Pickup Lines

1. Pickup Lines
How to be successful
in the art of conquering

2. Some important tips...
• "A woman's job is to always try to take control of the man, and a
man's job is to never let that happen.“
• Women want a man who understands how to be dominant in the
relationship.
• This does not mean that you have to be a jackass, or become a
violent or controlling person.
• The key to conveying dominance is simple: Never let things get to
you, and never let a woman see you sweat.
• Women are constantly testing men to determine if they are
dominant (or as I prefer to put it, "higher status").
• And most of the time, women aren't even aware that they're doing
it!
• Remember: A woman can't just ask a man if he is the kind of guy
who can stand up to the world on her behalf, but she can test you
to see if you are the kind of guy who can at least stand up to her.

3. How important is eye contact?
- Eye contact is a very powerful, instinctual form of communication.
And it plays a vital role in building attraction, especially when you first
meet a girl.
- So here's the scoop: If a girl makes eye contact with you, keep making
eye contact back until she breaks it.
- If she keeps on looking at you, or smiles just a bit,
immediately start walking over to her. Don't hesitate;
just get up and go.
- She's just used her eye contact to say to you:
"I'm interested." So go for it.
- Decisiveness like this is a behavior women
find very attractive, and you'll be pleasantly
surprised by the responses you get when you behave
in such a strong, masculine way.

4. What you should NOT do!
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Asking her if she likes you
Giving everything up too easily
Pestering her constantly – you are not her mother!
Being indecisive
Criticize her guy friends
Objectifying her (she is more than beautiful)
Be too fast!
Asking for a kiss
Talking constantly – listen to her!
Trying too hard to impress her

5. ATTENTION!
What women think about getting picked up
at the gym…

6. • Headphones = Hell, no!
if she’s got the music playing, it might be less about love of a rockin’ playlist
and more about creating an invisible shield that says, “Don’t talk to me.”
• She’s not in the mood
“I’m wearing ponytail and I’m sweating. I don't exactly feel attractive at this
point. Even if a guy thinks I'm attractive or cute, I don't. And that goes a long
way toward affecting my confidence, so any advance is suspect.”
• You’re ruining her concentration (and wasting her time)
Lack of time is the main reason people give for not exercising, and in the
modern world, we need to squeeze in workouts where we can. If she has to
spend time fending off your advances, that’s less time she has for exercise.
Not cool.
• You might be creeping her out
Ok, you’ve noticed attractive women at the gym, but at least try to be casual
about it: a quick glance using the mirror and back to work.
In few words… You don’t have to pretend women don’t exist at the
gym, but don’t pretend like they’re there for your amusement either.

7. Top 10 Effective Pickup Lines
A pickup line is a conversation opener or “icebreaker”

8. 10. Excuse me, is this seat taken?
• Innocent, charming and polite. It's not always
safe to assume that a woman sitting next to
an empty chair is alone. Your consideration of
the fact that she may be saving a seat for
someone shows that you have class. What
makes this an effective pickup line is the fact
that it's unobtrusive and gives her the
opportunity to signal her non-interest politely,
and the opportunity to invite you to join her if
she's alone and wouldn't mind chatting.

9. 9. Would you like to dance?
• Warning: This probably won't work unless you
actually have enough rhythm in your pants to
dance. If you impress her with your skills, you
might just find yourself at the bar talking about
music, the DJ or even the venue. This is among
the most effective pickup lines, because women
in a place where there is dancing often like to
dance (that's typically why they're there), and if
you shuffle your feet right, who knows? You
might be “extremely successful” at some point in
the future.

10. 8. Can I interest you in a glass of...?
• Insert the type of beverage for which the
occasion calls. In most cases, we are speaking of
an event or gathering that calls for a glass of wine
or a piña colada, and if you’re in college, a beer. If
it’s a toned-down occasion, you might offer a
soda or lemonade. No matter where you are, this
is one of our favorite pickup lines because it
affords us the opportunity to be polite and
simultaneously display our skills as an expert
without being obvious about it.

11. 7. Do you come here often? I could use
your opinion about something...
• Before that gulp of beer comes out your nose,
hold on. We know that this one sounds like a
cheesy pickup line, but you can make it work for
you. If you're having a hard time choosing a dish,
a beverage or even an article of clothing that best
suits you, it might be time to solicit the help of a
woman who may happen to frequent the place in
question. If you utilize her choice and opinion as
a topic of conversation, you'll see that this is
among the most effective pickup lines on the
planet.

12. 6. Excuse me, can you help me with...?
• Here’s where you can come up with a light
task for her to help you with, such as winning
a bet among friends, naming a song that is
playing or even ordering a drink. This will
make her see that you're interested in her and
appreciative of her feedback, opinion or
selection. Requesting her assistance gives her
a non-verbal indication that you’re impressed
with her appearance and ultimately states
that her answer is valued.

13. 5. Don’t you find this place...?
• This one could go one of two ways, depending on her
behavior. If she looks like she's enjoying herself, insert a
word that best describes the venue, such as "classy,"
"cool," or "chic“. If she seems kind of uninterested and
bored by the whole affair, it might be time for the two
of you to bond through your mutual dislike of the
situation. Hopefully, she'll share your opinion,
whichever it is, which will ultimately lead to further
conversation about the crowd, decor and ambiance -or lack thereof. Once you're on the same page, you've
gone a long way toward establishing an enjoyable
conversation.

14. 4. You look like you might be
interested in some great conversation.
• If you say this with the right tone and with
enough attitude, it’ll put a smile on her face.
While this effective pickup line helps you
break the ice, it also spontaneously creates a
topic to discuss. This could be anything from
food to wine or from a current event to the
venue. Be sure that you’re as willing to listen
as you are to talk, and remember to keep it
light and great, which is exactly what you
offered.

15. 3. Would you like an escort to your...?
• When you notice a woman walking alone - perhaps
to her table, an elevator or even the bar - it is always
a nice gesture to politely offer her a sense of security.
At the same time, it is highly likely that she won’t be
walking very far, so exhibiting your charm will be
essential to your attempt to break the ice once
you’ve delivered your effective pickup line.

16. 2. Wow! I really like that (item of
clothing or fragrance) you're wearing.
• Most women put great effort into preparing an
ensemble that best reflects who they are and how they
want to be perceived by admirers. As such, your
compliment tells her that her efforts did not go
unnoticed. This small gesture will boost her confidence
and earn you all access to front-row conversation.
While it might be cool to already know that her bag's
Balenciaga or that her shoes are Jimmy Choo, it doesn't
hurt to inquire as to what they are. Giving her an
opportunity to talk about her fashion choices shows
that you're interested in what she has to say, and that
you're a modern man with a certain sophistication.

17. 1. I just thought you should know that
you have a really nice...
• Complimenting something specific and unique
about a woman's features such as her smile,
eyes or nose can go a long way in making a
her open up enough to chat with you. Who
says flattery gets you nowhere? The key is to
make sure that you're genuine about your
observation - women can tell when a guy is
trying to praise excessively just to get close.

18. GOOD LUCK!