This is a condensed slide deck from the tenth (and final) class in my section of Interpersonal Dynamics (aka Touchy Feely) at the Stanford Graduate School of Business in Winter Quarter 2017.

1. Interpersonal
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Ed Batista
Class 10: ENDINGS
Dynamics

2. Next steps
A few remarks
A few more goodbyes
Formal course evaluation
Final feedback in T-groups
Today’s agenda
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3. Final feedback
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4. Final feedback
Series of 1:1 conversations, 6 minutes per round
Facilitators will note halfway & end points
Essential to stop on time

5. Final feedback
Don’t just read your notes
The experience makes a difference
This isn’t the time to drop a bombshell

6. Some closing
remarks

7. Frozen
Unfreezing
Refreezing
Change
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8. The real world
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9. Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect
Matthew Lieberman, UCLA
Social

10. Connecting (Social pain & pleasure)
Mindreading (Understand others)
Harmonizing (Group influence)
Social

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SCARF model

12. Status
Certainty
Autonomy
Relatedness
Fairness
SCARF model

13. Status (Provide recognition)
Certainty (Show up consistently)
Autonomy (Maximize others’ agency)
Relatedness (Sense bids & build connections)
Fairness (Minimize defensiveness via the Net*)
SCARF model

14. Growth
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15. Pursuing experiences that
make you uncomfortable
is the fastest way to grow.
Comfort with
discomfort

16. Have the
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conversation…

17. & learn to let go
I don’t have to attend
every argument
I’m invited to.
~W.C. Fields

18. Dynamics
Interpersonal
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