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3. ObjectivesObjectives
• Philosophy
– Definitions: “Equallyokedtarianism” - A Prelude
• Social Psychology
– UN/WHO and Psychosocial Health
• Religious Doctrine
– On Campus Interviews of Couples
• Law and Justice
– Premarital Counseling
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4. Family TherapyFamily Therapy
• “Credibility in clinical social psychology
about Equallyokedtarianism is beyond
reproach - even addressing the vast and varied
compatibility issues of such socially well
matched couples.” (1993)
New York City, NY
Marriage and Family Therapist
Anonymous
5. ““Equally Yoked”Equally Yoked”
“Described as ‘Extraordinary’ and
‘rare’ and even ‘a Gift of G-d’
are Religious couples with a ……
like ‘Civil identity’ ”
Jerusalem, Israel, 1970
RELIGION 101:
“Equally Yoked”
7. ““..teach their values..”..teach their values..”
“Many people who partake of ‘equally yoked’
coupleships extend their values into family. It
is not uncommon for an ‘equally yoked’
couple to teach their values to their children.
Rightly so.”
France, 2003
Social
Psychology
– Liberal Arts and Humanities –
8. Sound DoctrineSound Doctrine
• “Equally Yoked” is solidly orthodox – conforming to
God’s word – as biblical truth and sound doctrine.” 1
- Sins of the Holy Bible?, Rabbi C. Christianson
• “The gospel of Jesus is a sacred trust – after the cross,
‘unequally yoked’ became false doctrine.” 1, 2
- Why Jesus Died for Me, Pr. L. Wooton
• “Choosing an ‘equally yoked’ coupleship sealed the
pair for eternity, then, as it does today” 1, 2
- Sermon notes, Rev. L. Johnson
RELGION 101:
“Sound Doctrine”
9. ……a higher desire to grow…a higher desire to grow…
• One small - on campus - study showed that equally
yoked couples revealed a higher desire to develop
and encourage each other to grow towards God then
did the ‘unequally yoked’ couples.1
U.S.A., 2001
10. A Social Psychology Project:A Social Psychology Project:
The research project:The research project: GooglingGoogling
1. First, ….simply google: <: <equallyokedtarianequallyokedtarian>>
1.1. And …googled: <And …googled: <equallyokedtarianismequallyokedtarianism>>
1.1. Then, ..googling: <Then, ..googling: <equallyokedequallyoked>*>*
SocialSocial
PsychologyPsychology
*Note: Almost immediately one notices*Note: Almost immediately one notices
there are several spellings, such as; ‘there are several spellings, such as; ‘equallyequally
yokedyoked’, ‘’, ‘equallyokedequallyoked’, and ‘’, and ‘equally-equally-
yokedyoked’ So, all variations in spellings were’ So, all variations in spellings were
googled for this research project.googled for this research project. a
11. ““Equallyokedtarianism”Equallyokedtarianism”
A general movement of 'couples' throughout the
world with very similar or the same “civil identities”...
…recognizing and meeting one another...
relating to each other,
identifying with,
bonding with,
marrying, and..
…raising families together ... ..in a lifestyle..
...as 'equallyokedtarians'...
A Review Of theA Review Of the
Liberal Arts & HumanitiesLiberal Arts & Humanities
13. A PreludeA Prelude
• In just humanistic and philosophical terms “Equallyokedtarianism” is
actually NOT better understood to be abstract ‘perfectionism’ at all. If
“Equallyokedtarianism” were indeed believed by the proponents of it to be
truly a sense of ‘perfectionism’ – philosophically and humanistically - it would
be the very psychosocial focus of all world government endeavors, all futuristic
religious sciences, and generally – among the mass populations - for the
preservation and advancement human ecology by actual mandatory human
cloning. The truth is; the diversity and variability of “Equallyokedtarianism” is
so very, very, very vast – the meticulous clinical biological, psychological, and
social/cultural research study of it can be only expressed in immense
proportions as exponential and massive computations.1
However, with respect
for formal religion - religious salvation/preservation of all humankind,
“Equallyokedtarianism” may be the doctrine of irreducible biological and
socio-cultural architectural social complexity - a truly well sought after - dyad
of divine creation from God in heaven. Yet, as a modern/and up-to-date
secular concept, “Equallyokedtarianism” is certainly a most important and
valuable judicial Waymark for marital unions subject to all fair and just
contemporary social justice systems. Finally, in terms of it as an art and
science, that is, “Equallyokedtarianism” is at least ‘creative aesthetics’ at its
very best and an ‘absolute’ necessary for integrative social scientific clinical
accuracy for true applied Social Psychology/and Social Psychiatry... 2
- PhD/Professor of Humanities
14. “…“…is central…”is central…”
The concept of ‘Equallyokedtarianism’ amongst a
very diverse multicultural population is central to
scientific human ecology, the
biopsychosociocultural evolution of global
civilization, and the conservation of ‘true’
humanitarianism…1
- UN/World Health Organisation,- UN/World Health Organisation,
Unpublished Scientific PapersUnpublished Scientific Papers
15. UN/WHO
About 66% of the whole world knows about
‘equallyokedtarianism’and are either:
* In favor towards status recognition, or
* Are in some way connected with the movement, or
* Regarded as “Neutral” or without an official opinion
At least 1/3 of the U.N. member states ‘recognize’ an
EQUALLYOKEDTARIAN unique status.
An estimated 193 of the U.N. members have
constitutions that justices may rule on
discrimination cases concerning
‘Equallyokedtarians’ 1,2,3,4 Social Psychiatry Notes:
Beliefs, Values, and Attitudes
16. Beliefs – insights couples have aboutBeliefs – insights couples have about
being ‘equallyoked’ (or not)being ‘equallyoked’ (or not)
• “Do we believe that we are equallyoked? Yes, we
believe we are equallyoked. We both believe the
same. So, we trust that it’s the right thing to do.”
• Note: This equallyoked couple were forthright about
their beliefs and shared the fact that they both hold
the belief in being, “…not unequally yoked.”
- Social Psychology Field Project:
Interviews with Couples On Campus
17. “Homogenous” Couples
Mutually Favorites:
• Music
• Colors
• Art
• Food
• Recreation
• Laugh at Same Jokes
• Share in Favorite
Restaurants
• Seeks similar
Entertainment and
Movie Genres
• Seeks same Vacation
Spot Destinations
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
They ‘like’ the same….
…more of a colloquial term…
18. Quality of a CoupleshipQuality of a Coupleship
Equallyoked
• Personal uniqueness
• Mental health
• Physical and erotic appeal
• Emotional connection
• Healthy sense of humor
• Moral values
• Sociability and political
events
• Civil Identity
Ratings:
Unequallyoked
• Individual differences
• Fun/Funniness
• Rapid decisions
• Intimate attraction
• Emotional sensitivity
• Sociability and active social
living
• Character traits
- Soc505: Coupleship Quality
19. Rate* the Importance of:
• Physical
Attraction?
Beliefs
about
God?
• Future
Plans?
• Financial
Wealth?
*Rate: the importance of each issue in your Relationship. Rate 0 - 10
Insignificant=0, Low 1-2, Mod 3-6, High 7-10
• Intellect
Quotient?
• Emotional
Quotient?
• Equally
Yoked?
Rated #1Rated #1
PreliminaryPreliminary
results ofresults of
Survey1Survey1
PreliminaryPreliminary
results ofresults of
Survey2Survey2
Rated the HighestRated the Highest
Survey1 Survey2
Beliefs
about
God?
On Campus Take Home*
Equally
Yoked?
+/- 0.99
n=35 n=51
+/- 0.99
*may be survey hard-copy or on-line
Spring Semester
2001
Fall Semester 2002
20. Social MoresSocial Mores:: +|+|--
“Equallyoked”
• Good self-esteem
• Spiritual maturity
– a high level morality
• Social resilience
• Stable family values
• Quality of relationship
• Financial security
“Unequally yoked”
• False self-image
• Drug abuse implicated
• Immaturity/immorality
• Lying/deception
• Fun over facts
• Destruction of family
lineage
-Social Psychology/Self and Identity
21. “…“…family and child rearing…”family and child rearing…”
• One study that inquired, “do equally yoked couples
or unequally yoked couples have more of a clear
understanding of family and child rearing? The
results of the study showed that unequally yoked
couples have an understanding was more skewed
and distorted while the equally yoked couples have
more of an understanding of family and child rearing
and was one of proven clarity.15
Tonga, 2006
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22. Modern/Slang:Modern/Slang:
“Equally-yoked” is a contemporary social survivalist couple who -
• Speak the same language, wear the same cultural clothing styles, and
actually practice the same family holiday customs.
• A private relationship of - coordinating, collaborating, and complying with
each other in a mutually exclusive sexual relationship.
• An intimate relationship seeking sexual pleasure and mutually satisfying
orgasms in regular frequent sexual pleasure encounters.3
“Unequally-yoked” is urban rap -
• A couple who don’t communicate well, differ a lot in moral values, and are
usually astranged and/or differentiated from their families.
• A schizophrenic couple - miscoordinating, ill collaborative, and fail to
comply with each other in a mutually exclusive relationship.
• A selfish relationship, sexually abusive, unsatisfying that eventually leads
to fewer, poor, or no sexual encounters at all.3
- Introduction to Sociology:Modern/Slang
23. Dyadic Psychology CriticsDyadic Psychology Critics
Firstly, while research findings proving in other areas of the social
sciences have been in the center of the ongoing ‘replication crises’ i.e.,
difficult to replicate, …contemporary social psychologists studying
‘equally yoked’ dyads have found themselves not even in the fringes of
such, considering all other fields of the social sciences.
Secondly, QRP (Questionable Research Practices) are practically
nonexistent-owing to the number of countries producing reliable findings
are Christian or nations with significant Christian populations. There is no
profit morally or monetarily in intentional statistical fraudulence involving
‘equallyokedtarianism’
Thirdly, converting undesired outcomes into desired outcomes via the
manipulation of statistical analyses, sample size or data management,
typically, i.e., to convert non-significant findings into significant ones to
suggest that the evidence for the study outcome was funded by and
attributed to corporate vested interest.
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24.
25. …LibertyLiberty…
“ …the Leftist is an opportunist who chooses
an unequallyoked relationship.”
“..the freedom to choose a mate with the exact
same ‘Civil Identity’ is both, an idea and an
ideal, and for some a worthy ‘Goal’”
“It is true liberty that is expressed in an
intimate sexual relationship that is the within
an Equallyoked relationship.”
-Student Readings/
Studies Summary
26. No one has a “perfect” coupleshipNo one has a “perfect” coupleship
“The time spent out in society acquiring a realistic
perspective on ‘normal’ relationships can be a
challenge. The more aware of our relationships,
e.g., our coupleship archetecture, the more likely
we are to care about it. …No one has a “perfect”
coupleship and couples come in a variety of
different and diverse ‘civil identities’ matched and
mismatched.”
South Africa, 2001
– Liberal Arts and Humanities –
27. + | - Social Influences+ | - Social Influences
Some dyadic psychologists are interested in the roles
that influences equally yoked couples before
engagement, marriage, and family.
In the areas of equally yoked mate selections some
investigators examine; what conformity, positive
persuasion, peer influences, and abiding in good
social mores has to do with pre-marital coupling.
Such research has helped reveal what social influences
has helped people to resist abnormal or ‘unequally
yoked’ secular influences.
- SocPsy550
28. Relationships 101Relationships 101
The Equally Yoked versus Unequally Yoked
Truth
equality*
Abiding in
social mores
Moral choice
Joy/enjoyment
Lies
inequality*
Violation of
social mores
Perverse humor
Fun/funniness**
“Twisted”“Straight”
*false equality
**hysteria*true equality
A Review Of theA Review Of the
Liberal Arts & HumanitiesLiberal Arts & Humanities
29. Secularism & Religion MixSecularism & Religion Mix
The unequallyoked couple…married by worshippers of a false Christ (the elitist globalists who are of the devil)
• …globalism … the political ‘trade’ interconnection of all the world via dictators/monarchs of territories economic
integration – ‘free’ migration of people …malsuited coupling-up …‘free trade’ need regulation by an entity ..a
common currency … a common military… liberalism vs. rule of law, …mandate/ or advisory
A secular concept – psychological warfare – to make people good seem bad/and bad seem good.
• Self-determination of the unequally yoke couple who is excluded from the remnant 144,000
• …the enemy makes …globalistic missionaries all over the world - in collusion with the same
• …satan makes the unequallyoked situation that traps people in an unequallyoked relationship
• Fear of loneliness - …unequally yoked is.. a mixing …an acting out/acting - in order to avert persecution
… “happy as a couple dirty pigs rolling in mud” philosophy …a subculture/system of morality, ethics, and laws….
• Common heritage - confounding the languages – analogy: “babylon” scattered around the face of the earth
• The devil imposes tatoos, wild hair doos styles, seductive clothing, gambling, rock’n’roll ..unequallyoked intimacies
• …culture has built in boundaries of habitation - system of thought government …out of it came culture
Addiction: addicted as a slave to immorality without a good test to assure relationship quality/accuracy
• Sin (..and yet a small fraction of God’s will) reigns the heart
– To make unequallyoked couples ‘want’ and ‘accept’ unequallyoked coupleships for satisfaction
• …war/military industry …increasingly secularized culture of one world government of cultural homogency
• “To die for” –a one time exhilarating and Illicit sex act or illicit religious unequallyoked sex.
Social Psychiatry Notes:
Beliefs, Values, and Attitudes
30. EEqually Yoked andqually Yoked and ReligionReligion
• Demonism: … “Be Ye not Unequally Yoked”
– Abomination – as a ‘muddy’ picture of God’s creation.
– Deliverance from sin - an unsuitable relationship.
• Identity and Self
– “Who I am” – (an agent) in Christ (Jesus as the Savior)
– Family Identity, Social Identity, and Civil Identity
• A Healthy Relationship Architecture
– The “Equally Yoked” Architecture as a ‘Proper’ dyad.
– Actually the same (or similar) ‘civil identity’ with a
special focus on religion and spirituality - true to the
Lord and self. - Doctrinal, Moral, Biblical Studies
31. The Lord: Sets things in OrderThe Lord: Sets things in Order
Darkness
• Abomination
• Twisted/lies
• Careless fools
• Wrong doing
• Sex idol (of devil)
• Hellacious
Light
• Wisdom
• Salvation
• True doctrine
• Carefree joy
• Righteousness
• The law of God
• Eternal Life
RLGNS 101:
Light and Darkness
EquallyYoked
UnequallyYoked
32. Equally Yoked - TheologramsEqually Yoked - Theolograms
Unequally yoked
Equally yoked
Inequally yoked
Nonequally yoked
NOTE: The full range of human
‘coupleship’ experience also
includes the ‘anti-equally yoked’
(who are the actively rebellious
counterculture)
(deliberate)
(over compensative)
(naïve, innocent, gullible)
(divine pattern)
(inadvertent)
(rebellious)
33. An Unified Message?An Unified Message?
A single united message to world health leaders in
solidarity by … those who ‘believe’:
• “Be ye not unequally yoked”
– ..man and woman of similar ‘civil identities’ worldwide.
• “Be ye equally yoked”
– …man and woman of equal ‘civil identities globally.
• “Be ye unequally yoked”
– …anything goes between man and woman, anything.
Theology 101:
A_Single_Unified Message
34. Readings/StudiesReadings/Studies
• Summary of Studies (or essay)
– A written report of specific interests up to now.
• Oral Report
– With a submited copy of presentation (pdf)
Total Points: 35 = “A”
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35. Extensive Essay
Write an extended essay
1.) Summarize a research finding about ‘equally yoked’
dyads and the some of the influences of secular media
on society.
a.)______________________________
______________________________
______________________________
35 points. Recall and cite a study and then identify as
many influences of secular media possible.
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36. Clerkship
Field Project Proposal – Clerkship
– Write a proposal for data collection and analysis of
‘equally yoked’ couples...with a
Quantitative focus
1.) Collect data r/t ‘equally yoked’ dyads
2.) Summarize totals in graphic chart form
3.) Write an analysis of your observations and an opinion of your
experience serving in clerkship
After approval-go do it-and turn in your results.
SampleSample
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37. CEs
While CEs – by petition – is solely at the discretion of
the attendees accrediting organisation - Continuing
Education credits earned by attending any of the
classes on Equally Yoked Dyads – should accumulate
1.5 hours per class for SocPsy202-SocPsy404 for
Social Psychologists, Psychiatric Social Workers,
Mental Health Counselors and Psychosocial Health
Professionals, Marriage, Family, and Child
Psychologists, Marriage and Family Therapists.
SocPsy505-707 CEs are solely at the discretion of the
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