Thank you, mom and dad, friends, sorry for the pain and hurt that you are experiencing.
One thing I know is your child is under stress, extreme stress by themselves or adults unintentionally. We need to understand them.
Stress season of US is highest in January: with the soaring of death, and cardiovascular stroke. Maybe they are too stress because enjoying time passed, boring stressful work begin and stressful paying credit cards for the amount that overspend before Holiday, New Year'Eve, and black Fridays. School also make American stress. The number of death reduced substantially during summer vacation, and the number of injury for kids is increased, maybe the kids play more freely than other time.
One thing to check about the effect of schooling in society: look at the diagram of the death rate between America and Europe with Australia and New Zealand. The pattern is so obviously opposite according to the different school schedule and summer vacation.
Best of all
Embrace him with love, connection, free stress environment, and chances of joy, happiness to build his abilities. Stress dominates him that he is out of control.
Think of meditation. All of these will soothe the overactive or stressed mind. Think of the moment you are under extreme stress, you may react like him, you may hurt other unconsciously.
2. Awaken You Wonderful We
Sorry Victims, We are wrong, we need to
change for our kids, our beloved ones, our
people and ourselves from crying, dying,
suicide and getting countless diseases.
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Just remember the moment of doing good to each
other, kindness, respect, trust... described by
positive adjective or positive adjectively , all will
going to sleep easily, happily, and peacefully.
- invaluable of kindness
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• You do not teach healthy kids to learn the
languages: English, Japanese, Chinese, and
Vietnamese... but kids can make it become
their instinct. That is the natural of learning
without learning, Kid under three years old
never have to sit in table to learn, but they
learn every time with joy
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Nature of learning is learning without stress,
learn just with joy, enthusiasm, with love,
endless energy, and participate of all
intelligences. The environment just supply:
Unconditioned Love, Connection –
understanding, Encourage environment
without stress, and chances of building
Abilities.
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• Walking, thinking, speaking native languages,
studying countless skills: one-year-old kids,
two-year-old kids, three-year- old kids never
have to sit in table to learn. But that time kids
can learn more than any body can imagine.
Think about that before any blind intervention.
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7. Side effects of three chemicals creating stress
Adrenalin Norepinephrine Less serious side effects
Cortisol
Serious side effects cortisol
Sweating Pain, burning Acne, dry skin, or thinning skin Vision problems
Nausea and vomiting Numbness, weakness, or
cold
Bruising or discoloration of
skin
Swelling
Pale skin Slow or uneven heart rate Insomnia Rapid weight gain
Feeling short of breath Trouble breathing Mood changes Shortness of breath
Dizziness Vision, speech, or balance
difficulties
Increased sweating Severe depression or unusual
thoughts or behaviors
Weakness or tremors Blue lips or fingernails Headache Seizures
Headache Spotted skin Dizziness Bloody or tarry stools
Feeling of nervousness
or anxiousness
Nausea, stomach pain Coughing up blood
High blood pressure symptoms: a severe headache,
blurred vision, buzzing in your ears, anxiety,
confusion, chest pain, shortness of breath, uneven
heartbeat, seizure
Symptoms of pancreatitis: pain
in your upper stomach that
spreads to your back; nausea
and vomiting; or fast heart rate
Low potassium
Dangerously high blood
pressure
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Playing are learning, watching are learning,
sleeping are learning, and doing are learning....
Kids’ most powerful tools are: weakness,
beloved, cute, enthusiasm, pay attention,
curiosity, asking, imagining, and learn, try, fail,
think, learn , try, fail, think, learn, try, fail, think
With Joy and safety. Think about that before
each time of intervention.
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Best for kids: accept we may wrong to learn to
create chances for kids grow. Socrates smart
because he said he did not know anything. I
feel cramp of Gut feelings when seeing the
parents of kids with lots of problems said they
know all things and start to blame all things
except themselves for their problems.
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I AM SORRY KIDS, VICTIMS, WE ARE WRONG!
When will all of us know the cause and treat
well ADHD, Autism, Depression and Suicide,
Homocide, Gunfire, Heart diseases,
Autoimmune diseases, and countless Health
problems…
And the hidden causes of all of these?
Some think maybe because of Stress, … In
detail please!
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Seeing my friend with college degree take five
to ten year to learn English but fail in speaking
in normal conversation, I realize that how
potential our kids are if we let them freely as
themselves. And how devastating kids will if
that friend force his kids learn in his way.
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The ignorant stressed world: The world is spending
half of it money: $ thousand billions on buying
weapon for finding safety, certainty or peace.
Then they spend $ thousand billions on medicine,
luxury products, cars, villas for find the feeling of
significance, recognition, importance, and they
spend other $ trillions on medication, drug with the
hope of sleeping well, relaxing, relieving, and
enjoying the artificial comfort and happiness???
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• A stress moment can kill a student.
A stress moment can kill a banker
A stress moment can kill a CEO
A stress moment can kill a politician
They are strong but the severe stress moment can have
affect all their life. It embed in their brain, cell, organ that
we do not consciously know but the subconscious mind
know that moment: smell, sound, noise, invisible signal
then create the conditioned responses to it.
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Language, religions, accent, belief, behaviors,
rituals, religions and funeral religions are the
conditioned responses: you, your friend and
partners have big differences in these: Will you
dare to try to change with other people to enjoy
their belief, rituals, and religions.
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• A stress moment can kill a student.
A stress moment can kill a banker
A stress moment can kill a CEO
A stress moment can kill a politician
They are strong but the severe stress moment can have
affect all their life. It embed in their brain, cell, organ
that we do not consciously know but the subconscious
mind know that moment: smell, sound, noise, invisible
signal then create the conditioned responses to it.
You see
Soldiers in ended 1950 are still under stress with any
mild unwanted triggers.
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18. Side effects of three chemicals creating stress: Syndrome or Spectrum
Adrenalin Norepinephrine Less serious side effects
Cortisol
Serious side effects cortisol
Sweating Pain, burning Acne, dry skin, or thinning skin Vision problems
Nausea and vomiting Numbness, weakness, or
cold
Bruising or discoloration of
skin
Swelling
Pale skin Slow or uneven heart rate Insomnia Rapid weight gain
Feeling short of breath Trouble breathing Mood changes Shortness of breath
Dizziness Vision, speech, or balance
difficulties
Increased sweating Severe depression or unusual
thoughts or behaviors
Weakness or tremors Blue lips or fingernails Headache Seizures
Headache Spotted skin Dizziness Bloody or tarry stools
Feeling of nervousness
or anxiousness
Nausea, stomach pain Coughing up blood
High blood pressure symptoms: a severe headache,
blurred vision, buzzing in your ears, anxiety,
confusion, chest pain, shortness of breath, uneven
heartbeat, seizure
Symptoms of pancreatitis: pain
in your upper stomach that
spreads to your back; nausea
and vomiting; or fast heart rate
Low potassium
Dangerously high blood
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A stress moment can kill a student.
A stress moment can kill a banker
A stress moment can kill a CEO
A stress moment can kill a politician
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Even the name of you and your dogs are results of
Conditioned responses with languages. You like all
of these because you have been conditioned, not
because you like and chose these. The process of
conditioning are so well and silently that you may
illusively think you have the Ego
You may die or sacrifice ignorantly for the adopted
assumption, belief, and religions. People are so
ignorant that people in one family, community,
region, district, class, city, countries are fighting for
the changing opinions.
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• You may die or sacrifice ignorantly for the
adopted assumption, belief, and religions.
People are so ignorant that people in one
family, community, region, district, class, city,
countries are fighting for the changing
opinions.
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Even the name of you and your dogs are results
of Conditioned responses with languages. You
like all of these because you have been
conditioned, not because you like and chose
these. The process of conditioning are so well
and silently that you may illusively think you
have the Ego
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You may die or sacrifice for the adopted
assumption, belief, and religions. People are so
ignorant that people in one family, community,
region, district, class, city, countries are fighting
for the changing opinions.
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• Value of character: the kind of conditioned
responses
• Discontented men react to good unwanted
things discontentedly. "Discontented men may
shouting when seeing thorn in the bushes of
roses."
• Contented men conditioned responses to
response contentedly to any unwanted things,
problems, and challenges. "Contented men
happy, joyful and hope when seeing a rose in
the bushes of thorns."
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Value of character, adjective of character:
Discontented men react to good unwanted
things discontentedly.
Contented men conditioned responses to
response contentedly to any unwanted things,
problems, and challenges. He is ADJECTIVE
character means he conditioned ADJECTIVE
responses or he responses to things adjectively.
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• "Contented men happy, joyful and hope when
seeing a rose in the bushes of thorns.“
• “Discontented men may angry, upset when
seeing a bushes of rose have thorn.”
He is ADJECTIVE character means he conditioned
ADJECTIVE responses or he responses to things
adjectively.
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Value of character: the kind of conditioned
responses.
Worst of all, he is intelligent but corrupt, means
he finish well the corrupt works intelligently in
spite of countless regulations that no one until
hundred years later.
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Seeing a small brave girl ready to fight with a
thief, a dog to protect her friends and
understand the value of characters or Virtues.
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• Seeing a girl with college education
screaming and running away when seeing a
cockroach I understand the useless of
knowing, IQ or formal education.
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Seeing a girl with college education screaming
and running away when seeing a cockroach I
understand the useless of knowing, or formal
education. Seeing a small brave girl ready to
fight with a thief, a dog to protect her friends
and understand the value of characters.
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"No disabilities, no mental illness, no murderer
are born. Only healthy babies, all doctors,
physicians and medical test said that. Only angel
babies are born, all parents, adults said that"
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But
They live in stress, eat in fear, sleep in anxiety,
playing in boring safe side, wear luxury clothes in
discontentment, study with pressure, and sexing
with contempt. They never find the real joy, and
happiness. Stress chemical: Adrenalin,
noradrenalin, and cortisone created countless
side effect on patients which are listed in any
medical book.
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Awaken parents:
"No disabilities, no mental illness, no murderer
are born. Only healthy babies, all doctors,
physicians and medical test said that. Only
angel babies are born, all parents, adults said
that"
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Stress chemical: Adrenalin, noradrenalin, and
cortisone. And happy chemicals: Endorphin,
Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin; these chemical
secreted in the body according to state of mind.
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Stress chemical: Adrenalin, noradrenalin, and
cortisone. And happy chemicals: Endorphin,
Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin.
These chemical secreted in the body according to
state of mind. If an individual changes the state of
mind, they may change the chemical in body.
Chronic Stress people may get serious side effect of
Stress chemicals. List the effects, and side effects
on the medical books we know the results of stress
on the body.
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To know your kids are stressed or not let’s check
with:
Effects of Adrenalin: Sweating, Nausea and
vomiting, Pale skin, Feeling short of breath,
Dizziness, Weakness or tremors, Headache, Feeling
of nervousness or anxiousness.
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Effects of Norepinephrine: Pain, burning,
Numbness, weakness, or cold, Slow or uneven
heart rate, Trouble breathing, Vision, speech, or
balance difficulties, Blue lips or fingernails,
Spotted skin
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• Mild effects Cortisol: Acne, dry skin, or thinning
skin, Bruising or discoloration of skin, Insomnia,
Mood changes, Increased sweating, Headache,
Dizziness, Nausea, stomach pain,
• Serious effects cortisol: Vision problems, Swelling,
Rapid weight gain, Shortness of breath, Severe
depression or unusual thoughts or behaviors,
Seizures, Bloody or tarry stools, Coughing up blood,
Symptoms of pancreatitis: pain in your upper
stomach that spreads to your back; nausea and
vomiting; or fast heart rate.
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Because of me, because of you I always enjoy
these chemicals in eating, receiving, getting,
giving, sleeping and enjoying.
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"Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone
around me
Because of you
I am afraid"
-Kelly Clarkson: because of you-
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Because of me, because of you I always enjoy
these stress chemicals in eating, receiving,
getting, giving, sleeping and enjoying.
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• Happy kids are free to play, do, try, fail
and have unconditioned support.
"They are safe to work"
• Stressed kids are so fear that they have
to play in safe, learn in clean, walk in
trail, and never fail. They have to burry
the instinct nature inside:
"They have to work to safe”
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"All on one
One in all
Children is family
Family is nation
Nation is the world“
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