Its past time to shift from a victim perception of ourselves - to the truth that God has given us not fear - but power, love, and self control. These slides from a talk given at Blazing Fire Church by Pastor Brent Lokker on February 15, 2014. We are unpacking some of the key things that Danny Silk taught and imparted to us during his Keep Your Love On conference. Feb 7-8. Please go to http://blazingfire.podbean.com for the podcasts or www.blazingfire.org
11. Victim vs. Powerful
• Looking for a rescuer to
make me feel safe and
happy
• Circumstances and
others dictate my
happiness
• I’ll act miserable so you
will help me
• I have no control of my
life or my choices
• Uses “I can’t”,“I have to”
and “I’ll try”
• Knows who they are and
life flows out to others
• Knows their job is to
control themselves, not
others.
• Creates the environment
in which they want to
live--a safe place to know
and be known intimately
• Chooses to love no
matter what the other
person says or does
15. Being a victim ends
when you make choices
not to be one!
“(A victim) will continue to recreate their
victimized reality as long as they refuse
to repent from it and pursue being powerful.”
~Danny Silk
