SlideShare una empresa de Scribd logo
1 de 10
Lecture Objectives
0 By the end of this lecture you will :
0 Know the meaning of lying
0 Be able to analyze why people lie
0 Understand the psychology behind lying
Meaning of Lying
0 Untruthful
0 Dishonest
0 False
0 Deceitful

0 Disingenuous

0 There are lots of
different words used
to express what lying
could mean. Put
simply it is not
telling the truth
Why do you think people lie?
0 Here is what some

people think the reason
is for lying

0 Please see video!!
Psychology of Lying
0 Psychologist Leonard

Saxe, Ph.D., a polygraph
expert and professor of
psychology at Brandeis
University, says, "Lying
has long been a part of
everyday life. We
couldn't get through the
day without being
deceptive."

0 Most People Lie 1-2

times per day
0 People lie in about a 1/5
of their social exchanges
lasting 10 or more
minutes
0 over the course of a
week people deceive
about 30% of those with
who they interact oneon-one with
PSYCHOLOGY OF LYING
 society often encourages and
even rewards deception.
 Lying is an integral part of some
occupations
 lawyers construct far-fetched
theories on behalf of their
clients
 reporters misrepresent
themselves in order to gain
access to good stories.

0 What do you think?
0 Can you think of any other
professions where people may
need to lie?

0 Does society reward liars?
0 Explain how?
How does this relate to HR?
0 This is important

because before being
able to read people, you
must first understand
why the lie. Then you
can understand how
they lie and then you
will be able to read them
when they lie
Why do people lie?
0 If asked this question now will your answer be any

different?
0 Why do you think people lie now?
0 Why do you think someone would lie in an interview?
0 The answers seem straightforward but try digging a
bit deeper
Why People Lie
0 People lie because it is ingrained in us through society
0 People lie because they believe that what they have to

offer is not good enough
0 People lie as a means of self preservation
0 People lie because they think they will not be caught
Why Lie in an Interview?
0 For the same reasons and:
0 They need the job but are not qualified
0 They think that they could learn it all on the job
0 Protect yourself and your company, learn the key

signs that people give away when they are lying
without even know!

0Next Lecture: Body Language of a Liar

Más contenido relacionado

La actualidad más candente

La actualidad más candente (20)

Shyness
ShynessShyness
Shyness
 
Gratitude
GratitudeGratitude
Gratitude
 
The Art of Empathy
The Art of Empathy The Art of Empathy
The Art of Empathy
 
Lie Detection - Reading the Face
Lie Detection - Reading the FaceLie Detection - Reading the Face
Lie Detection - Reading the Face
 
Empathy
EmpathyEmpathy
Empathy
 
Empathy at workplace
Empathy at workplaceEmpathy at workplace
Empathy at workplace
 
The Meaning of "Friendship"
The Meaning of "Friendship"The Meaning of "Friendship"
The Meaning of "Friendship"
 
The power of subconscious mind
The power of subconscious mindThe power of subconscious mind
The power of subconscious mind
 
Micro expressions
Micro expressionsMicro expressions
Micro expressions
 
Happiness & Gratitude
Happiness & GratitudeHappiness & Gratitude
Happiness & Gratitude
 
Helping
HelpingHelping
Helping
 
Why Do Man Lie
Why Do Man LieWhy Do Man Lie
Why Do Man Lie
 
Anger Management: Understanding Anger
Anger Management: Understanding AngerAnger Management: Understanding Anger
Anger Management: Understanding Anger
 
Importance of self confidence
Importance of self confidenceImportance of self confidence
Importance of self confidence
 
Learning to Say No
Learning to Say NoLearning to Say No
Learning to Say No
 
Empathy: The Science of Feeling. Do You Have Enough Empathy to Reach Your Ful...
Empathy: The Science of Feeling. Do You Have Enough Empathy to Reach Your Ful...Empathy: The Science of Feeling. Do You Have Enough Empathy to Reach Your Ful...
Empathy: The Science of Feeling. Do You Have Enough Empathy to Reach Your Ful...
 
Self Love
Self LoveSelf Love
Self Love
 
Reading Microexpressions- Lie to me Session @barcammumbai
Reading Microexpressions- Lie to me Session @barcammumbaiReading Microexpressions- Lie to me Session @barcammumbai
Reading Microexpressions- Lie to me Session @barcammumbai
 
Persuasion
PersuasionPersuasion
Persuasion
 
Lying: NATURE,CAUSES,PREVENTION AND SYMPTOMS
Lying: NATURE,CAUSES,PREVENTION AND SYMPTOMSLying: NATURE,CAUSES,PREVENTION AND SYMPTOMS
Lying: NATURE,CAUSES,PREVENTION AND SYMPTOMS
 

Destacado

Destacado (7)

Presentación Lies
Presentación LiesPresentación Lies
Presentación Lies
 
M7 A2 Psy492
M7 A2 Psy492M7 A2 Psy492
M7 A2 Psy492
 
Ash2
Ash2Ash2
Ash2
 
Top 12 gestures if a person is lying
Top 12 gestures if a person is lyingTop 12 gestures if a person is lying
Top 12 gestures if a person is lying
 
Lying
LyingLying
Lying
 
Johari Window
Johari WindowJohari Window
Johari Window
 
Johari window
Johari windowJohari window
Johari window
 

Similar a Why people lie

Crucial conversations deadwood presentation
Crucial conversations deadwood presentationCrucial conversations deadwood presentation
Crucial conversations deadwood presentationmstock18494
 
How to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & Messages
How to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & MessagesHow to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & Messages
How to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & MessagesGlen Cathey
 
Half a Balloon doesn't fly
Half a Balloon doesn't flyHalf a Balloon doesn't fly
Half a Balloon doesn't flyAnke Holst
 
Social media and its Impacts on society
Social media and its Impacts on societySocial media and its Impacts on society
Social media and its Impacts on societyUrwa Shanza
 
How To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For In
How To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For InHow To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For In
How To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For InKimberly Pulley
 
SCKESC Crisis Media Training
SCKESC Crisis Media TrainingSCKESC Crisis Media Training
SCKESC Crisis Media TrainingSCKESC
 
10 things that i learnt about
10 things that i learnt about10 things that i learnt about
10 things that i learnt aboutManish Parihar
 
LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015
LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015 LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015
LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015 Engagement Strategies, LLC
 
Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...
Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...
Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...Engagement Strategies, LLC
 
Graphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That Scaff
Graphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That ScaffGraphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That Scaff
Graphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That ScaffErin Rivera
 
English Essay For Class 5
English Essay For Class 5English Essay For Class 5
English Essay For Class 5Debbie White
 
Social Media Strategy - Sleeping Lion
Social Media Strategy - Sleeping LionSocial Media Strategy - Sleeping Lion
Social Media Strategy - Sleeping LionSarah Duncan
 
Too Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & Techniques
Too Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & TechniquesToo Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & Techniques
Too Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & TechniquesRae Stonehouse
 
Sample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle School
Sample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle SchoolSample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle School
Sample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle SchoolLisa Long
 
Best Essay For University
Best Essay For UniversityBest Essay For University
Best Essay For UniversityAndrea Lawson
 

Similar a Why people lie (20)

Crucial conversations deadwood presentation
Crucial conversations deadwood presentationCrucial conversations deadwood presentation
Crucial conversations deadwood presentation
 
Communication Barriers
Communication BarriersCommunication Barriers
Communication Barriers
 
How to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & Messages
How to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & MessagesHow to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & Messages
How to Get People to Respond to Your Recruiting Emails & Messages
 
How to change your life
How to change your lifeHow to change your life
How to change your life
 
Get A Job 2016
Get A Job 2016Get A Job 2016
Get A Job 2016
 
Half a Balloon doesn't fly
Half a Balloon doesn't flyHalf a Balloon doesn't fly
Half a Balloon doesn't fly
 
Social media and its Impacts on society
Social media and its Impacts on societySocial media and its Impacts on society
Social media and its Impacts on society
 
How To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For In
How To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For InHow To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For In
How To Write A Unique Statement Of Purpose For In
 
SCKESC Crisis Media Training
SCKESC Crisis Media TrainingSCKESC Crisis Media Training
SCKESC Crisis Media Training
 
10 things that i learnt about
10 things that i learnt about10 things that i learnt about
10 things that i learnt about
 
EIA2019HK - Marketing ABC - Ross Kingland
EIA2019HK -  Marketing ABC - Ross KinglandEIA2019HK -  Marketing ABC - Ross Kingland
EIA2019HK - Marketing ABC - Ross Kingland
 
WorkLifeBalance_GEDI
WorkLifeBalance_GEDIWorkLifeBalance_GEDI
WorkLifeBalance_GEDI
 
LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015
LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015 LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015
LinkedIn for continuous quality improvement NAEYC Annual 2015
 
Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...
Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...
Linked in for Continuous Quality Improvement in Early Education naeyc annual ...
 
Graphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That Scaff
Graphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That ScaffGraphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That Scaff
Graphic Organizers Strategy Sheets That Scaff
 
English Essay For Class 5
English Essay For Class 5English Essay For Class 5
English Essay For Class 5
 
Social Media Strategy - Sleeping Lion
Social Media Strategy - Sleeping LionSocial Media Strategy - Sleeping Lion
Social Media Strategy - Sleeping Lion
 
Too Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & Techniques
Too Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & TechniquesToo Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & Techniques
Too Shy to Network? Power Networking Tips & Techniques
 
Sample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle School
Sample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle SchoolSample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle School
Sample Of An Argumentative Essay For Middle School
 
Best Essay For University
Best Essay For UniversityBest Essay For University
Best Essay For University
 

Último

TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024
TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024
TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024Stephen Perrenod
 
Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...
Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...
Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...FIDO Alliance
 
The Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdf
The Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdfThe Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdf
The Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdfFIDO Alliance
 
The Metaverse: Are We There Yet?
The  Metaverse:    Are   We  There  Yet?The  Metaverse:    Are   We  There  Yet?
The Metaverse: Are We There Yet?Mark Billinghurst
 
Linux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdf
Linux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdfLinux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdf
Linux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdfFIDO Alliance
 
Oauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoft
Oauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoftOauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoft
Oauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoftshyamraj55
 
Intro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptx
Intro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptxIntro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptx
Intro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptxFIDO Alliance
 
Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...
Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...
Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...panagenda
 
ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...
ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...
ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...FIDO Alliance
 
How we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdf
How we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdfHow we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdf
How we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdfSrushith Repakula
 
Tales from a Passkey Provider Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptx
Tales from a Passkey Provider  Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptxTales from a Passkey Provider  Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptx
Tales from a Passkey Provider Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptxFIDO Alliance
 
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...ScyllaDB
 
Structuring Teams and Portfolios for Success
Structuring Teams and Portfolios for SuccessStructuring Teams and Portfolios for Success
Structuring Teams and Portfolios for SuccessUXDXConf
 
1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPT
1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPT1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPT
1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPTiSEO AI
 
Working together SRE & Platform Engineering
Working together SRE & Platform EngineeringWorking together SRE & Platform Engineering
Working together SRE & Platform EngineeringMarcus Vechiato
 
Your enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4j
Your enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4jYour enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4j
Your enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4jNeo4j
 
AI mind or machine power point presentation
AI mind or machine power point presentationAI mind or machine power point presentation
AI mind or machine power point presentationyogeshlabana357357
 
State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!
State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!
State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!Memoori
 
ERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage Intacct
ERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage IntacctERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage Intacct
ERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage IntacctBrainSell Technologies
 
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream Processing
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream ProcessingEvent-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream Processing
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream ProcessingScyllaDB
 

Último (20)

TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024
TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024
TopCryptoSupers 12thReport OrionX May2024
 
Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...
Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...
Choosing the Right FDO Deployment Model for Your Application _ Geoffrey at In...
 
The Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdf
The Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdfThe Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdf
The Value of Certifying Products for FDO _ Paul at FIDO Alliance.pdf
 
The Metaverse: Are We There Yet?
The  Metaverse:    Are   We  There  Yet?The  Metaverse:    Are   We  There  Yet?
The Metaverse: Are We There Yet?
 
Linux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdf
Linux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdfLinux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdf
Linux Foundation Edge _ Overview of FDO Software Components _ Randy at Intel.pdf
 
Oauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoft
Oauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoftOauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoft
Oauth 2.0 Introduction and Flows with MuleSoft
 
Intro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptx
Intro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptxIntro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptx
Intro to Passkeys and the State of Passwordless.pptx
 
Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...
Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...
Easier, Faster, and More Powerful – Alles Neu macht der Mai -Wir durchleuchte...
 
ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...
ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...
ASRock Industrial FDO Solutions in Action for Industrial Edge AI _ Kenny at A...
 
How we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdf
How we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdfHow we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdf
How we scaled to 80K users by doing nothing!.pdf
 
Tales from a Passkey Provider Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptx
Tales from a Passkey Provider  Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptxTales from a Passkey Provider  Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptx
Tales from a Passkey Provider Progress from Awareness to Implementation.pptx
 
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Integrating Distributed Data Stores Ac...
 
Structuring Teams and Portfolios for Success
Structuring Teams and Portfolios for SuccessStructuring Teams and Portfolios for Success
Structuring Teams and Portfolios for Success
 
1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPT
1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPT1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPT
1111 ChatGPT Prompts PDF Free Download - Prompts for ChatGPT
 
Working together SRE & Platform Engineering
Working together SRE & Platform EngineeringWorking together SRE & Platform Engineering
Working together SRE & Platform Engineering
 
Your enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4j
Your enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4jYour enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4j
Your enemies use GenAI too - staying ahead of fraud with Neo4j
 
AI mind or machine power point presentation
AI mind or machine power point presentationAI mind or machine power point presentation
AI mind or machine power point presentation
 
State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!
State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!
State of the Smart Building Startup Landscape 2024!
 
ERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage Intacct
ERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage IntacctERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage Intacct
ERP Contender Series: Acumatica vs. Sage Intacct
 
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream Processing
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream ProcessingEvent-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream Processing
Event-Driven Architecture Masterclass: Challenges in Stream Processing
 

Why people lie

  • 1.
  • 2. Lecture Objectives 0 By the end of this lecture you will : 0 Know the meaning of lying 0 Be able to analyze why people lie 0 Understand the psychology behind lying
  • 3. Meaning of Lying 0 Untruthful 0 Dishonest 0 False 0 Deceitful 0 Disingenuous 0 There are lots of different words used to express what lying could mean. Put simply it is not telling the truth
  • 4. Why do you think people lie? 0 Here is what some people think the reason is for lying 0 Please see video!!
  • 5. Psychology of Lying 0 Psychologist Leonard Saxe, Ph.D., a polygraph expert and professor of psychology at Brandeis University, says, "Lying has long been a part of everyday life. We couldn't get through the day without being deceptive." 0 Most People Lie 1-2 times per day 0 People lie in about a 1/5 of their social exchanges lasting 10 or more minutes 0 over the course of a week people deceive about 30% of those with who they interact oneon-one with
  • 6. PSYCHOLOGY OF LYING  society often encourages and even rewards deception.  Lying is an integral part of some occupations  lawyers construct far-fetched theories on behalf of their clients  reporters misrepresent themselves in order to gain access to good stories. 0 What do you think? 0 Can you think of any other professions where people may need to lie? 0 Does society reward liars? 0 Explain how?
  • 7. How does this relate to HR? 0 This is important because before being able to read people, you must first understand why the lie. Then you can understand how they lie and then you will be able to read them when they lie
  • 8. Why do people lie? 0 If asked this question now will your answer be any different? 0 Why do you think people lie now? 0 Why do you think someone would lie in an interview? 0 The answers seem straightforward but try digging a bit deeper
  • 9. Why People Lie 0 People lie because it is ingrained in us through society 0 People lie because they believe that what they have to offer is not good enough 0 People lie as a means of self preservation 0 People lie because they think they will not be caught
  • 10. Why Lie in an Interview? 0 For the same reasons and: 0 They need the job but are not qualified 0 They think that they could learn it all on the job 0 Protect yourself and your company, learn the key signs that people give away when they are lying without even know! 0Next Lecture: Body Language of a Liar