Social Media Week London Event 2012 http://socialmediaweek.org/event/?event_id=2318 For full information about the talk including links to stats, livestream/YouTube and Storify - please visit http://trust2point0.posterous.com/love-sex-social-media

3. Meet your case study
Googling aka Cyber Stalking
Pictures of You
PDA / ODA and Breaking up
Trusty Stats
Dos and Donts

4. 96 98 00 01 05 06 08 09 11 12

5.  Goo·gle (ggl) A trademark used for an Internet search engine.
This trademark often occurs in print as a verb, sometimes in
lowercase:
 google [ˈ guˈgl]vb (tr)
ɒ
 1. (Electronics & Computer Science / Computer Science) to
search for (something on the Internet) using a search engine
 2. (Electronics & Computer Science / Computer Science) to
check (the credentials of someone) by searching for websites
containing his or name
 ogle [ˈ əl] vb
əʊg
 1. to look at (someone) amorously or lustfully
 2. (tr) to stare or gape at
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/google
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/ogle

6.  I use my real name
 I share images of myself from time to time in posts and on key
pages
 I share videos where people can see my face and hear my voice
 I include details of what’s happening in my life and family (usually
in passing and by way of illustrating something)
 I try to use personal language (I blog in the first person most of
the time)
 I write in a style that is similar to the way I would speak to a
person face to face
 I tell stories about my experiences as they relate to my topic
 I use personal examples where I can to illustrate what I’m saying
 I’ve done live streaming question and answer sessions via video
http://www.problogger.net/archives/2009/10/28/the-power-of-being-personal-on-your-blog/

9. http://www.someoneoncetoldme.com/gallery/26012009

10. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/dont-be-ugly-by-accident/

12.  65% of young people on Facebook use it to look at the
profiles of people they don’t know… -Forrester
research, 2009
 Only 30% considered it wrong to use a social networking site
to test a spouse’s faithfulness, but only 5% have actually
admitted to do the same. - BT 21st Century Life Index, 2008
 By 2005, among single adults Americans who were Internet
users and currently seeking a romantic partner, 37 percent
had dated online.
 According to research by Michael Rosenfeld, a professor of
sociology at Stanford University, in 2007-2009, 22 percent
of heterosexual couples and 61 percent of same-sex couples
had found their partners through the Web. Those
percentages are likely even larger today.
http://www.fastcompany.com/articles/2008/02/facebook-love-life.html
http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2012-02/uor-odr020112.php

13.  Pre-social media, the internet delivered fantasy;
post-social media, it delivers reality…
 More than a quarter of men and 14 percent of women
have experienced strong feelings for somebody
online, while 22 percent of men and 12 percent of
women have said they’ve had romantic, sexual or
erotic relationships online.
 34 percent of men and 37 percent of women believe
that online relationships can be too much of a
distraction from face-to-face relationships.
 More women than men see the negative effects of
online relationships with face-to-face
relationships, while more men than women see the
positive effects.
 More than half of Americans of all conditions think the
Internet has made it easier for people to cheat on
their partners.
 A strikingly high proportion of the overall sample (31
percent) knows somebody whose relationship ended
because of their actions online. This is a huge impact
for technologies that have been truly mainstream for
barely a decade.
http://eurorscgsocial.com/newsroom/love-and-sex-in-the-age-of-social-media/

14. http://blog.lab42.com/the-relationship-status-update

15. http://blog.lab42.com/the-relationship-status-update

16. http://pinterest.com/pin/40813940342535932/

17.  Do not immediately follow/friend me on
Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram and Facebook.
 Do not feel the need to comment on one of
my posts on any/all of those sites either.
 Yes, we all know we stalk each other, but the less
obvious you make it, the more chance of success
for future contact.
 Don’tthrust your happy-loved-up-
coupleyness on the rest of us. 64% of you
leave <3 messages on your significant other’s
Facebook wall. But if you give yourselves a
hash tag, so help me...

18.  Meet someone offline. Try a tweet-up or a
meet-up if you want to go the social
networking route. (It’s how Shoreditch Twit
got started!)
 Think twice about how much private
information you want out there and whether
everyone needs to know your relationship
status.
 Give that guy or girl that you’ve been flirting
with over Twitter a chance!

19. @katematlock
katematlock.com