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1. Hidden Minefield?

2. How do you respond when you hear or
see a child cry, other than your own?

3. Many perceive it as a nuisance,
especially if you're in church or at the
movies.

4. One interesting thing to do is when
you're out "watching people" in public,
check out the reaction of others when
a kid starts crying.

5. Most of the men will look quickly with
a slight bit of annoyance.

6. Some of the women will look at the
parent, depending on their own
experience.

7. Maybe both.

8. There's a technique called "dark
energy" or "shadow energy" whereby
we assume that the things about
others that bother us are really
because they remind us about parts of
us we are unwilling or afraid to face.

9. A way to dig into your own negative
energy is to wait until somebody
bothers you.

10. And then instead of getting angry at
them, or wishing they'd go away, ask
yourself, "What is it about me that
they might remind me of?"

11. And then pay attention to the answer.

12. If you find a part of yourself that don't
particularly like, or aren't very proud if,
simply accept it.

13. Just sit with it for a while, and accept
it.

14. Don't ignore it or change it.

15. Many places in the world that have
seen plenty of warfare have live mines.

16. Meaning there's big fields where
farmers can't farm, kids can't play, and
people can't take shortcuts.

17. Since they are so expensive and time
consuming to find and remove, they
just put up a big fence around it with
plenty of warnings.

18. We also have hidden "mines" within
us.

19. Things that suddenly "go off" with you
least expect them.

20. Somebody says something, somebody
looks you a certain way, and it might
remind you of something far, far back
in your past.

21. Maybe something you'd rather not
face.

22. Something you did, or something that
was done to you.

23. The good news is that there is an easy
way to get rid of those land mines
from your past.

24. Which will give you a lot more space to
play, grow and take shortcuts.

25. And the process can be a lot of fun.

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