cognitive ability while two-thirds is due to emotional competence (Goleman, 1998). (In top leadership positions, over four-fifths of the difference is due to emotional competence.)Consortium for research on emotional intelligence in organizations ( www.eiconsortium.org ) by cary cherniss, ph.d. rutgers university. (1999).
Why Emotional Intelligence? Financial advisors at American Express whose managers completed the Emotional Competence training program were compared to an equal number whose managers had not. During the year following training, the advisors of trained managers grew their businesses by 18.1% compared to 16.2% for those whose managers were untrained. Consortium for research on emotional intelligence in organizations ( www.eiconsortium.org ) by cary cherniss, ph.d. rutgers university. (1999).
Emotional Intelligence Model Self-Centred Style Assertive, emotionally intelligent style Self-Focus – Low High Restricted Style Other Directed Style Place your own text Other-Focus – Low High
Building EQ – Big Five  http://www.helpguide.org/toolkit/emotional_health.htm
Building EQ – Useful Tools Watch the videos on each of these subjects and reflect http://www.helpguide.org/toolkit/emotional_health.htm
Identifying Roadblocks to  Emotional Awareness Also watch: Gregory’s Ghost The Queens Speech TED Video (provided)
Identifying Roadblocks to  Emotional Awareness
Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress If you’re a visual person, try to manage and relieve stress by surrounding yourself with soothing and uplifting images. You can also try closing your eyes and imaging the soothing images. Here are a few visually-based activities that may work as quick stress relievers: Look at a cherished photo or a favourite memento. Bring the outside indoors; buy a plant or some flowers to enliven your space. Enjoy the beauty of nature–a garden, the beach, a park, or your own backyard. Surround yourself with colours that lift your spirits. Close your eyes and picture a situation or place that feels peaceful and rejuvenating.
Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress Are you sensitive to sounds and noises? Are you a music lover? If so, stress-relieving exercises that focus on your auditory sense may work particularly well. Experiment with the following sounds, noting how quickly your stress levels drop as you listen. Sing or a hum a favourite tune. Listen to uplifting music. Tune in to the soundtrack of nature-crashing waves, the wind rustling the trees, birds singing. Buy a small fountain, so you can enjoy the soothing sound of running water in your home or office. Hang wind chimes near an open window.
Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress Experiment with your sense of touch, playing with different tactile sensations. Focus on things you can feel that are relaxing and renewing. Use the following suggestions as a jumping off point: Wrap yourself in a warm blanket. Pet a dog or cat. Hold a comforting object (a stuffed animal, a favourite memento). Soak in a hot bath. Give yourself a hand or neck massage. Wear clothing that feels soft against your skin.
Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress If you tend to shut down when you’re under stress, stress-relieving activities that get you moving may be particularly helpful. Anything that engages the muscles or gets you up and active can work. Here are a few suggestions: Run in place or jump up and down Dance around Stretch or roll your head in circles Go for a short walk Squeeze a rubbery stress ball
Harnessing Your Emotions: Learning To Meditate Ride the Wild Horse Meditation: Find a private spot that meets your sensory needs, one where your surroundings feel completely safe and comfortable. Take off your shoes and loosen your belt or any tight clothing. Take the phone off the hook, and close the door. Find a comfortable chair that supports your back or lie down (but only if you're sure you won't drift off to sleep). Don't smoke, drink alcohol, or eat during this process Listen to the MP3 sound clips and follow the instructions
4.3  Developing Positive Influence (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
“People like people like themselves…” Igor Ledochowski
Rapport Building Technique: Pacing and Leading This technique is frequently useful, for example when you are coaching or if you are with someone who is distressed. You use pacing to match the pace of the other person’s speech, only discussing the next topic when he or she is ready to move on. It is often described as PACE, PACE, PACE and then LEAD the conversation. Imagine that something has upset you. Before you’re able to think rationally about it, you often need to ‘get it off your chest’ by talking it through with a friend or colleague. Pacing works in a similar way. You need to allow someone to say what is important to them first, before you start discussing your agenda.
Rapport Building Technique: Pacing and Leading EXAMPLE When speaking to an elderly person, pace their speed of conversation before discussing your agenda. This may mean allowing them to discuss something that you consider irrelevant, but which is very important to them. Then they can pay attention and listen to what you need to say. If you interrupt people you encourage them to speak faster, you often achieve exactly the opposite effect!
Behaviour Influencing Techniques:  “Little By Little” Called the foot-in-the-door technique, the following study demonstrates the tendency of people who have first agreed to a small request to comply later with a larger request. Freedman and Fraser (1966) asked a number of homeowners to let them place a huge DRIVE CAREFULLY sign in their front yards. Only seventeen percent gave permission. Another group of residents, however, was first approached with a smaller request. They were asked to put up a three-inch BE A SAFE DRIVER window sign. Nearly all agreed immediately. When approached a few weeks later, these homeowners were asked to place the gigantic signs on their front lawns. This group agreed overwhelmingly-76 percent consented to putting the unsightly larger sign in their front yards.
Behaviour Influencing Techniques: “The Power of Humility” We are driven to follow and believe in a person whose pursuit is not seen as an exercise in self-promotion. President John F. Kennedy’s approval ratings went to record highs after the Bay of Pigs fiasco, and this is believed to be because it showed that he was human, fallible, and humble. He made a mistake and took full responsibility for it. Loyalty is not gained by being right, but rather by doing what is right. No one wants to listen to or follow someone who is egotistical. It’s impossible to be close to someone who is full of himself. If you are full of yourself, there will be no room for anyone else.
Behaviour Influencing Techniques: “The Power of Humility” While you may get people to pay attention to you when they must or when it suits them, when the going gets rough, they’ll get going. Here are some examples of showing humility: When you do not know an answer, do not invent one. Simply say, “I don’t know.” Treat everyone with respect, especially those who can’t do anything for you and from whom you don’t need anything Do not be a know-it-all, and when you are wrong, admit it. Make personal sacrifices. The CEO who picks up garbage on the factory floor inspires workers to do the same and more
Behaviour Influencing Techniques:  “Image Consistency” In a recent study. Dr. Read Montague, a professor at the Baylor College of Medicine, gave subjects the “Pepsi challenge” with an FMRI (Functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging) scanner. Simply, he asked participants to sample both Pepsi and Coke and then state their preference. The findings were fascinating. Subjects typically found Pepsi tastier, which was confirmed visually by the FMRI when the brain’s reward centre lit up. Nevertheless, the Coke branding was so strong, as it related to their self-concepts, that they vocalized support for it instead. Brands are so powerful that people will sometimes buy and use a product they like less than a readily available alternative if they identify with it and see themselves as “that kind of person.”
Behaviour Influencing Techniques “Repetition” Direct quote from Lieberman, “The old adage "familiarity breeds contempt" is commonly accepted but interestingly enough, it's not true. In reality, it's the opposite. Numerous studies conclude that the more you interact with someone, the more he or she will like you. According to Moreland and Zajonc (1982), repeated exposure to any stimulus, in this case a person, leads to a greater appreciation and liking (as long as the initial reaction is not negative). This is true of anything a person, a place, or even a product: the greater the exposure, the more positive the response. This is why companies sometimes advertise just a picture of a product, or its name, without any specific features or benefits of using the product. They don't need to tell us how wonderful it is, only remind us of it. Exposure, being an obvious component of repetition, can alone increase sales or votes which is why advertisers and politicians exploit this phenomenon”
Behaviour Influencing Techniques “First Impressions” One of the best ways to influence is to make a good first impression. Here are the three principles you can practice and implement: Smile – it shows acceptance, confidence and pleasantness Primacy effect – make the initial moments of contact with people very pleasant. The rest of your conversation will be filtered through it, thereby creating a highly favourable impression Accessibility and priming - can dramatically influence how we are initially perceived. Lay the unconscious groundwork prior to your meeting.
Behaviour Influencing Techniques   “Getting People To Act” To ensure that people take action, consider the following influencing principles:   Narrow options to avoid extensive deliberation  Give a deadline for taking action. A deadline restricts freedom and increases our desire to gain what is rare and becoming scarcer. This greatly motivates us to move forward and to take immediate action. Engage the law of consistency by first having an individual commit to a smaller request  Use your words and your actions to engage the law of expectation Maximize the law of inertia by reducing what you want a person to do to simple, easy-to-follow steps to get him/her to begin moving in the right direction Offer any small additional benefit for taking action now. This will significantly increase your chances of gaining compliance Keep in mind that the number-one psychological rule that determines if someone will do something for you or even with you is that he/she must, to some extent, like you and, preferably, trust you
Integration – Influencing Strategies
4.4  Positive Outcomes Expectation (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened.  Happiness never decreases by being shared.” The Buddha
Positive Outcome Expectations
The Gratitude Letter Think of someone who has made a major positive difference in your life but who has never properly been thanked. It could be an old teacher, your first boss, a long-lost friend, or someone who is still in your life. Think about the impact this person had on you and write a letter of gratitude. What, specifically, are you grateful for? How were you benefited, what did you learn, and how did it make you the person you are today? Consider and define the following: Why you are writing this letter What you are grateful for. Be as specific as possible Describe the things you are grateful for in concrete terms Describe how their behaviour affected you, how you benefited, what you learnt Allow yourself to really be in touch with the feeling of gratitude as you write Read and re-read the letter to ensure that it really captures your thoughts and feelings Set a time and day to go on your gratitude visit Make the visit. For many people this is the hardest part, but it is also the most beneficial. Hint: Use the video as introduction http://makingaustraliahappy.abc.net.au/docs/gratitude_letter_worksheet.pdf
Signiture Strenghts Hint: Use the video as introduction
Three Blessings Our brain tends to ignore what goes well and it focuses by default on what might go wrong. Martin Seligman and others have devised and used a simple technique to address this, called the three blessings exercise; The three blessings exercise demands that you focus your attention, as you end your day, on three things that went well and why they went well. These three don’t have to be earthshattering: they can be as small as a beautiful flower you looked at. This re-educates your attention toward the positive. Even severely depressed people can find three things that went well every day, and when they do, their depression may start to lift. Hint: Use the video as introduction
Three Blessings What to do: Every night for the next week, right before you go to bed, write down three things that went really well today. These things can be small and ordinary in importance. Think about why this good thing happened. Optional addition: Once you have completed your list of good events and your explanations for them on any night, pick one good event that you would like to dream about. Positive dreams increase life satisfaction and consolidate the memories of good events, so it is worth the effort to try and influence your dreams. Hint: Use the video as introduction http://makingaustraliahappy.abc.net.au/docs/gratitude_letter_worksheet.pdf
Circle Of Influence And Concern For a full day, listen to your language and to the language of the people around you. How often do you use and hear reactive phrases such as “If only” “I can’t” or “I have to”? Identify an experience you might encounter in the near future where, based on past experience, you would probably behave reactively. Review the situation in the context of your Circle of Influence. How could you respond proactively? Take several moments and create the experience vividly in your mind, picturing yourself responding in a proactive manner. Make a commitment to yourself to exercise your freedom to choose. Select a problem from your work or personal life that is frustrating to you. Determine whether it is a direct, indirect or no control problem. Identify the first step you can take in your Circle of Influence to solve it and then take that step. Try the thirty day test of proactivity. For 30 days work only in your Circle of Influence. Make small commitments and keep them. Be part of the solution, not part of the problem. Be aware of the change in your Circle of Influence.
"Reach" Method for Forgiveness
4.4  Establishing A Professional Network (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
A personal brand is your promise to the marketplace and the world. Since everyone makes a promise to the world, one does not have a choice of having or not having a personal brand. Everyone has one. The real question is whether someone’s personal brand is powerful enough to be meaningful to the person and the marketplace. Tom Peters
1. Update Your Online Profiles LinkedIn Facebook Plaxo etc. Help you keep an updated CV; Arrange events (Facebook); make contact with old colleagues; participate in discussion groups
2. Publish Professional journals Conferences  http://www.hrfuture.net http://www.publisher.co.za/ (self-publishing) http://www.penguinbooks.co.za/publishing/publishing.php http://selfpublishingassociation.blogspot.com/
3. Create and Distribute Content of Interest to Your Network http://www.skills-universe.com Your Outlook contacts LinkedIn contacts Facebook contacts
4. Start a Blog/Get Involved in the  Online Conversation IT Toolbox HR Toolbox Skills Universe (South Africa) Blogger.com Link to Aggregators  LinkedIn Facebook
5. Write and always answer everyone (no matter how small)
6. Pick 2-3 key associations and get active Collaborate Eat together (with the purpose to share and learn Create joint ventures Create mutual opportunities
7. Speak, Speak, Speak Toastmasters Conferences Informal discussion groups Brown bag sessions COP’s
7. Speak, Speak, Speak Toastmasters Conferences Informal discussion groups Brown bag sessions COP’s
Integration
5. Disciplined Implementation (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
5.1 A De-Cluttering (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
Be steady and well-ordered in your life so that you can be fierce and original in your work.”  -Gustave Flaubert
Collecting The Key is to have   nothing on your mind (other than what you want on your mind):  Have and use a ubiquitous personal “capture” tool Have and use pens and legal pads wherever you think, work, communicate After you write on your pads, tear and toss the pages into your in-basket (central collection point)
Processing Should it be deferred – pend  Does it involve more than two steps – new project Can it be done now in one or two steps -Crank Dairy Stuff Junk
NB – Include your projects to achieve your purpose and meaning
5.2 A Planning and Pacing Action (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
Scrum Board – Planning
Scrum Board – Pacing Action 1 2 3 TASKS BASED  ON GOALS IN PROCESS COMPLETED
5.3 Creating a Personal Review System (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
Scrum Board – Pacing Action 1 2 3 TASKS BASED  ON GOALS IN PROCESS COMPLETED What did I do since last review Answer to  Independent third party What Do I Plan To Do  What Is Blocking Me
6. Closure – Commitment to Live Long Learning (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting THE FINAL LAP- LIFE LONG LEARNING Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
Scrum Board – Planning

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Coaching Toolkit

  • 1. Coaching Thoughts and Models For the Development of a Coaching Practice
  • 3. 1.1 Coaching – A Definition 2001 2002 2003 2004 2005 2006 2007 2008 2009 A conversation that inspires and equip someone to create a life/career/circumstances that will have purpose and meaning for them. 2010 2011 1 3 Your own footer
  • 4. 1.2 The Three Pilars of Coaching Direction and Meaning Sustainable Ecology Disciplined Implementation 1 Your own footer
  • 5. 1.3 Unpacking The Three Pillars Clarity Purpose and Vision Direction and Meaning + = Your own footer
  • 6. 1.3 Unpacking The Three Pillars Focused Planning Pacing Action Disciplined Implementation + = Your own footer
  • 7. 1.3 Unpacking The Three Pillars Life Long Learning Relationships and Support Sustainable Ecology + = Your own footer
  • 8. 2. Competencies (The Competencies a Coach Transfers In the Helping Relationship)
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  • 11. 3. Interventions (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
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  • 13. The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
  • 14. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
  • 15. 3.1 Gaining Clarity (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 16. “ Let Silence do the Heavy Lifting” Susan Scott
  • 17. Mindfulness is paying attention to your life, here and now, with kindness and curiosity Dr. Amy Saltzman, Stanford
  • 18. Mindfulness Research In a randomized controlled trial conducted by Maria Napoli, Ph.D., first, second, and third graders who participated in a bi‐weekly, 12‐session integrative program of mindfulness and relaxation showed significant increases in attention and social skills and decreases in test anxiety and ADHD behaviours. Napoli, M. ”Mindfulness Training for Elementary School Students: The Attention Academy” Journal of Applied School Psychology (2005) Vol. 21(1)
  • 19. Mindfulness Research A study conducted by Amy Saltzman, M.D., in collaboration with the Department of Psychology at Stanford, with 4th‐7th graders and their parents, showed that after 1 hour of mindfulness training for 8 consecutive weeks the children demonstrated increased ability to orient their attention, as measured by the Attention Network Task, and decreased anxiety Goldin, P., Saltzman, A., Jha, A. “Mindfulness Meditation Training in Families” ABCT conference abstract (2008)
  • 20. Mindfulness Exercise This is an easy mindfulness exercise that you can do anytime throughout the day. Check your watch and note the time. For the next 60 seconds your task is to focus all your attention on your breathing. It’s just for one minute, but it can seem like an eternity. Leave your eyes open and breathe normally. Be ready to catch your mind from wandering off (because it will) and return your attention to your breath whenever it does so. Keep in mind that this mindfulness exercise is not a contest or a personal challenge. You can’t fail at this exercise, you can only experience it. Use this exercise many times throughout the day to restore your mind to the present moment and to restore your mind to clarity and peace. Hint: Do this with your client
  • 21. Mindful Eating This mindfulness activity is definitely the tastiest of them all! It involves nothing more than eating a meal No gobbling! Eat slowly and deliberately. Mindful eating means paying full attention to each piece of food you select to eat, how it looks, how it smells, how you cut the food, the muscles you use to raise it to your mouth, the texture and taste of the food as you chew it slowly. Be absorbed by the experience This is a meditation on the present moment, and the present moment consists of you eating a meal...nothing more. If your mind wanders off, then bring your attention back to the experience of eating. Be with the moment throughout your mindful meal. Hint: Take your client out for dinner
  • 22. Mindful Listening When was the last time you REALLY listened to the sounds that are taking place around you? Much like the noise inside your mind, external noises often go unnoticed. The noise in your mind and the noises in the world around you both form an invisible backdrop to your entire life Stop and notice some of the sounds around you right now...the sound of the computer humming away under your desk. The car that passes by in the distance. The sound of the television in the next room. The birds outside. All these sounds present you with an excellent opportunity to experience the serenity that comes from mindful listening Hint: Do this with your client
  • 23. Mindful Walking The same principles apply to mindful walking as they do to mindful listening and eating. In this mindful activity, you simply bring your full attention to the simple act of walking With this mindfulness technique, you become consciously aware of and absorbed in the movement of your body as you walk Concentrate on the feel of the ground under your feet, or your breathing as you travel. Observe what is going on around you in the world, you don’t have to try and ignore or blot out anything. Just observe everything that you experience, staying in the present moment as you do so. If thoughts pop up, just let them go and return your awareness to the walk.
  • 25. 3.2 Developing Vision (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 26. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
  • 27. “Our unresolved (inner) conflicts will come to meet us as fate” Carl Gustav Jung
  • 28. Writing your Eulogy Imagine that you are at your own funeral. You're listening to what your loved ones are saying about you: the good stuff (and the not so good), the dreams, the aspirations, the things that you were connected to, the things that meant a lot to you. Perhaps they mention the things that you didn't get to do, or the opportunities that were lost Take 45 minutes to write up your eulogy. Be honest. What are the core values and the achievements that you would like to be remembered for? If you are finding this process difficult, you can spend time on it Sometime after you have completed the eulogy, reflect on your experience of the exercise. Ask yourself what you learnt from writing it Next, consider whether the values you listed are really yours and not someone else's (e.g., what you think they should be). Settle on the values that feel most real to you Finally, think about how you can turn your core values into goals. They may be small things, like coming home from work earlier, or bigger things that you've been wanting to do for a while. Whatever these steps are, write them down, make sure they reflect your authentic values and do them!.
  • 30. 3.3 Values Alignment (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 31. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
  • 32. “If you must tell me your opinions, tell me what you believe in. I have plenty of doubts of my own” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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  • 34. Values Alignment INSTRUCTION: Considering the previous exercises, make a list of the six most important values in your life (thus the six things you regard as most important). List these in the left hand column (espoused values) of the table provided. Now estimate the percentage time you spend attending to these priorities in your life; In the third column to the right, list current priorities that you spend significant time on. If these issues directly support the corresponding value there is effectively no gap and you don’t have to attend to it. If it however keeps you away from living the espoused value stated in the left column determine the time spent on it and determine the gap. Reflect on the following: Are my values consistent with what I want to achieve in my life? How can I align my current priorities to support my values, thereby living an authentic and fulfilling life?
  • 36. 3.4 Goal Setting (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 37. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting
  • 38. "The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don't define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them” Denis Watley
  • 39. Specific Goals/Outcomes Step I. Create a positive, specific goal. Step 2. State your outcome in terms of ability, not lack of ability. Step 3. Context Step 4. Sense Modalities Step 5. Resources Step 6. Perform an ecology check Step 7. Milestones Step 8. Record
  • 43. Goals in writing are dreams with deadlines. Brian Tracy
  • 44. 4. Sustainable Ecology (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 45. The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
  • 46. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 47. 4.1 Self Awareness (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 48. Self-Awareness – Emotional Intelligence Link Emotional Intelligence consist of 4 elements: To understand your own emotions better. To manage your own emotions more effectively and thereby increase one’s own quality of life. To understand others better and thereby live more comfortably with other people. To build more satisfactory relationships with other people at all levels and in all walks of life, thereby improving your personal power and productivity. Minnaar, G. 2004
  • 49. Why Self Awareness? One of the foundations of emotional competence -- accurate self-assessment – was associated with superior performance among several hundred managers from 12 different organizations (Boyatzis, 1982). Consortium for research on emotional intelligence in organizations ( www.eiconsortium.org ) by cary cherniss, ph.d. rutgers university. (1999).
  • 50. Why Self Awareness? There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving and that is your own self.  Aldous Huxley You cannot teach people anything. You can only help them discover it within themselves.  Galileo
  • 51. Assessing Self Awareness – Major Assessment Tools Note Health Professions Act, Act 56 of 1974, only registered psychologists are permitted to perform psychological acts which, in relation to evaluation, testing and assessment, are defined in Section 37 (2) (a), (b), (c), (d), and (e)
  • 52. Assessing Self Awareness - Constructs Intrapersonal Self-regard; emotional awareness; assertiveness; independence; self-actualization Interpersonal Empathy; social relationships; relationship building Stress Management Stress tolerance; impulse control Adaptability Reality; flexibility; problem solving General Mood Optimism; happiness
  • 53. Creating Self Awareness EQ – Bar-On Contructs Adaptive emotions - reading Future Pacing Active visualization of implementation Assessment Translating into goals and actions Incorporating into planning Individual 360 degree Self interpretation Planning Feedback Identify common ground Identify strenghts leverage Identify growth areas Dialogue and Synthesis
  • 54. Assessing Self Awareness – Adaptive Emotions Self Discovery
  • 55. Assessing Self Awareness – Adaptive Emotions Self Discovery WHERE ARE YOU NOW The rating scale offers a quick overview of where you are in terms of self-awareness, and provide feedback on what you can do to develop in this area. 65+ You are very self-aware and probably need only to hone your skills in specific areas where you feel it will enhance you interaction and relationships with other 40-64 There could be areas where not being aware of your influence on others or how situations influence your emotional states could influence your life and work negatively – review questions with lower scores and formulate an action plan to address these If your scored less than 40 there are significant opportunities to improve the quality of your life and work, through further growth and development– review questions with lower scores and formulate an action plan to address these
  • 56. Assessing Self Awareness – Feedback and Planning Session
  • 57. Assessing Self Awareness – Feedback and Planning Session
  • 60. 4.2 Emotional and Social Intelligence (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 61. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 62.
  • 63. Competency research in over 200 companies and organizations worldwide suggests that about one-third of this difference is due to technical skill and cognitive ability while two-thirds is due to emotional competence (Goleman, 1998). (In top leadership positions, over four-fifths of the difference is due to emotional competence.)Consortium for research on emotional intelligence in organizations ( www.eiconsortium.org ) by cary cherniss, ph.d. rutgers university. (1999).
  • 64. Why Emotional Intelligence? Financial advisors at American Express whose managers completed the Emotional Competence training program were compared to an equal number whose managers had not. During the year following training, the advisors of trained managers grew their businesses by 18.1% compared to 16.2% for those whose managers were untrained. Consortium for research on emotional intelligence in organizations ( www.eiconsortium.org ) by cary cherniss, ph.d. rutgers university. (1999).
  • 65. Emotional Intelligence Model Self-Centred Style Assertive, emotionally intelligent style Self-Focus – Low High Restricted Style Other Directed Style Place your own text Other-Focus – Low High
  • 66. Building EQ – Big Five http://www.helpguide.org/toolkit/emotional_health.htm
  • 67. Building EQ – Useful Tools Watch the videos on each of these subjects and reflect http://www.helpguide.org/toolkit/emotional_health.htm
  • 68. Identifying Roadblocks to Emotional Awareness Also watch: Gregory’s Ghost The Queens Speech TED Video (provided)
  • 69. Identifying Roadblocks to Emotional Awareness
  • 70. Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress If you’re a visual person, try to manage and relieve stress by surrounding yourself with soothing and uplifting images. You can also try closing your eyes and imaging the soothing images. Here are a few visually-based activities that may work as quick stress relievers: Look at a cherished photo or a favourite memento. Bring the outside indoors; buy a plant or some flowers to enliven your space. Enjoy the beauty of nature–a garden, the beach, a park, or your own backyard. Surround yourself with colours that lift your spirits. Close your eyes and picture a situation or place that feels peaceful and rejuvenating.
  • 71. Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress Are you sensitive to sounds and noises? Are you a music lover? If so, stress-relieving exercises that focus on your auditory sense may work particularly well. Experiment with the following sounds, noting how quickly your stress levels drop as you listen. Sing or a hum a favourite tune. Listen to uplifting music. Tune in to the soundtrack of nature-crashing waves, the wind rustling the trees, birds singing. Buy a small fountain, so you can enjoy the soothing sound of running water in your home or office. Hang wind chimes near an open window.
  • 72. Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress Experiment with your sense of touch, playing with different tactile sensations. Focus on things you can feel that are relaxing and renewing. Use the following suggestions as a jumping off point: Wrap yourself in a warm blanket. Pet a dog or cat. Hold a comforting object (a stuffed animal, a favourite memento). Soak in a hot bath. Give yourself a hand or neck massage. Wear clothing that feels soft against your skin.
  • 73. Building EQ – Technique: Using Your Senses to Bust Stress If you tend to shut down when you’re under stress, stress-relieving activities that get you moving may be particularly helpful. Anything that engages the muscles or gets you up and active can work. Here are a few suggestions: Run in place or jump up and down Dance around Stretch or roll your head in circles Go for a short walk Squeeze a rubbery stress ball
  • 74. Harnessing Your Emotions: Learning To Meditate Ride the Wild Horse Meditation: Find a private spot that meets your sensory needs, one where your surroundings feel completely safe and comfortable. Take off your shoes and loosen your belt or any tight clothing. Take the phone off the hook, and close the door. Find a comfortable chair that supports your back or lie down (but only if you're sure you won't drift off to sleep). Don't smoke, drink alcohol, or eat during this process Listen to the MP3 sound clips and follow the instructions
  • 75. 4.3 Developing Positive Influence (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 76. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 77. “People like people like themselves…” Igor Ledochowski
  • 78. Rapport Building Technique: Pacing and Leading This technique is frequently useful, for example when you are coaching or if you are with someone who is distressed. You use pacing to match the pace of the other person’s speech, only discussing the next topic when he or she is ready to move on. It is often described as PACE, PACE, PACE and then LEAD the conversation. Imagine that something has upset you. Before you’re able to think rationally about it, you often need to ‘get it off your chest’ by talking it through with a friend or colleague. Pacing works in a similar way. You need to allow someone to say what is important to them first, before you start discussing your agenda.
  • 79. Rapport Building Technique: Pacing and Leading EXAMPLE When speaking to an elderly person, pace their speed of conversation before discussing your agenda. This may mean allowing them to discuss something that you consider irrelevant, but which is very important to them. Then they can pay attention and listen to what you need to say. If you interrupt people you encourage them to speak faster, you often achieve exactly the opposite effect!
  • 80. Behaviour Influencing Techniques: “Little By Little” Called the foot-in-the-door technique, the following study demonstrates the tendency of people who have first agreed to a small request to comply later with a larger request. Freedman and Fraser (1966) asked a number of homeowners to let them place a huge DRIVE CAREFULLY sign in their front yards. Only seventeen percent gave permission. Another group of residents, however, was first approached with a smaller request. They were asked to put up a three-inch BE A SAFE DRIVER window sign. Nearly all agreed immediately. When approached a few weeks later, these homeowners were asked to place the gigantic signs on their front lawns. This group agreed overwhelmingly-76 percent consented to putting the unsightly larger sign in their front yards.
  • 81. Behaviour Influencing Techniques: “The Power of Humility” We are driven to follow and believe in a person whose pursuit is not seen as an exercise in self-promotion. President John F. Kennedy’s approval ratings went to record highs after the Bay of Pigs fiasco, and this is believed to be because it showed that he was human, fallible, and humble. He made a mistake and took full responsibility for it. Loyalty is not gained by being right, but rather by doing what is right. No one wants to listen to or follow someone who is egotistical. It’s impossible to be close to someone who is full of himself. If you are full of yourself, there will be no room for anyone else.
  • 82. Behaviour Influencing Techniques: “The Power of Humility” While you may get people to pay attention to you when they must or when it suits them, when the going gets rough, they’ll get going. Here are some examples of showing humility: When you do not know an answer, do not invent one. Simply say, “I don’t know.” Treat everyone with respect, especially those who can’t do anything for you and from whom you don’t need anything Do not be a know-it-all, and when you are wrong, admit it. Make personal sacrifices. The CEO who picks up garbage on the factory floor inspires workers to do the same and more
  • 83. Behaviour Influencing Techniques: “Image Consistency” In a recent study. Dr. Read Montague, a professor at the Baylor College of Medicine, gave subjects the “Pepsi challenge” with an FMRI (Functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging) scanner. Simply, he asked participants to sample both Pepsi and Coke and then state their preference. The findings were fascinating. Subjects typically found Pepsi tastier, which was confirmed visually by the FMRI when the brain’s reward centre lit up. Nevertheless, the Coke branding was so strong, as it related to their self-concepts, that they vocalized support for it instead. Brands are so powerful that people will sometimes buy and use a product they like less than a readily available alternative if they identify with it and see themselves as “that kind of person.”
  • 84. Behaviour Influencing Techniques “Repetition” Direct quote from Lieberman, “The old adage "familiarity breeds contempt" is commonly accepted but interestingly enough, it's not true. In reality, it's the opposite. Numerous studies conclude that the more you interact with someone, the more he or she will like you. According to Moreland and Zajonc (1982), repeated exposure to any stimulus, in this case a person, leads to a greater appreciation and liking (as long as the initial reaction is not negative). This is true of anything a person, a place, or even a product: the greater the exposure, the more positive the response. This is why companies sometimes advertise just a picture of a product, or its name, without any specific features or benefits of using the product. They don't need to tell us how wonderful it is, only remind us of it. Exposure, being an obvious component of repetition, can alone increase sales or votes which is why advertisers and politicians exploit this phenomenon”
  • 85. Behaviour Influencing Techniques “First Impressions” One of the best ways to influence is to make a good first impression. Here are the three principles you can practice and implement: Smile – it shows acceptance, confidence and pleasantness Primacy effect – make the initial moments of contact with people very pleasant. The rest of your conversation will be filtered through it, thereby creating a highly favourable impression Accessibility and priming - can dramatically influence how we are initially perceived. Lay the unconscious groundwork prior to your meeting.
  • 86. Behaviour Influencing Techniques “Getting People To Act” To ensure that people take action, consider the following influencing principles:   Narrow options to avoid extensive deliberation Give a deadline for taking action. A deadline restricts freedom and increases our desire to gain what is rare and becoming scarcer. This greatly motivates us to move forward and to take immediate action. Engage the law of consistency by first having an individual commit to a smaller request Use your words and your actions to engage the law of expectation Maximize the law of inertia by reducing what you want a person to do to simple, easy-to-follow steps to get him/her to begin moving in the right direction Offer any small additional benefit for taking action now. This will significantly increase your chances of gaining compliance Keep in mind that the number-one psychological rule that determines if someone will do something for you or even with you is that he/she must, to some extent, like you and, preferably, trust you
  • 88. 4.4 Positive Outcomes Expectation (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 89. Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 90. “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” The Buddha
  • 92. The Gratitude Letter Think of someone who has made a major positive difference in your life but who has never properly been thanked. It could be an old teacher, your first boss, a long-lost friend, or someone who is still in your life. Think about the impact this person had on you and write a letter of gratitude. What, specifically, are you grateful for? How were you benefited, what did you learn, and how did it make you the person you are today? Consider and define the following: Why you are writing this letter What you are grateful for. Be as specific as possible Describe the things you are grateful for in concrete terms Describe how their behaviour affected you, how you benefited, what you learnt Allow yourself to really be in touch with the feeling of gratitude as you write Read and re-read the letter to ensure that it really captures your thoughts and feelings Set a time and day to go on your gratitude visit Make the visit. For many people this is the hardest part, but it is also the most beneficial. Hint: Use the video as introduction http://makingaustraliahappy.abc.net.au/docs/gratitude_letter_worksheet.pdf
  • 93. Signiture Strenghts Hint: Use the video as introduction
  • 94. Three Blessings Our brain tends to ignore what goes well and it focuses by default on what might go wrong. Martin Seligman and others have devised and used a simple technique to address this, called the three blessings exercise; The three blessings exercise demands that you focus your attention, as you end your day, on three things that went well and why they went well. These three don’t have to be earthshattering: they can be as small as a beautiful flower you looked at. This re-educates your attention toward the positive. Even severely depressed people can find three things that went well every day, and when they do, their depression may start to lift. Hint: Use the video as introduction
  • 95. Three Blessings What to do: Every night for the next week, right before you go to bed, write down three things that went really well today. These things can be small and ordinary in importance. Think about why this good thing happened. Optional addition: Once you have completed your list of good events and your explanations for them on any night, pick one good event that you would like to dream about. Positive dreams increase life satisfaction and consolidate the memories of good events, so it is worth the effort to try and influence your dreams. Hint: Use the video as introduction http://makingaustraliahappy.abc.net.au/docs/gratitude_letter_worksheet.pdf
  • 96. Circle Of Influence And Concern For a full day, listen to your language and to the language of the people around you. How often do you use and hear reactive phrases such as “If only” “I can’t” or “I have to”? Identify an experience you might encounter in the near future where, based on past experience, you would probably behave reactively. Review the situation in the context of your Circle of Influence. How could you respond proactively? Take several moments and create the experience vividly in your mind, picturing yourself responding in a proactive manner. Make a commitment to yourself to exercise your freedom to choose. Select a problem from your work or personal life that is frustrating to you. Determine whether it is a direct, indirect or no control problem. Identify the first step you can take in your Circle of Influence to solve it and then take that step. Try the thirty day test of proactivity. For 30 days work only in your Circle of Influence. Make small commitments and keep them. Be part of the solution, not part of the problem. Be aware of the change in your Circle of Influence.
  • 97. "Reach" Method for Forgiveness
  • 98. 4.4 Establishing A Professional Network (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 99. Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 100. A personal brand is your promise to the marketplace and the world. Since everyone makes a promise to the world, one does not have a choice of having or not having a personal brand. Everyone has one. The real question is whether someone’s personal brand is powerful enough to be meaningful to the person and the marketplace. Tom Peters
  • 101. 1. Update Your Online Profiles LinkedIn Facebook Plaxo etc. Help you keep an updated CV; Arrange events (Facebook); make contact with old colleagues; participate in discussion groups
  • 102. 2. Publish Professional journals Conferences http://www.hrfuture.net http://www.publisher.co.za/ (self-publishing) http://www.penguinbooks.co.za/publishing/publishing.php http://selfpublishingassociation.blogspot.com/
  • 103. 3. Create and Distribute Content of Interest to Your Network http://www.skills-universe.com Your Outlook contacts LinkedIn contacts Facebook contacts
  • 104. 4. Start a Blog/Get Involved in the Online Conversation IT Toolbox HR Toolbox Skills Universe (South Africa) Blogger.com Link to Aggregators LinkedIn Facebook
  • 105. 5. Write and always answer everyone (no matter how small)
  • 106. 6. Pick 2-3 key associations and get active Collaborate Eat together (with the purpose to share and learn Create joint ventures Create mutual opportunities
  • 107. 7. Speak, Speak, Speak Toastmasters Conferences Informal discussion groups Brown bag sessions COP’s
  • 108. 7. Speak, Speak, Speak Toastmasters Conferences Informal discussion groups Brown bag sessions COP’s
  • 110. 5. Disciplined Implementation (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 111. The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
  • 112. 5.1 A De-Cluttering (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 113. Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 114. Be steady and well-ordered in your life so that you can be fierce and original in your work.” -Gustave Flaubert
  • 115. Collecting The Key is to have nothing on your mind (other than what you want on your mind): Have and use a ubiquitous personal “capture” tool Have and use pens and legal pads wherever you think, work, communicate After you write on your pads, tear and toss the pages into your in-basket (central collection point)
  • 116. Processing Should it be deferred – pend Does it involve more than two steps – new project Can it be done now in one or two steps -Crank Dairy Stuff Junk
  • 117. NB – Include your projects to achieve your purpose and meaning
  • 118. 5.2 A Planning and Pacing Action (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 119. Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 120. Scrum Board – Planning
  • 121. Scrum Board – Pacing Action 1 2 3 TASKS BASED ON GOALS IN PROCESS COMPLETED
  • 122. 5.3 Creating a Personal Review System (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 123. Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 124. Scrum Board – Pacing Action 1 2 3 TASKS BASED ON GOALS IN PROCESS COMPLETED What did I do since last review Answer to Independent third party What Do I Plan To Do What Is Blocking Me
  • 125. 6. Closure – Commitment to Live Long Learning (Implementing the Roadmap – Tools, Tips and Techniques)
  • 126. The Global Roadmap Start with the end in mind – Purpose and Meaning 1 2 3 Getting there – Disciplined Implementation Prepare the environment – Sustainable Ecology
  • 127. Sustainable Ecology Establishing a professional network Disciplined Implementation Decluttering Planning Pacing action Creating a review system Meaning and Direction Gaining clarity Visioning Values alignment Goal Setting THE FINAL LAP- LIFE LONG LEARNING Sustainable Ecology Self-awareness EQ and social intelligence Positive influence Positive outcomes expectation
  • 128. Scrum Board – Planning
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