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Reflected Idealism
Lindsey Purves
Mr.Kabachia Humanities 30-1
November 1, 2011

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Shown in the photograph taken by Elliot Erwitt, the ideal couple is shown reflected in the
mirror of a vehicle. Most people would agree that this is the picture of a perfect romance, and
although some say it’s rare nowadays, it can be attained. As with all reflections, we wish to see that
what is reflected back at us is perfect; we wish to see we are perfect. Although the couple in the
photo appear to be genuinely happy this is most likely not true, as capturing idealized moments
like this are nearly impossible due to their spontaneous occurrence.
Elliot shows the ideal couple in a perfect setting for a romantic moment, reflected in a
mirror. The way this photo was taken ensures only a reflection is shown, not the actual scene. By
capturing a reflection we are only shown what Erwitt wants us to see about the idealized romantic
couple, not the true scene. This does not mean that the reflection is a lie, but simply that there is
most likely more to the scene than just what we are shown, perhaps the true feelings of the couple
as they sit in an embrace or a factor that leads to this scene. With all ideals there is always more to
the story than just what we see, or want to see.
When we look in the mirror at our reflections we are hoping to see our ideal appearance,
whatever that may be. As in the photo the same is said for the ideal romantic couple. Elliot Erwitt
captured a romantic moment that we would like to see reflected back at us. It is perfect down to
the very last detail, seeming almost too-good to be true and yet most would wish this moment were
true because we hold these ideals in our minds of what the “perfect moment” in a relationship
would look like. Through his photo he is able to show people this perfect moment, no matter how
rare it is to attain.
Most appealing to us is the idea of having this perfect romance simply because of the fact
that it is so hard to come by. The almost impossible nature of this moment captured in the photo
may be acted out, giving us a false picture of the romantic couple. Often times we will act out

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idealized scenes because they are just that: idealized scenes. They are nearly too perfect to be true
in most cases because in life there is no perfection, and yet we will continues to strive for this
perfection.
Ideals can be shown for what they truly are, perfection unattainable to most, or the
moment that we strive for and will achieve once in a blue moon. We will try to reflect ideals, but in
the end will not always gain this perfection.