This document outlines 5 types of people to avoid in pursuing your dreams:
1) Those who don't believe in your dreams, as their negative energy will drain your motivation.
2) People who make excuses, as they will find problems with every idea and see obstacles as reasons not to pursue your dreams.
3) Those who try to compete with you, as competing takes away focus from developing yourself and your dreams.
4) Those who believe success is only for certain people, as this limits your potential and prevents exploring all opportunities.
5) People who try to change you rather than improve you, as this takes away control over pursuing your dreams in your own way. Staying focused on your
2. 1st type:
People who
do not
believe in
your dream
• They should be avoided at all
cost.
• Their negative energy will drain
your energy and motivation out
that will make it very difficult for
you to move forward.
3. Overcome difficulties
• At the beginning, it can be difficult to have a
clear road map to fulfilling your dream.
• Or it can be difficult for you to stay focus to
move forward when you hit roadblocks and
challenges.
• And that is why it is important to be around
people who believe in you.
4. Motivating and inspiring people
• They can motivate and encourage to keep on
moving forward to help you see and develop
a clearer path to realize your dream.
• It is only when you keep on trying and
moving forward, then you can start to see
your roadmap clearer.
5. 2nd type:
People who
make excuses
People who make excuses
will always find a reason
why you should not follow
your dream.
They find a problem in
everything.
6. A negative reason for everything
• Every time you shared something with
them, they will come up with a reason on
why you should not follow through with
your dream.
• Every time you face an obstacle, they will
use that obstacle as a reason on why you
should not continue with your dream.
• Every time you have a great idea, they will
most likely will come up with a reason that
it might not become successful.
7. Be around positive people
• They will help you find a solution to overcome the
challenge or obstacle so you can move forward.
• The great thing is that there will always be
a solution to solve your problem successful.
• They will give you hope that no matter what you
are going through, you will always have the ability
to overcome it.
8. Failure does not
mean
unsuccessful
Turning your dream into a reality will not be an
easy path, you will face failure, setback, and
obstacle.
Encountering failure, setback, and obstacle
do not mean you cannot become successful.
In this case, you need to be around people
who help you overcome those difficulties, not
pull you back every time you encounter them.
9. 3rd type: People who try to
compete with you
Avoid people who try to compete with you that they can
do and be better than you.
They will influence you to try to compete back with
them.
When you compete with others, your energy and focus is
on others, not on you.
You will be doing things to impress and compete with
them, not doing things to develop you and your dreams.
10. Your dream requires
100% focus
To fulfill your dreams, it requires 100% focus and
attention in developing yourself and your dream.
When your time and energy is on others, you have
less time and energy to focus on developing
yourself and your dreams.
As a result, it will take a very long time to turn your
dream into a reality.
You cannot lose focus developing you and your
dream.
11. 4th type: People who believe that success is only
for certain people
• Avoid people who believe that you can only become
successful in certain things.
• When you are at the beginning stage in discovering your
strengths, talents, and passion, do not be around
people who limit your ability and potential such as
giving you advice to only go into certain fields.
12. Have an opened mind
• To discover your dream, you must have an opened
mind that anything could be your dream.
• Sometimes you might have an uncommon
strength or passion that is completely different
from others that could be your dream.
• To discover that unique strength, you must have
an opened mind to try out different things.
13. Anything is possible
• You want to make sure to be around
people to help you see that anything
could be possible for you.
• Be around people who help you see
that you have unlimited
possibilities and opportunities, and not
be limited to certain things or paths.
14. 5th type: People who try to change you
• Avoid people who try to change you.
• There is a difference between trying to improve and changing
you.
• People who try to change you, they will try to influence you
to do things that fits into their lifestyle.
• They would try to control your behaviors on what you should
be doing.
• Avoid people that try to influence you to do things their ways
and time frames.
15. Improving you
People who try to improve you, they would
give you advice on how to do something to
become better.
They give you the flexibility to do it in your own
way, term, and lifestyle.
The more you try to fit in other people lifestyle,
the less time you would have to stay focus on
creating and living your life and dream.
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