1. Psychological Changes of Pregnancy
Reynel Dan L. Galicinao
Mother’s Reactions
Initial reaction may run the gamut of emotions
May be surprised, pleased, disturbed, disappointed, frightened
There is element of surprise in every pregnancy
As the pregnancy progresses must reach an acceptance
Social Influences
In the past: Today:
The pregnancy was conveyed as a 9- Our society view pregnancy as a time of
month-long illness health
The pregnant woman went alone to a Women bring their families for prenatal
physician’s office for care care
Instead of general anaesthetics to
At the time of birth, she was separated
“sleep through” labor and birth, they
from her family and admitted to a
are urged to actively participate in the
hospital
experience
She was hospitalized in seclusion from Birthing rooms and family-centered
visitors and even from the new baby for care helped involved families in
a week afterward childbirth
The couple’s outlook about pregnancy and childbirth are affected by:
Their cultural background
Their personal experiences
Experiences of friends and relatives
Current public philosophy of childbirth
People’s opinion about the following have changed:
Adolescent pregnancy
“Late in life” pregnancy
Lesbian pregnancy
Nurses can make pregnancy and childbirth more enjoyable for clients and their
families by:
Informing women about their new health care options
Continuing to work with other health care providers to “demedicalize”
childbirth
2. Cultural Influences
Psychological changes and associated behaviors are triggered not only by uterine
enlargement and hormone levels, but also by the woman's culture
Certain cultural beliefs and taboos may place restrictions on a woman’s behavior
and activities regarding her pregnancy
During prenatal visit, ask the woman and her partner if there is anything they
believe that should or should not be done to make the pregnancy successful and
keep the baby healthy
Examples:
Lifting your arms over your head during pregnancy will cause the cord to
twist
Watching a lunar eclipse will cause birth deformities
Listen to such “tell tales” to show respect for the person’s beliefs, but encourage
the woman to ask her health care provider to find out if there is any substance to
them
Family Influences
Positive Influence Negative Influence
Woman and her siblings were loved and Woman and her siblings were seen as
seen as a pleasant outcome of a happy intruders or were blamed for the break-
marriage up of a marriage
Excruciating pain and endless suffering
Pregnancy is natural and simple
in labor
“If you hadn’t come along:
- “I could have had gone to college”
- “I could have had a career”
Positive attitude toward her pregnancy View pregnancy as a disaster
‘People love as they have been loved.’
To mother her baby well, she should be able to feel pleasurable anticipation at the
prospect of rearing a child
Becoming a mother is a second adjustment above and beyond being pregnant
The mother who views mothering as a positive activity is more likely to be pleased
when she becomes pregnant than one who devalues mothering
Mother’s Emotional Responses
Narcissistic response is an early reaction
Extroversion, glowing behavior is common
Has difficulty staying focused
Emotional mood swings are frequent
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3. Husbands need to be forewarned about these changes to expect in wife
Steps in Preparing for Motherhood
Mimicry and role-playing
association with other pregnant women or new mothers
spend time with own mother
Identifies parenting role she wants to mimic
Fantasy--How will it be to be a mother
Grief work--giving up her current lifestyle as life will never again be the same
Hindrances associated with a mothering breakdown
Multiple births
Children born within 10--12 months apart
Moving
Loss of security (job/illness of self or family)
Loss of husband/ or infant’s father
Previous loss of a child
Practical Tasks
Physical preparation for new arrival
Financial re-arrangements
Household chores and responsibilities
Acquisition of new knowledge regarding pregnancy and childbirth
Father’s Reaction to Pregnancy
Fathers are becoming more involved in the childbearing process from pre-natal
care to participating in the labor and birth process
Acceptance is also his major developmental task to be achieved
Needs to accept the reality of the child
Need preparation for the changes that will take place for his wife
Mood swings are common and emotions are unpredictable
Narcissistic or self-centered response of mother may be misunderstood
May feel “left out”
May have feelings of jealousy
His childhood background will also influence his preparation
Needs to also identify a role-model or parenting style he wants to mimic
Preparation also includes fantasy and grief work
Concerns of Fathers
Breadwinner--most are still primarily concerned with the financial obligations
Protective and supportive role
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4. Symptoms of pregnancy often are felt by dads
Effects of Pregnancy of Other Children
Most parents agree children will need some warning
Effects of the pregnancy may occur early for the children
Mood swings of Mom and unpredictable response to behavior
Mom ‘sick’ and Dad fixing breakfast
Visits to the doctor
Physical changes in the home
Preparing Children for a New Sibling
How soon to tell children depends on their ages and personality of the child
The parents reactions and acceptance of the new baby also will influence the
children
The attitude of the older children often will reflect the attitude of the parents
Preparation by Ages
School-age children should be told when the parents know for sure
Pre-School age children probably should be told when preparation for the baby
begins
Toddlers are often the most affected and must give up the role of “baby of the
family”
Answering their questions
Answer questions honestly and simply depending on age and
understanding
Answer only what he is asking
The Unwed Pregnant Patient
Overall birth rate is decreasing, but for the teen-age mother under age 15, it is
rising
Teens are more prone to complications than older mothers
Infant mortality is higher as well
Often may have a problem with acceptance of the pregnancy and seek to hide it
Teen-age Mothers
Often the first major decision is to tell the parents of the pregnancy
There may be an initial reaction of anger, disappointment and even grief
After parents have time to adapt and accept the pregnancy, they can be the teen-
age mother’s best ally
Options facing the teen-age Mother
Stay in school is the first option to be stressed
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5. Marriage may be considered
Abortion--may feel initial relief, and then guilt and depression
Adoption--a beautiful option
Single-parenting
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