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Harry L. Morgan, M.A., M.Div., Th.M., Ph.D.
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (MH10635)
Board Certified Psychotherapist, Diplomate (APA)
Qualified Supervisor MHC
Certified Forensic Mental Health Examiner
Certified Expert Witness in State & Federal Courts
Clinically Certified Sex Offender Treatment Specialist
Certified Domestic Violence & Anger Management Specialist
Pastor-Teacher of Faith Bible Church
Biblical Counseling Center
Bradenton & Sarasota, FL
Presenter
1450 59th Street West, Unit 101
Bradenton, FL 34209
Ronald Aung-Din, MD
Neurology ~ Psychiatry
3501 Cattlemen Road, Suite A
Sarasota, FL 34232
Anger	management	is	the	process	of	
learning	to	recognize	signs	that	you	are	
becoming	angry,	and	taking	action	to	calm	
down	and	deal	with	the	situation	in	
positive	an	effective	ways.	Anger	
management	is	not	about	keeping	you	
from	feeling	anger	or	holding	anger	in.		
Anger	is	a	normal,	healthy	emotion	when	
you	know	how	to	express	it	appropriately	
— anger	management	is	about	learning	
how	to	do	this.
Reference: www.mayoclinic.org/.../PRC-20014603
Course Objectives
Understand…
• The Types of Anger
• The Consequences of Anger
• The Expressions of Anger
• The Roots of Anger
• The Brain and Anger
• Addictions and Anger
Course Objectives
Assess…
• Your Level of Anger
• Your Type of Anger
Learn…
• Skills to Control Destructive Anger
• Skills to Develop Healthy Responses to Anger
• To Improve Interpersonal Relationships
Course Objectives
Receive
• Support, Ideas and Feedback from each other
ANGER MANAGEMENT
TRAINING
Famous Quotes:
“Anybody can become angry — that is
easy, but to be angry with the right person
and to the right degree and at the right time
and for the right purpose, and in the right
way — that is not within everybody's power
and is not easy.”
― Aristotle:
anybody’s
Impossible!
ANGER MANAGEMENT
TRAINING
Famous Quotes:
“Anger deprives a sage of his wisdom, a prophet
of his vision.”
― Talmud
“A person’s character is recognized by 3 things:
by his cup (i.e. how much he drinks), by his purse
(i.e. how much he gives to charity) and by his
anger.”
― Midrash
ANGER MANAGEMENT
TRAINING
Famous Quotes:
“You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘you
shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in
danger of the judgment.’ But I say to you that
whoever is angry with his brother without a cause
shall be in danger of the judgment. And whoever
says to his brother, ‘raca!’ shall be in danger of the
council. But whoever says, ‘you fool!’ shall be in
danger of hell fire.”
― Jesus Christ,
Matthew 5:21–22
1. Anger is Inherited
2. Anger automatically leads to Aggression
3. Aggression is necessary for success in life
4. Anger is always Good
5. Anger is always Wrong
6. Suppressing anger is always desirable
Anger
is	one	letter	short
of
D..A..N..G..E..R!
What is Anger?
Medical definitions:
“Extreme displeasure or exasperation in reaction to
a person, a situation, or an object. Anger is
instrumental in mobilizing and enhancing the ability
to respond to adverse situations; for that reason, it
may be essential to survival in some situations.
Occasionally, anger may be a reaction to disease or
dying and may be directed toward friends or family
and those responsible for a patient’s medical care.”
Medical Dictionary, © 2009 Farlex and Partners
What is Anger?
Psychological definitions:
“Anger is an emotion characterized by
antagonism toward someone or
something you feel has deliberately
done you wrong.”
Kazdin, Alan E., (Ed.) Encyclopedia of Psychology
American Psychological Association
French psychoanalyst, Jacques Lacan, taught that
aggression results as a psychological defense against
threats of fragmentation.
Jacques Lacan, Écrits, “Aggressivity in Psychoanalysis” trans. Alan Sheridan
(New York: W. W. Norton, 1977), pp. 8–29.
What is Anger?
Psychological definitions:
“A psychobiological emotional state consisting of feelings
varying in intensity from mild irritation or annoyance to
intense fury and rage, accompanied by activation of
neuroendocrine processes and arousal of the autonomic
nervous system.”
State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory, Spielberger, Charles D., University
of South Florida
DSM-V diagnostic manual does not
include excessive anger as a
diagnosable disorder.
ANGER
A Secondary Emotion
The internal emotion felt by the individual
ANGER
The external
emotion
observed by
others
Hurt (wounds)
Frustration (blocked goals)
Grief (loss of love object)
Depression (anger turned inward)
Fear (perceived threat)
Guilt (negative response to perceived wrong-doing)
Shame (self-condemnation)
Humiliation (faults revealed for purpose of destruction)
Love (threat to a love object)
What is Anger?
A. Hebrew:
B. Latin:
ǎp̄h = anger; face; nose; (dual) nostrils,
idea of snorting
angere = to hurt
What is Anger?
C. Greek:
Ephesians 4:26 “Be angry (orge), and sin not; neither let
not the sun go dawn upon your wrath (parogismos).”
thumos = RAGE
parorgismos = RESENTMENT
orge = INDIGNATION
Ephesians 4:31 “Let all bitterness (pikria) and wrath
(thumos), and anger (orge),and clamor (krauge) and
evil speaking (blasphemia), be put away from you,
with all malice (kakia)."
• Chronic anger, which is prolonged, can impact the immune
system and be the cause of other mental disorders
• Passive anger, which doesn’t always come across as anger and
can be difficult to identify
• Overwhelmed anger, which is caused by life demands that are
too much for an individual to cope with
• Self-inflicted anger, which is directed toward the self and may
be caused by feelings of guilt and shame
• Judgmental anger, which is directed toward others and may
come with feelings of resentment or projection of guilt
• Volatile anger, which involves sometimes-spontaneous bouts
of excessive or violent anger
types of Anger
Passive Aggressive Anger
• I hide my hostility by seeming to be nice to someone I dislike, and am unable to be
honest with the person.
• I say I agree with something but don't follow through because I really don't agree
with it.
• I quietly manipulate to get my own way after voicing a completely different opinion,
just to keep the peace.
• I try to please people by agreeing to their plan of action, yet actually doing the
opposite.
• I act one way, which is true to my inner feelings, yet say another.
• I am out of touch with my inner feelings; the only way to know how I feel about
something is to observe my behavior, don't trust my words.
• I hate something or someone but am afraid of letting my true feelings show.
• I feel pressured to act or believe in a certain way when I really don't want to.
• I avoid conflict at all cost by giving in to others, then procrastinate and never do
what I agreed to do.
• I am angry but afraid to show my anger, so I quietly take my revenge by doing the
opposite
types of Anger
types of Anger
Rage Resentment Indignation
q seeks to do wrong q seeks to hide wrong q seeks to correct wrongs
q seeks to destroy people q seeks to destroy people q seeks to destroy evil
q seeks vengeance q seeks vengeance q seeks justice
q is guided by selfishness q is guided by cowardice q is guided by mercy
q uses open warfare q uses guerrilla warfare q is transparent & humble
q defends itself q defends the status quo q defends the other person
q are forbidden by God q are forbidden by God q Is required by God
~ Isaiah 5:20-25
~ Romans 1:16-18
2 Thessalonians 2:9–10 The coming of the lawless one is
according to the working of Satan, with all power, signs, and
lying wonders, 10 and with all unrighteous deception among
those who perish, because they did not receive the love of the
truth, that they might be saved.
~ Genesis 3
~ Genesis 6-8
~ Genesis 18-19
~ Exodus 7-12
~ Exodus 32
~ Leviticus 32
~ John 2:14
~ Revelation 6-19
~ Mark 3:5
~ Mark 10:13-14
~ Proverbs 31:8, 9
ANGER	can	be	GOOD
The	positive	aspects	of	
anger	are	that	you	have	
increased	energy,	are	
able	to	communicate	
your	feelings,	able	to	
solve	your	problems	and	
can	take	charge	of	the	
situation.
When:
• Felt too intensely
• Felt too frequently
• Expressed inappropriately
• Results in negative consequences
• Results in harming others
• Results in guilt and shame
ANGER	can	be	BAD
“Fight or Flight” Reaction:
Health Problems
Anger	doesn’t	make	the	“blood	boil” or	your	eyes	“see	red”.	But	it	does	cause	
certain	changes	in	the	body.	Here’s	what	happens:
Ø ADRENALINE	and	other	chemicals	pour	into	the	bloodstream.
Ø THE	HEART	pumps	faster.
Ø BLOOD	PRESSURE	rises.
Ø BLOODFLOW	quickens.
Ø MUSCLE	tense.
IN	OTHER	WORDS,	the	body	shifts	into	higher	gear,	generating	energy	needed	for	
action.	Learn	how	this	energy	can	work	to	your	advantage		or	disadvantage.
Effects of uncontrolled Anger
Psychological Problems
Depression
Resentment
Distorted Thinking
Delusional Thinking
Explosive Anger Disorder
Effects of uncontrolled Anger
Self-mutilation
Borderline Personality Disorder
Social Problems
Effects of uncontrolled Anger
Displaced anger
Divorce
Poor
CommunicationDrugs & Alcohol
Broken Relationships
Bullying
Property Damage
Addictions
Financial Problems
Effects of uncontrolled Anger
Effects of uncontrolled Anger
Domestic abuse
& other
antisocial violent behaviors
Criminal Problems
Sexual abuse
Shoplifting
Murder
Arson
• Anger = Feeling
• Aggression = Action
• Anger is an emotion. It maybe ok to be angry
• Aggression is acting out inappropriately and
is not ok. Learn to check your aggression and
express your anger appropriately
Session 4
Causes of Destructive Anger
Biochemical Causes
• Lead poisoning
• Drug interaction
• Substance abuse
• Smoking cessation
Causes of Destructive Anger
Diseases Contributing to Anger
• Cancer
• Thyroid Disease
• Kidney Disease
• Heart Disease
• Parkinson’s Disease
• Alzheimer’s
Causes of Destructive Anger
Neurological Causes of Anger
• Brain Ischemia
• Epilepsy
• Organic Personality Syndrome
• Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder
• Temporal Lobe Epilepsy
• Tuberculosis Sclerosis
• Traumatic Brain Injury
If an external force is strong enough to either fracture the cranial
bones, or an internal rotational force occurs due to impact causing
the brain to hit or scrape against the inside of the skull, the brain
will tear and/or neurons will be damaged and we will change.
Causes of Destructive Anger
Causes of Destructive Anger
Medications Contributing to Anger
• BuSpare
• BuSpare Dividose
• Buspirone
• Buspirone Hydrochloride
• Desyrel
• Desyrel Dividose
• Neurosine
• Trazodone
Causes of Destructive Anger
Psychological Causes of Anger
• Borderline Personality Disorder
• Childhood Depression
• Bipolar disorder
• Depression
• Severe Depression
• Mania
• Oppositional Defiant Disorder
• Psychological Addiction
Causes of Destructive Anger
Spiritual Causes of Anger
• Shame
• Guilt
• Pride
• Demonic
Triggers of Anger
External
• Specific person (co-workers or supervisor)
• Event (traffic jam, canceled concert or flight,
talking trash about your family, etc.)
Internal
• Anxieties over personal problems
• Memories of traumatic events
Assessing Anger
State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory
Spielberger, Charles D., University of South Florida
– Understanding anger in
·children
·adolescents
·adults
– Assessing for physical and emotional symptoms
of problem anger
– Using an anger evaluation tool
Although the brain comprises only 2% of our weight, it
manages 98% of our functions, directly or indirectly, and
is highly complex in its organization.
Angry feelings arising in the amygdala are normally cooled by activity
in the frontal cortex, part of the thinking region of the brain. However,
in some severely depressed people a lack of both recognition and
control of anger, can lead to violent rage.
Anger & the Brain
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
Identify Your Primary Emotion
The internal emotion felt by the individual
ANGER
The external
emotion
observed by
others
Hurt (wounds)
Frustration (blocked goals)
Grief (loss of love object)
Depression (anger turned inward)
Fear (perceived threat)
Guilt (negative response to perceived wrong-doing)
Shame (self-condemnation)
Humiliation (faults revealed for purpose of destruction)
Love (threat to a love object)
Controlling Destructive Anger
Identify	stressors	and	learn	
stress-management	
techniques	and	relaxation	
skills.
Take	steps	to	establish	
real	communication	
skills.
Identify	the	emotional	baggage	from	
childhood	issues.
Learn	to	recognize	your	
body’s	reactions	to	anger.
Learn	
to	
state	your
true	
feelings.
Attempt	to	see	things	from	
the	other	person’s	perspective.
Controlling Destructive Anger
Controlling Destructive Anger
Anger Drugs: Possible Options
The type of drugs prescribed will depend on individual
circumstances and take into account other diagnoses.
Possible options include:
• Prozac or other antidepressants
• Benzodiazepines known to treat anxiety, such
as Klonopin
• Lithium or other mood stabilizing
medications
Developing healthy Anger
UNhealthy responses to unhealthy Anger
Attack:
Retreat:
healthy responses to unhealthy Anger
1. Acknowledge your own feelings
Ø What is your primary emotion?
Ø Does this person or situation remind
you of someone or something else in
your life?
Ø What is your level of anger?
healthy responses to unhealthy Anger
2. Define the problem
Ø What is the conflict about?
Ø Is this conflict reoccurring?
Ø What are you and others involved in
the conflict hoping to achieve? Are
your goals the same or similar?
healthy responses to unhealthy Anger
3. Seek to understand the heart & mind
of the other person
Ø Why is the conflict important to them?
Ø What is their level of anger?
Ø What do you think is their primary
emotion?
Ø Have they had conflicts with others?
healthy responses to unhealthy Anger
4. Seek to build trust
Ø How do they know I want their peace
and success?
Ø What is their need?
Ø Have I asked God to help me in
understanding them and appropriately
responding to their need?
Ø If I am subordinate to the one I have
conflict with, can I make an appeal?
healthy responses to unhealthy Anger
5. Set a goal of “win – win” solutions
Ø Am I willing to defer to those who
disagree with me?
Ø What is a “win” for both of us?
Ø Is praying for God’s wisdom together a
consideration?
Ø Do I have to be “right”?
healthy responses to unhealthy Anger
6. Set time limits
Ø Can you both agree to a time limit?
Ø Can you both agree to revisit the
topic of conflict at another time?
Ø Are either of you tired or hungry?
healthy responses to unhealthy Anger
7. Seek Counsel
Ø Are both of you willing to seek godly
counsel?
Ø Are both of you willing to seek God’s
will in this matter?
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Anger Management from a Biblical Perspective

  • 3. Harry L. Morgan, M.A., M.Div., Th.M., Ph.D. Licensed Mental Health Counselor (MH10635) Board Certified Psychotherapist, Diplomate (APA) Qualified Supervisor MHC Certified Forensic Mental Health Examiner Certified Expert Witness in State & Federal Courts Clinically Certified Sex Offender Treatment Specialist Certified Domestic Violence & Anger Management Specialist Pastor-Teacher of Faith Bible Church Biblical Counseling Center Bradenton & Sarasota, FL Presenter
  • 4. 1450 59th Street West, Unit 101 Bradenton, FL 34209
  • 5. Ronald Aung-Din, MD Neurology ~ Psychiatry 3501 Cattlemen Road, Suite A Sarasota, FL 34232
  • 7. Course Objectives Understand… • The Types of Anger • The Consequences of Anger • The Expressions of Anger • The Roots of Anger • The Brain and Anger • Addictions and Anger
  • 8. Course Objectives Assess… • Your Level of Anger • Your Type of Anger Learn… • Skills to Control Destructive Anger • Skills to Develop Healthy Responses to Anger • To Improve Interpersonal Relationships
  • 9. Course Objectives Receive • Support, Ideas and Feedback from each other
  • 10. ANGER MANAGEMENT TRAINING Famous Quotes: “Anybody can become angry — that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way — that is not within everybody's power and is not easy.” ― Aristotle: anybody’s Impossible!
  • 11. ANGER MANAGEMENT TRAINING Famous Quotes: “Anger deprives a sage of his wisdom, a prophet of his vision.” ― Talmud “A person’s character is recognized by 3 things: by his cup (i.e. how much he drinks), by his purse (i.e. how much he gives to charity) and by his anger.” ― Midrash
  • 12. ANGER MANAGEMENT TRAINING Famous Quotes: “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘you shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.’ But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment. And whoever says to his brother, ‘raca!’ shall be in danger of the council. But whoever says, ‘you fool!’ shall be in danger of hell fire.” ― Jesus Christ, Matthew 5:21–22
  • 13. 1. Anger is Inherited 2. Anger automatically leads to Aggression 3. Aggression is necessary for success in life 4. Anger is always Good 5. Anger is always Wrong 6. Suppressing anger is always desirable
  • 15. What is Anger? Medical definitions: “Extreme displeasure or exasperation in reaction to a person, a situation, or an object. Anger is instrumental in mobilizing and enhancing the ability to respond to adverse situations; for that reason, it may be essential to survival in some situations. Occasionally, anger may be a reaction to disease or dying and may be directed toward friends or family and those responsible for a patient’s medical care.” Medical Dictionary, © 2009 Farlex and Partners
  • 16. What is Anger? Psychological definitions: “Anger is an emotion characterized by antagonism toward someone or something you feel has deliberately done you wrong.” Kazdin, Alan E., (Ed.) Encyclopedia of Psychology American Psychological Association French psychoanalyst, Jacques Lacan, taught that aggression results as a psychological defense against threats of fragmentation. Jacques Lacan, Écrits, “Aggressivity in Psychoanalysis” trans. Alan Sheridan (New York: W. W. Norton, 1977), pp. 8–29.
  • 17. What is Anger? Psychological definitions: “A psychobiological emotional state consisting of feelings varying in intensity from mild irritation or annoyance to intense fury and rage, accompanied by activation of neuroendocrine processes and arousal of the autonomic nervous system.” State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory, Spielberger, Charles D., University of South Florida DSM-V diagnostic manual does not include excessive anger as a diagnosable disorder.
  • 18. ANGER A Secondary Emotion The internal emotion felt by the individual ANGER The external emotion observed by others Hurt (wounds) Frustration (blocked goals) Grief (loss of love object) Depression (anger turned inward) Fear (perceived threat) Guilt (negative response to perceived wrong-doing) Shame (self-condemnation) Humiliation (faults revealed for purpose of destruction) Love (threat to a love object)
  • 19. What is Anger? A. Hebrew: B. Latin: ǎp̄h = anger; face; nose; (dual) nostrils, idea of snorting angere = to hurt
  • 20. What is Anger? C. Greek: Ephesians 4:26 “Be angry (orge), and sin not; neither let not the sun go dawn upon your wrath (parogismos).” thumos = RAGE parorgismos = RESENTMENT orge = INDIGNATION Ephesians 4:31 “Let all bitterness (pikria) and wrath (thumos), and anger (orge),and clamor (krauge) and evil speaking (blasphemia), be put away from you, with all malice (kakia)."
  • 21. • Chronic anger, which is prolonged, can impact the immune system and be the cause of other mental disorders • Passive anger, which doesn’t always come across as anger and can be difficult to identify • Overwhelmed anger, which is caused by life demands that are too much for an individual to cope with • Self-inflicted anger, which is directed toward the self and may be caused by feelings of guilt and shame • Judgmental anger, which is directed toward others and may come with feelings of resentment or projection of guilt • Volatile anger, which involves sometimes-spontaneous bouts of excessive or violent anger types of Anger
  • 22. Passive Aggressive Anger • I hide my hostility by seeming to be nice to someone I dislike, and am unable to be honest with the person. • I say I agree with something but don't follow through because I really don't agree with it. • I quietly manipulate to get my own way after voicing a completely different opinion, just to keep the peace. • I try to please people by agreeing to their plan of action, yet actually doing the opposite. • I act one way, which is true to my inner feelings, yet say another. • I am out of touch with my inner feelings; the only way to know how I feel about something is to observe my behavior, don't trust my words. • I hate something or someone but am afraid of letting my true feelings show. • I feel pressured to act or believe in a certain way when I really don't want to. • I avoid conflict at all cost by giving in to others, then procrastinate and never do what I agreed to do. • I am angry but afraid to show my anger, so I quietly take my revenge by doing the opposite types of Anger
  • 23. types of Anger Rage Resentment Indignation q seeks to do wrong q seeks to hide wrong q seeks to correct wrongs q seeks to destroy people q seeks to destroy people q seeks to destroy evil q seeks vengeance q seeks vengeance q seeks justice q is guided by selfishness q is guided by cowardice q is guided by mercy q uses open warfare q uses guerrilla warfare q is transparent & humble q defends itself q defends the status quo q defends the other person q are forbidden by God q are forbidden by God q Is required by God
  • 24. ~ Isaiah 5:20-25 ~ Romans 1:16-18 2 Thessalonians 2:9–10 The coming of the lawless one is according to the working of Satan, with all power, signs, and lying wonders, 10 and with all unrighteous deception among those who perish, because they did not receive the love of the truth, that they might be saved.
  • 25. ~ Genesis 3 ~ Genesis 6-8 ~ Genesis 18-19 ~ Exodus 7-12 ~ Exodus 32 ~ Leviticus 32 ~ John 2:14 ~ Revelation 6-19
  • 26. ~ Mark 3:5 ~ Mark 10:13-14 ~ Proverbs 31:8, 9
  • 28. When: • Felt too intensely • Felt too frequently • Expressed inappropriately • Results in negative consequences • Results in harming others • Results in guilt and shame ANGER can be BAD
  • 29. “Fight or Flight” Reaction: Health Problems Anger doesn’t make the “blood boil” or your eyes “see red”. But it does cause certain changes in the body. Here’s what happens: Ø ADRENALINE and other chemicals pour into the bloodstream. Ø THE HEART pumps faster. Ø BLOOD PRESSURE rises. Ø BLOODFLOW quickens. Ø MUSCLE tense. IN OTHER WORDS, the body shifts into higher gear, generating energy needed for action. Learn how this energy can work to your advantage or disadvantage. Effects of uncontrolled Anger
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  • 31. Psychological Problems Depression Resentment Distorted Thinking Delusional Thinking Explosive Anger Disorder Effects of uncontrolled Anger Self-mutilation Borderline Personality Disorder
  • 32. Social Problems Effects of uncontrolled Anger Displaced anger Divorce Poor CommunicationDrugs & Alcohol Broken Relationships Bullying
  • 34. Effects of uncontrolled Anger Domestic abuse & other antisocial violent behaviors Criminal Problems Sexual abuse Shoplifting Murder Arson
  • 35. • Anger = Feeling • Aggression = Action • Anger is an emotion. It maybe ok to be angry • Aggression is acting out inappropriately and is not ok. Learn to check your aggression and express your anger appropriately
  • 37. Causes of Destructive Anger Biochemical Causes • Lead poisoning • Drug interaction • Substance abuse • Smoking cessation
  • 38. Causes of Destructive Anger Diseases Contributing to Anger • Cancer • Thyroid Disease • Kidney Disease • Heart Disease • Parkinson’s Disease • Alzheimer’s
  • 39. Causes of Destructive Anger Neurological Causes of Anger • Brain Ischemia • Epilepsy • Organic Personality Syndrome • Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder • Temporal Lobe Epilepsy • Tuberculosis Sclerosis • Traumatic Brain Injury
  • 40. If an external force is strong enough to either fracture the cranial bones, or an internal rotational force occurs due to impact causing the brain to hit or scrape against the inside of the skull, the brain will tear and/or neurons will be damaged and we will change. Causes of Destructive Anger
  • 41. Causes of Destructive Anger Medications Contributing to Anger • BuSpare • BuSpare Dividose • Buspirone • Buspirone Hydrochloride • Desyrel • Desyrel Dividose • Neurosine • Trazodone
  • 42. Causes of Destructive Anger Psychological Causes of Anger • Borderline Personality Disorder • Childhood Depression • Bipolar disorder • Depression • Severe Depression • Mania • Oppositional Defiant Disorder • Psychological Addiction
  • 43. Causes of Destructive Anger Spiritual Causes of Anger • Shame • Guilt • Pride • Demonic
  • 44. Triggers of Anger External • Specific person (co-workers or supervisor) • Event (traffic jam, canceled concert or flight, talking trash about your family, etc.) Internal • Anxieties over personal problems • Memories of traumatic events
  • 45. Assessing Anger State-Trait Anger Expression Inventory Spielberger, Charles D., University of South Florida – Understanding anger in ·children ·adolescents ·adults – Assessing for physical and emotional symptoms of problem anger – Using an anger evaluation tool
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  • 48. Although the brain comprises only 2% of our weight, it manages 98% of our functions, directly or indirectly, and is highly complex in its organization.
  • 49. Angry feelings arising in the amygdala are normally cooled by activity in the frontal cortex, part of the thinking region of the brain. However, in some severely depressed people a lack of both recognition and control of anger, can lead to violent rage.
  • 50. Anger & the Brain 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
  • 51. Identify Your Primary Emotion The internal emotion felt by the individual ANGER The external emotion observed by others Hurt (wounds) Frustration (blocked goals) Grief (loss of love object) Depression (anger turned inward) Fear (perceived threat) Guilt (negative response to perceived wrong-doing) Shame (self-condemnation) Humiliation (faults revealed for purpose of destruction) Love (threat to a love object) Controlling Destructive Anger
  • 53. Controlling Destructive Anger Anger Drugs: Possible Options The type of drugs prescribed will depend on individual circumstances and take into account other diagnoses. Possible options include: • Prozac or other antidepressants • Benzodiazepines known to treat anxiety, such as Klonopin • Lithium or other mood stabilizing medications
  • 55. UNhealthy responses to unhealthy Anger Attack: Retreat:
  • 56. healthy responses to unhealthy Anger 1. Acknowledge your own feelings Ø What is your primary emotion? Ø Does this person or situation remind you of someone or something else in your life? Ø What is your level of anger?
  • 57. healthy responses to unhealthy Anger 2. Define the problem Ø What is the conflict about? Ø Is this conflict reoccurring? Ø What are you and others involved in the conflict hoping to achieve? Are your goals the same or similar?
  • 58. healthy responses to unhealthy Anger 3. Seek to understand the heart & mind of the other person Ø Why is the conflict important to them? Ø What is their level of anger? Ø What do you think is their primary emotion? Ø Have they had conflicts with others?
  • 59. healthy responses to unhealthy Anger 4. Seek to build trust Ø How do they know I want their peace and success? Ø What is their need? Ø Have I asked God to help me in understanding them and appropriately responding to their need? Ø If I am subordinate to the one I have conflict with, can I make an appeal?
  • 60. healthy responses to unhealthy Anger 5. Set a goal of “win – win” solutions Ø Am I willing to defer to those who disagree with me? Ø What is a “win” for both of us? Ø Is praying for God’s wisdom together a consideration? Ø Do I have to be “right”?
  • 61. healthy responses to unhealthy Anger 6. Set time limits Ø Can you both agree to a time limit? Ø Can you both agree to revisit the topic of conflict at another time? Ø Are either of you tired or hungry?
  • 62. healthy responses to unhealthy Anger 7. Seek Counsel Ø Are both of you willing to seek godly counsel? Ø Are both of you willing to seek God’s will in this matter?
  • 63.