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Hangang sa Dulo ng Walang Hangan (Making your marriage last a lifetime )
My Family
 
Kamusta Ka ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Plano ng Dios (John 10:10) ,[object Object],To live life to the fullest! GRABE To live life with a wow!  LUBOS! Masaganang buhay, ngayon!
Ano ang ating nakikita (John 10:10)? ,[object Object],50%  paghihiwalay 70%  taas sa pagwawalang bisa! 10%  can only be considered highly  successful! (matagumpay)
[object Object],[object Object]
` ,[object Object],Paano ba namin patuloy na pagiibayuhim ang aming pagsasama? Ano pa ba ang dapat naming malaman upang ang aming pagsasama ay pang habang buhay ?
Hangang sa Dulo ng Walang Hangan
I. Understand God’s Intention ,[object Object],[object Object]
1. Salamin (Reflection) ,[object Object],[object Object]
Magmuni-muni ,[object Object],[object Object],Salamin o Larawan
2. Pagtitipan (Covenant) ,[object Object]
[object Object]
3. Habang buhay (lifetime) ,[object Object],[object Object]
The number 1 na hadlang ,[object Object],[object Object]
Ang tingin ko ba ay ako ang laging tama o ang laging nagbibigay sa aming pagsasama? Magmuni-muni:
II. Umunawa (Understand)
1. Tignan ang pagkakaibahan (“differentness”) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Male vs. Female brain ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Male vs. Female brain ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
5 Pananalita ng Pagibig ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Paano malaman 1 . Observe how your spouse expresses  love to you (sa iyo).  2. Observe how your spouse expresses  love to others (sa iba). 3. Listen to what your spouse requests  most often (laging hiling). 4. Listen to your spouse’s most frequent  complaints laging (reklamo). 5. Give your spouse a choice between two  options (ipapili).
2. Pasukin ang kanyang mundo ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
3. Tangapin ang lahat-lahat ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
3. Tangapin ang lahat-lahat ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Have I ever tried to enter the world of my spouse   (Handa na ba akong pasukin ang mundo ng aking asawa)   ? Magmuni-muni:
III. Tunay na makinig
1. Nanganganinag na Pakikinig (Reflective Listening)
What is it? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
2. Naririg ba ako? (“I” vs. “You”)
“ Ikaw” Message Criticism/Blaming/ Accusing/Complaining  Result:  Resentment or rebellion  Self-worth affected Misunderstanding  Total person affected
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],“ Ako” - Message
Examples (wrong) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Examples (right) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
3. Listen to the body language 7%   - Salita  38%  - Tono 55%  - Kilos ng katawan 38% +  55% =  93%  Hindi salita! http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/13/words-are-only-7-of-your-communication/
Reading the non-verbal communication
Lottery Winner
9/11 Tragedy
Aftermath of Ondoy
Engagement
Before the Divorce
Ako ba ay handang tunay na makinig sa aking asawa upang magalak at maghirap sa kasama nya? Magmuni-muni:
Pagtatapos : ,[object Object]
Pagtatapos : ,[object Object]
Renewal of Marriage Vows ,[object Object]
Renewal of Marriage Vows ,[object Object]
 
 

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Always together forever revised saint joseph 2010

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  • 2. Hangang sa Dulo ng Walang Hangan (Making your marriage last a lifetime )
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  • 18. Ang tingin ko ba ay ako ang laging tama o ang laging nagbibigay sa aming pagsasama? Magmuni-muni:
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  • 25. Paano malaman 1 . Observe how your spouse expresses love to you (sa iyo). 2. Observe how your spouse expresses love to others (sa iba). 3. Listen to what your spouse requests most often (laging hiling). 4. Listen to your spouse’s most frequent complaints laging (reklamo). 5. Give your spouse a choice between two options (ipapili).
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  • 29. Have I ever tried to enter the world of my spouse (Handa na ba akong pasukin ang mundo ng aking asawa) ? Magmuni-muni:
  • 30. III. Tunay na makinig
  • 31. 1. Nanganganinag na Pakikinig (Reflective Listening)
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  • 33. 2. Naririg ba ako? (“I” vs. “You”)
  • 34. “ Ikaw” Message Criticism/Blaming/ Accusing/Complaining Result: Resentment or rebellion Self-worth affected Misunderstanding Total person affected
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  • 38. 3. Listen to the body language 7% - Salita 38% - Tono 55% - Kilos ng katawan 38% + 55% = 93% Hindi salita! http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/13/words-are-only-7-of-your-communication/
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Notas del editor

  1. God wants us to know about that great marriage; so He created earthly marriages as reflections of it.
  2. Jewish Family Paul – paradigm shift from I Corinthians (marriage as a distraction) to Ephesians (marriage as a mysterion or a mystery) Head of Teen Challenge – many ptr’s kids in drug rehab We blame the devil when our kids go astray, but the truth is that we believe the lie that it is more holy to serve the church, than to serve our own families E.g. we have one on one discipleships with our members, but we cannot have one on one time with our children or spouses; we do visitation for our members when they get sick, but, we cannot stay home for our children when they are sick.
  3. Jewish Family Paul – paradigm shift from I Corinthians (marriage as a distraction) to Ephesians (marriage as a mysterion or a mystery) Head of Teen Challenge – many ptr’s kids in drug rehab We blame the devil when our kids go astray, but the truth is that we believe the lie that it is more holy to serve the church, than to serve our own families E.g. we have one on one discipleships with our members, but we cannot have one on one time with our children or spouses; we do visitation for our members when they get sick, but, we cannot stay home for our children when they are sick.
  4. Jewish Family Paul – paradigm shift from I Corinthians (marriage as a distraction) to Ephesians (marriage as a mysterion or a mystery) Head of Teen Challenge – many ptr’s kids in drug rehab We blame the devil when our kids go astray, but the truth is that we believe the lie that it is more holy to serve the church, than to serve our own families E.g. we have one on one discipleships with our members, but we cannot have one on one time with our children or spouses; we do visitation for our members when they get sick, but, we cannot stay home for our children when they are sick.