This document discusses different approaches to dealing with conflict: 1) I Win, You Lose - Trying to prove yourself right can damage relationships. 2) We Both Lose - Avoiding conflict prevents learning and hurts relationships. 3) I Lose, You Win - Giving in to preserve relationships only creates superficial unity. 4) We Both Win - Open communication to understand issues and compromise, attacking the problem not the person, following Jesus' example of loving despite differences. The document encourages reflecting on current conflicts and praying for God's guidance in addressing them with truth and love.