25. Paano malaman 1 . Observe how your spouse expresses love to you (sa iyo). 2. Observe how your spouse expresses love to others (sa iba). 3. Listen to what your spouse requests most often (laging hiling). 4. Listen to your spouse’s most frequent complaints laging (reklamo). 5. Give your spouse a choice between two options (ipapili).
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29. Have I ever tried to enter the world of my spouse (Handa na ba akong pasukin ang mundo ng aking asawa) ? Magmuni-muni:
34. “ Ikaw” Message Criticism/Blaming/ Accusing/Complaining Result: Resentment or rebellion Self-worth affected Misunderstanding Total person affected
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38. 3. Listen to the body language 7% - Salita 38% - Tono 55% - Kilos ng katawan 38% + 55% = 93% Hindi salita! http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/13/words-are-only-7-of-your-communication/
45. Ako ba ay handang tunay na makinig sa aking asawa upang magalak at maghirap sa kasama nya? Magmuni-muni:
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Notas del editor
God wants us to know about that great marriage; so He created earthly marriages as reflections of it.
Jewish Family Paul – paradigm shift from I Corinthians (marriage as a distraction) to Ephesians (marriage as a mysterion or a mystery) Head of Teen Challenge – many ptr’s kids in drug rehab We blame the devil when our kids go astray, but the truth is that we believe the lie that it is more holy to serve the church, than to serve our own families E.g. we have one on one discipleships with our members, but we cannot have one on one time with our children or spouses; we do visitation for our members when they get sick, but, we cannot stay home for our children when they are sick.
Jewish Family Paul – paradigm shift from I Corinthians (marriage as a distraction) to Ephesians (marriage as a mysterion or a mystery) Head of Teen Challenge – many ptr’s kids in drug rehab We blame the devil when our kids go astray, but the truth is that we believe the lie that it is more holy to serve the church, than to serve our own families E.g. we have one on one discipleships with our members, but we cannot have one on one time with our children or spouses; we do visitation for our members when they get sick, but, we cannot stay home for our children when they are sick.
Jewish Family Paul – paradigm shift from I Corinthians (marriage as a distraction) to Ephesians (marriage as a mysterion or a mystery) Head of Teen Challenge – many ptr’s kids in drug rehab We blame the devil when our kids go astray, but the truth is that we believe the lie that it is more holy to serve the church, than to serve our own families E.g. we have one on one discipleships with our members, but we cannot have one on one time with our children or spouses; we do visitation for our members when they get sick, but, we cannot stay home for our children when they are sick.