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MANAGING NEGATIVE PEOPLE AND COURTEOUS SERVICE
RESEARCH FINDINGS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
GOALS OF HUMAN RELATIONS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
HANDLING HUMAN RELATIONS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
KIND OF PEOPLE WITH NEGATIVE TRAITS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
THE DEFENSIVE GUY ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
THE CONSTANT ARGUER ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
THE “ME” GUY ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
THE STUBBORN GUY ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
THE BACK STABBER ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
THE BLAME GAME GUY ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
THE WHINER ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
BIAS IN PERCEPTIONS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
TOPICS FOR TODAY  ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
CHANGE ORIENTATION ,[object Object],[object Object],1-
LOCUS OF CONTROL 1- Internal Locus of Control :  ‘ I was the cause of the success or failure for the change.’ External Locus of Control : ‘ Something else caused the success or failure.’
INTERNAL LOCUS OF CONTROL ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
EXTERNAL LOCUS OF CONTROL ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN UNSKILLFUL COMMUNICATOR AND SUBORDINATE 4 - Abrasive, insensitive unskillful message delivery Distant, distrustful uncaring interpersonal relationships Restricted, inaccurate information and defective communication flow
COACHING AND COUNSELING 4 - ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
WHEN TO COACH: 4 - ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
COMMUNICATION STYLES RESPONDING TO OTHERS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],4 -
APPRAISALS ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Write people’s accomplishment in stone and thier faults in sand Benjamin Franklin
“ Know Thyself” Carved on the Oracle at Delphi “ He that would govern others must first master himself” Messinger
SCHUTZ MODEL – 1992 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Inclusion Control Affection Expressed Behavior Towards Others Wanted Behavior  From Other 18   . TOTAL  e 10  . TOTAL  W TOTAL SOCIAL  INTERACTION INDEX MR. EXTROVERT 3 2 5 4 6 8 7 8 13 28
Inclusion Control Affection Expressed Behavior Towards Others Wanted Behavior  From Other 07  . TOTAL  e 08  . TOTAL  W TOTAL SOCIAL  INTERACTION INDEX MR. INTROVERT 4 3 1 3 2 2 7 5 3 15
CASE STUDY HARVARD BUSINESS REVIEW
CASE STUDY- WHAT A STAR-WHAT A JERK ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
MARY ROWE. TEACHES NEGOTIATIONS AND CONFLICT MANAGEMENT  AT SLOAN SCHOOL OF MANAGEMENT AT MIT ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
CHUCK MCKENZIE. SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT AT OPPENMEIMER FUNDS. BASED IN NEW YORK ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
JAMES WALDROOP. PSYCHOLOGIST, PRINCIPAL AT PEREGRINE PARTNERS THAT SPECIALIZES IN EXECUTIVE DEVELOPMENT AND EMPLOYEE RETENTION ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
COURTEOUS SERVICE
STEPHEN COVEY ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
BUILDING A CUSTOMER READY ORGANIZATION ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
 
 
 
 
 

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dealing with difficult people

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  • 17. LOCUS OF CONTROL 1- Internal Locus of Control : ‘ I was the cause of the success or failure for the change.’ External Locus of Control : ‘ Something else caused the success or failure.’
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  • 21. RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN UNSKILLFUL COMMUNICATOR AND SUBORDINATE 4 - Abrasive, insensitive unskillful message delivery Distant, distrustful uncaring interpersonal relationships Restricted, inaccurate information and defective communication flow
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  • 26. “ Know Thyself” Carved on the Oracle at Delphi “ He that would govern others must first master himself” Messinger
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  • 28. Inclusion Control Affection Expressed Behavior Towards Others Wanted Behavior From Other 18 . TOTAL e 10 . TOTAL W TOTAL SOCIAL INTERACTION INDEX MR. EXTROVERT 3 2 5 4 6 8 7 8 13 28
  • 29. Inclusion Control Affection Expressed Behavior Towards Others Wanted Behavior From Other 07 . TOTAL e 08 . TOTAL W TOTAL SOCIAL INTERACTION INDEX MR. INTROVERT 4 3 1 3 2 2 7 5 3 15
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