ETHICALCONSIDERATIONS FOR PARENTS ANDFANS Parents and fans are essential to any successful spo1ts program or franchise. Ethical concerns abound, however, with abusive parents injuring coaches and children, and out-of-control fans engag ing in unethical conduct. 1 Parents are a significant part of any youth sports organization. Many serve as volunteers and are necessary for the administration and the eventual success of the league. Ethical parents are supportive of coaches, participants, and other parents. They teach young athletes respect for coaches, other participants, and sports officials. Parents set the tone for their young athlete by set ting an example of a true sportsman. Fans are essential to professional sports; after all, they buy tick ets! Ethical fans are not obsessed with their hero as was Wesley Snipes in the movie The Fan with Robert De Niro. Good fans are polite and not abusive: they are, in essence, good sports. Negative comments or acts of displeasure from parents or fans toward the coach, visiting team, or officials undermine the sporting efforts of all involved. Ethical standards attempt to mold good behavior on the part of parents and fans. These standards usually come into play as punishment for unacceptable behavior, with the hope that these penalties will act as a deterrent of future acts of bad behavior or poor sportsmanship by both parents and fans. PARENTAL ETHICS The joy of being a parent of a young athlete comes from watching your child compete in athletic events and, of course, winning. No one likes to lose, but for a young athlete it is inevitable; the ath lete must learn to lose and be a good sport in the process. That is a tough task for a 9-year-old but sometimes an even tougher task for the parents of that child. Young athletes are encouraged and are excited when they look into the stands and see their parents cheering for them. 2 'Michael Crowley, "Outrageous! Field of Screams,'' Reader's Digest, October 2007. 2 "Soccer Moms Gone Wild: When Parents Need to Be Refereed at Youth Sports Games," Wall Street Journal, April 28, 2009. 171 172 Chapter 5 Ethical Considerations for Parents and Fans Amateur spo1ts leagues and associations sometimes have a difficult job ensuring that parents set good examples for their children, play within the rules, act ethically, and conduct themselves properly at sporting events. Many parents are enthralled with the idea of their child hitting the winning home run, scoring the winning touchdown, or making the winning goal. There is certainly nothing wrong with that, but when a parent loses his or her focus or perspective, then trouble looms on the horizon.3 The Standard of Appropriate Behavior for Parents The standard of appropriate behavior for parents is the reasonably prudent parent. Ethical par ents view the participation of their child in sports as a part of the educational process. Patticipation in interscholastic or youth sports is a learning experience for students; k.