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Communication Skills
Paul DuBois
Apropos Productions Ltd.
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Communication Skills
EFFECTIVE STYLES NON-VERBAL
Introduction:
Chat
Where are you? Your favourite food and your favourite pastime?
Communication
Why do we do it?
Chat
Built to connect
Communication
Definition?
Chat
Communication Model
Sender Receiver
EXCHANGE:
ideas, knowledge,
information, attitudes or
feelings
between two parties
Encode
Encode
Decode
Decode
CHANNEL
FEEDBACK
Exercise
Breakout Rooms
Group One
Why is effective
communication
1
Group Two
What prevents effective
communication?
2
Group Three
Qualities of an effective
communicator?
3
Debrief: GROUP ONE
Why is effective communication important?
Why is it important?
Improved
relationships
with others
Increased
personal
effectiveness
Achieving
greater results
through other
people
Respect
Recognition
Increased
involvement
Self-esteem
Improved
influencing and
persuasive skills
Greater impact
in meetings
Increased
personal profile
Debrief: GROUP TWO
What prevents effective
communication?
What Prevents Communication?
Only hearing what we
expect or want to hear
Vocabulary/jargon
Irrelevant and/or
overly lengthy content
Lack of confidence
Making assumptions
Not listening to the
other party
The effects of
emotions
One-way, not two-way
Mixed messages
between verbal and
non-verbal
communication
Distractions and noise Technology
Rehearsal &
Prejudice
Debrief: GROUP THREE
What are the qualities of an effective
communicator?
Qualities?
Speaking with
clarity and
assurance
Actively listening
Using language
appropriate to the
recipient
Avoiding
assumptions,
keeping an open
mind
Checking for
understanding
regularly
Asking open
questions
Utilising non-verbal
communication to
enhance messages
Positive attitude
Using pauses, good
timing
Looking to
understand before
being understood
Staying present
Using technology
effectively
Exercise
Breakout Rooms
In your pair, talk about any
subject you would like to
discuss.
Make sure you both have
a chance to speak.
Listening
levels
Self/Internal
Focused
Empathetic
Chat
+ 85% of what we have learned is through listening (not talking or reading).(Shorpe)
+ 75% of the time, we are distracted, preoccupied or forgetful. (Hunsaker)
+ After listening to someone talk, we can immediately recall about 50% of what was
said. (Robinson)
+ One hour later, we remember less than 20% of what we heard. (Shorpe)
+ We listen at 125-250 words per minute but think at 1000-3000 words per minute.
(HighGain, Inc.)
Listening
1. Ask questions
2. Eliminate distractions
3. Avoid interruptions
4. Be respectful
5. Sometimes listening is all they want
Listening skills
Effective Communication
The 4Cs Model
The 4Cs
The 4Cs
+Clear
+Correct
+Courteous
+Cooperative
Communication
Styles
How we communicate
Four Humours: Hippocrates
Choleric
appear as natural leaders
seen as tough-minded
outgoing, optimistic
fun-loving
Sanguine
Melancholic
like orderly lives
prone to mood changes
observe from the sidelines
and tend to comply to
others' demands
Phlegmatic
Four Styles
High
Assertive
High
Task Focus
Low
Assertive
Low
People Focus
ASK
TELL
INTROVERT
EXTROVERT
Source: Jung
BIG
LITTLE
REFLECT
ACTIVE
RED
DRIVER
YELLOW
EXPRESSIVE
BLUE
ANALYTICAL
GREEN
AMICABLE
Communication Styles
Good Day…
Competitive
Demanding
Determined
Strong-willed
Purposeful
Sociable
Dynamic
Demonstrative
Enthusiastic
Persuasive
Cautious
Precise
Deliberate
Questioning
Formal
Caring
Encouraging
Sharing
Patient
Relaxed
RED
DRIVER
YELLOW
EXPRESSIVE
BLUE
ANALYTICAL
GREEN
AMICABLE
Bad Day…
Controlling
Driving
Overbearing
Intolerant
Excitable
Frantic
Indiscreet
Flamboyant
Hasty
Docile
Bland
Plodding
Reliant
Stubborn
RED
DRIVER
YELLOW
EXPRESSIVE
BLUE
ANALYTICAL
GREEN
AMICABLE
Stuffy
Indecisive
Suspicious
Cold
Reserved
Key Thoughts
Be bright
Be clear
Be gone
Involve
me!
Give me
details
Show me
you care
RED
DRIVER
YELLOW
EXPRESSIVE
BLUE
ANALYTICAL
GREEN
AMICABLE
AUTOCRAT
AGGRESSIVE
ACQUIESE
AVOID
Exercise
In your pair
YOUR STYLE: HIGHEST/LOWEST YOUR COLLEAGUES?
Pair debrief
YOUR STYLE: HIGHEST/LOWEST YOUR COLLEAGUES?
Chat
RED: extrovert/task
Do…
+ Be clear, specific and to the point.
+ Stick to business.
+ Come prepared with all requirements, objectives, support
material in a well-organised pack.
+ Present the facts logically, clearly and efficiently.
+ Ask specific (preferably ‘what’) questions.
+ Provide alternatives and choices for them to make their own
decisions.
+ Provide facts and figures about probability of success of
effectiveness to the options.
+ If you disagree, take issues with the facts, not the person.
+ If you agree, support results not the person.
+ Motivate and persuade by referring to objectives and results.
+ Support and maintain their decision-making process.
+ After talking business, depart promptly and graciously.
Don’t…
+ Don’t ramble on or waste their time.
+ Don’t try to build a personal relationship.
+ Don’t be disorganised or messy; don’t distract them from
business.
+ Avoid rhetorical or irrelevant questions.
+ Don’t leave loopholes or cloudy issues.
+ Don’t come with a ready-made decision and don’t make a
decision for them.
+ Don’t speculate wildly or offer guarantees where there is a risk of
not being able to meet them.
+ If you disagree, don’t let it reflect on them personally.
+ If you agree, don’t reinforce with personal statements such as
‘I’m with you!’
+ Don’t try to convince by appealing to ‘personal’ issues or
incentives.
+ Don’t give directive or give orders.
Yellow: extrovert/people
Do…
+ Be supportive when they discuss their dreams and intentions.
+ Allow time for relating and socialising.
+ Be prepared to talk about people and their goals or about
opinions they find stimulating.
+ Put details in writing, pin them to action modes.
+ Introduce the ‘human’ element into your discussion.
+ Provide concrete ideas for implementing action.
+ Allow spontaneity; inject some fun and vitality into the
business routine.
+ Provide testimonials from people who they regard as
important or prominent.
+ Offer special and immediate incentives for their willingness
to take risks.
Don’t…
+ Don’t oppose or stifle their aspirations.
+ Don’t be curt, cold or ‘tight-lipped’.
+ Don’t focus only on facts, figures or abstractions.
+ Don’t leave decisions hanging – get closure.
+ Don’t be impersonal or judgmental.
+ Don’t ‘dream’ with them – you’ll lose your focus.
+ Don’t be too task-orientated.
+ Don’t use examples and incentives that are unrelated to their
interests and personalities.
+ Don’t be dogmatic.
Green: introvert/people
Do…
+ Start with a personal comment, however brief; ‘break the ice’.
+ Be patient; draw out personal goals and work with them to help
achieve their goals; listen; be responsive.
+ Present your ‘case’ softly, non-threateningly.
+ Ask ‘why?’ questions to draw out opinions.
+ Watch carefully for possible early disagreement or
dissatisfaction.
+ If you disagree, look for hurt feelings, ‘personal’ reasons; stop and
talk about them.
+ Define clearly (preferably in writing) the available options and
individual responsibilities.
+ Provide guarantees that their decision will minimise risks; give
assurances that provide them with benefits.
+ Provide personal assurances and clear specific solutions with
maximum guarantees.
Don’t…
+ Don’t rush headlong into the business agenda.
+ Don’t be rigid about business agenda; on the other hand, don’t
lose sight of goals by being too personal.
+ Don’t force them to make a quick response; don’t say ‘Here’s how
I see it’.
+ Don’t be domineering or demanding; don’t threaten them with
the power of your position.
+ Don’t get preoccupied with facts and figures.
+ Don’t handle disagreement by supplying more facts and
technical data.
+ Don’t be abrupt or rapid in your movements.
+ Don’t be vague; don’t offer too many options or lay out too many
probabilities.
+ Don’t decide for them, but don’t leave them without support.
Blue: introvert/task
Do…
+ Prepare your ‘case’ in advance.
+ Use a straightforward, direct approach; stick to business.
+ Show support for principles; use thoughtful approach.
+ Take your time but be persistent.
+ Draw up a scheduled approach to implementing action with
step-by-step timetable; assure them there won’t be any
surprises.
+ Follow through; do what you say you can do.
+ Make an organised presentation of your position. List pros
and cons.
+ Allow time to verify the reliability of your actions; be accurate
& realistic.
+ Provide tangible, practical evidence for your position.
Don’t…
+ Don’t be disorganised or messy.
+ Don’t be too casual or informal; don’t use a loud voice.
+ Don’t make presumptions or expect ‘leaps of faith’.
+ Don’t waste time.
+ Don’t leave things to ‘chance’ or ‘luck’
+ Don’t be vague about implementation.
+ Don’t appeal to personal gain as an incentive.
+ Don’t threaten or coax.
+ Don’t rush the decision-making process.
+ Don’t use opinions or other unreliable sources as evidence.
+ Don’t manipulate or use gimmicks.
Name that Style
Non-Verbal
Universal Emotions
Fear Anger Sadness Enjoyment Disgust
Body Language
CULTURAL:
GESTURES AND
PROXIMITY
LOOK FOR
CLUSTERS
ENVIRONMENTAL
AND PHYSICAL
FACTORS
USE TO
UNDERSTAND
EMOTIONS
Body Language: meanings
+ Touching nose after statement
+ Fiddling with hair (typically female)
+ Picking lint off clothes
+ Hugging clipboard to chest
+ Two people with identical poses while talking
+ Rubbing their head (typically male)
+ Hands clenched (fingers woven together) in a raised
position (elbows resting on table)
+ Ear rub while listening
+ Rubbing hands together when talking
+ Finger on side of face (thumb under chin supporting
weight of head)
+ Chin stroking
+ Hands on hips
Communication Skills
EFFECTIVE STYLES NON-VERBAL
Actions: 1-2
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Communication Skills
Paul DuBois
Apropos Productions Ltd.
info@aproposltd.net

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Communication Skills

  • 4. Introduction: Chat Where are you? Your favourite food and your favourite pastime?
  • 8. Communication Model Sender Receiver EXCHANGE: ideas, knowledge, information, attitudes or feelings between two parties Encode Encode Decode Decode CHANNEL FEEDBACK
  • 10. Breakout Rooms Group One Why is effective communication 1 Group Two What prevents effective communication? 2 Group Three Qualities of an effective communicator? 3
  • 11. Debrief: GROUP ONE Why is effective communication important?
  • 12. Why is it important? Improved relationships with others Increased personal effectiveness Achieving greater results through other people Respect Recognition Increased involvement Self-esteem Improved influencing and persuasive skills Greater impact in meetings Increased personal profile
  • 13. Debrief: GROUP TWO What prevents effective communication?
  • 14. What Prevents Communication? Only hearing what we expect or want to hear Vocabulary/jargon Irrelevant and/or overly lengthy content Lack of confidence Making assumptions Not listening to the other party The effects of emotions One-way, not two-way Mixed messages between verbal and non-verbal communication Distractions and noise Technology Rehearsal & Prejudice
  • 15. Debrief: GROUP THREE What are the qualities of an effective communicator?
  • 16. Qualities? Speaking with clarity and assurance Actively listening Using language appropriate to the recipient Avoiding assumptions, keeping an open mind Checking for understanding regularly Asking open questions Utilising non-verbal communication to enhance messages Positive attitude Using pauses, good timing Looking to understand before being understood Staying present Using technology effectively
  • 18. Breakout Rooms In your pair, talk about any subject you would like to discuss. Make sure you both have a chance to speak.
  • 20. + 85% of what we have learned is through listening (not talking or reading).(Shorpe) + 75% of the time, we are distracted, preoccupied or forgetful. (Hunsaker) + After listening to someone talk, we can immediately recall about 50% of what was said. (Robinson) + One hour later, we remember less than 20% of what we heard. (Shorpe) + We listen at 125-250 words per minute but think at 1000-3000 words per minute. (HighGain, Inc.) Listening
  • 21. 1. Ask questions 2. Eliminate distractions 3. Avoid interruptions 4. Be respectful 5. Sometimes listening is all they want Listening skills
  • 26. Four Humours: Hippocrates Choleric appear as natural leaders seen as tough-minded outgoing, optimistic fun-loving Sanguine Melancholic like orderly lives prone to mood changes observe from the sidelines and tend to comply to others' demands Phlegmatic
  • 27. Four Styles High Assertive High Task Focus Low Assertive Low People Focus ASK TELL INTROVERT EXTROVERT Source: Jung BIG LITTLE REFLECT ACTIVE RED DRIVER YELLOW EXPRESSIVE BLUE ANALYTICAL GREEN AMICABLE
  • 31. Key Thoughts Be bright Be clear Be gone Involve me! Give me details Show me you care RED DRIVER YELLOW EXPRESSIVE BLUE ANALYTICAL GREEN AMICABLE AUTOCRAT AGGRESSIVE ACQUIESE AVOID
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  • 35. In your pair YOUR STYLE: HIGHEST/LOWEST YOUR COLLEAGUES?
  • 36. Pair debrief YOUR STYLE: HIGHEST/LOWEST YOUR COLLEAGUES? Chat
  • 37. RED: extrovert/task Do… + Be clear, specific and to the point. + Stick to business. + Come prepared with all requirements, objectives, support material in a well-organised pack. + Present the facts logically, clearly and efficiently. + Ask specific (preferably ‘what’) questions. + Provide alternatives and choices for them to make their own decisions. + Provide facts and figures about probability of success of effectiveness to the options. + If you disagree, take issues with the facts, not the person. + If you agree, support results not the person. + Motivate and persuade by referring to objectives and results. + Support and maintain their decision-making process. + After talking business, depart promptly and graciously. Don’t… + Don’t ramble on or waste their time. + Don’t try to build a personal relationship. + Don’t be disorganised or messy; don’t distract them from business. + Avoid rhetorical or irrelevant questions. + Don’t leave loopholes or cloudy issues. + Don’t come with a ready-made decision and don’t make a decision for them. + Don’t speculate wildly or offer guarantees where there is a risk of not being able to meet them. + If you disagree, don’t let it reflect on them personally. + If you agree, don’t reinforce with personal statements such as ‘I’m with you!’ + Don’t try to convince by appealing to ‘personal’ issues or incentives. + Don’t give directive or give orders.
  • 38. Yellow: extrovert/people Do… + Be supportive when they discuss their dreams and intentions. + Allow time for relating and socialising. + Be prepared to talk about people and their goals or about opinions they find stimulating. + Put details in writing, pin them to action modes. + Introduce the ‘human’ element into your discussion. + Provide concrete ideas for implementing action. + Allow spontaneity; inject some fun and vitality into the business routine. + Provide testimonials from people who they regard as important or prominent. + Offer special and immediate incentives for their willingness to take risks. Don’t… + Don’t oppose or stifle their aspirations. + Don’t be curt, cold or ‘tight-lipped’. + Don’t focus only on facts, figures or abstractions. + Don’t leave decisions hanging – get closure. + Don’t be impersonal or judgmental. + Don’t ‘dream’ with them – you’ll lose your focus. + Don’t be too task-orientated. + Don’t use examples and incentives that are unrelated to their interests and personalities. + Don’t be dogmatic.
  • 39. Green: introvert/people Do… + Start with a personal comment, however brief; ‘break the ice’. + Be patient; draw out personal goals and work with them to help achieve their goals; listen; be responsive. + Present your ‘case’ softly, non-threateningly. + Ask ‘why?’ questions to draw out opinions. + Watch carefully for possible early disagreement or dissatisfaction. + If you disagree, look for hurt feelings, ‘personal’ reasons; stop and talk about them. + Define clearly (preferably in writing) the available options and individual responsibilities. + Provide guarantees that their decision will minimise risks; give assurances that provide them with benefits. + Provide personal assurances and clear specific solutions with maximum guarantees. Don’t… + Don’t rush headlong into the business agenda. + Don’t be rigid about business agenda; on the other hand, don’t lose sight of goals by being too personal. + Don’t force them to make a quick response; don’t say ‘Here’s how I see it’. + Don’t be domineering or demanding; don’t threaten them with the power of your position. + Don’t get preoccupied with facts and figures. + Don’t handle disagreement by supplying more facts and technical data. + Don’t be abrupt or rapid in your movements. + Don’t be vague; don’t offer too many options or lay out too many probabilities. + Don’t decide for them, but don’t leave them without support.
  • 40. Blue: introvert/task Do… + Prepare your ‘case’ in advance. + Use a straightforward, direct approach; stick to business. + Show support for principles; use thoughtful approach. + Take your time but be persistent. + Draw up a scheduled approach to implementing action with step-by-step timetable; assure them there won’t be any surprises. + Follow through; do what you say you can do. + Make an organised presentation of your position. List pros and cons. + Allow time to verify the reliability of your actions; be accurate & realistic. + Provide tangible, practical evidence for your position. Don’t… + Don’t be disorganised or messy. + Don’t be too casual or informal; don’t use a loud voice. + Don’t make presumptions or expect ‘leaps of faith’. + Don’t waste time. + Don’t leave things to ‘chance’ or ‘luck’ + Don’t be vague about implementation. + Don’t appeal to personal gain as an incentive. + Don’t threaten or coax. + Don’t rush the decision-making process. + Don’t use opinions or other unreliable sources as evidence. + Don’t manipulate or use gimmicks.
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  • 46. Fear Anger Sadness Enjoyment Disgust
  • 47. Body Language CULTURAL: GESTURES AND PROXIMITY LOOK FOR CLUSTERS ENVIRONMENTAL AND PHYSICAL FACTORS USE TO UNDERSTAND EMOTIONS
  • 48. Body Language: meanings + Touching nose after statement + Fiddling with hair (typically female) + Picking lint off clothes + Hugging clipboard to chest + Two people with identical poses while talking + Rubbing their head (typically male) + Hands clenched (fingers woven together) in a raised position (elbows resting on table) + Ear rub while listening + Rubbing hands together when talking + Finger on side of face (thumb under chin supporting weight of head) + Chin stroking + Hands on hips
  • 51. Communication Skills Paul DuBois Apropos Productions Ltd. info@aproposltd.net