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2. Whenever you do any kind of planning
or manifesting, it's always
recommended to have a positive
expectation.

3. If you think you'll fail, you will increase
your chances of that happening.

4. Say you go in for a job interview, and
you don't think you'll do well.

5. This will decrease your enthusiasm,
which will have a negative effect on
how you present yourself.

6. Of course, this will decrease the
chances you get the job, making your
negative expectations come true.

7. On the other hand, if you've got
positive expectations, and really
imagine yourself having the job, then
you'll be much more outgoing,
confident and articulate.

8. Things interviewers love to see.

9. However, this won't guarantee you get
the job.

10. Sure, it will increase your chances.

11. But what if everybody else who's
interviewing is doing the same thing?

12. This is one of the problems with
holding a positive expectation.

13. If it doesn't happen right away, it's
very easy to get discouraged, angry
and resentful.

14. Expecting to get something, and then
not getting it, feels VERY similar to
getting cheated.

15. It's the same, on an emotional level, as
somebody making a promise to you
that is based on pure lies.

16. I'm sure you've heard that old saying,
"Hope for the best, but prepare for the
worst."

17. Thing about those old sayings is
there's a reason they've been around
for a while.

18. How do you implement them? How do
you continue to maintain a positive
expectation when odds are you'll run
into problems, difficulties and
obstacles no matter what?

19. One is to take on the mindset of
responsibility.

20. One of the reasons we feel cheated
when things don't work out, is we still
have the mindset of "receiving
something" rather than "earning
something."

21. Often times, we feel like we're
supposed to put in a certain amount of
work and then the "universe" is
supposed to "give us" a prize for our
efforts.

22. Kind of like being a little kid playing
some game at a birthday party.

23. Think of something that you KNOW is
totally under your control.

24. When things don't go the way you'd
hoped, you step back and do
something different.

25. This is pretty much the underlying
structure of ALL human behavior.

26. Action, feedback, increased
information, more action.

27. This is true for huge life dreams, like
creating a lucrative career.

28. This is true for very small things, like
finding our way to the bathroom in the
dark in a friends house.

29. To remove the sting of not getting
what you want, think in terms of
creating, rather than simply being a
passive receiver.

30. Not only will it make things much
easier, but because you'll have much
more control, you'll be able to create a
LOT more.

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