From the talk at #dareconf mini, 20 January 2014. View the whiteboard animations from slides 3, 12, 17 and 25 separately on YouTube: http://youtu.be/tAIXMaO9Hhw

1. How to realise your dreams
@gabrielsmy

2. Excuses, excuses, excuses

3. Most people have got
what they wanted
[VIDEO]

4. “I have written 11 books, but each time I think,
'Uh-oh, they're going to find [me] out now’”
Maya Angelou

5. Commitment comes first

6. “The moment one definitely commits oneself
then providence moves too”
W.H. Murray

7. The work we have to do
versus
the work we want to do

8. Constraints are how things happen

9. “I thought I was going to live the life of a writer,
sitting in pubs drinking Guinness.
But I like having a day job, too. I can only write,
it turns out, when I have no apparent spare time.”
Magnus Mills

10. Paradoxes are creative

11. We need other people
like the holes in our head

12. Jungian archetypes
[VIDEO]

13. King/queen

14. Warrior

15. Wizard

16. Lover/friend

17. 4 stages of change
[VIDEO]

18. Disruption

19. Disorder

20. Reordering

21. New relationship

22. On the terraces—
stories, commentary, opinion,
excuses, gossip, whining

23. On the pitch—
offers and requests

24. Two committed people
Action
Delivery date

25. Commit already
[VIDEO]