The document discusses how to set an intention and effectively influence others through connection. It provides steps such as acknowledging your current state, setting a specific intention, accessing a resourceful mental state, building rapport with others, and choosing tactics like questioning, storytelling or mirroring body language. The overall message is that having an intention, connecting with others, and choosing the right tactics can help you influence them.
6. Acknowledge Your Current State
Set Your Intention
Is Your State E!ective for Your Intention?
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7. Acknowledge Your Current State
Set Your Intention
Is Your State E!ective for Your Intention?
Yes No
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8. Acknowledge Your Current State
Set Your Intention
Access Your Resource State
Is Your State E!ective for Your Intention?
Yes No
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9. Acknowledge Your Current State
Set Your Intention
Access Your Resource State
Build Rapport
Is Your State E!ective for Your Intention?
Yes No
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10. Acknowledge Your Current State
Set Your Intention
Access Your Resource State
Build Rapport
Choose Tactics
Is Your State E!ective for Your Intention?
Yes No
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11. Acknowledge Your Current State
Set Your Intention
Access Your Resource State
Build Rapport
Choose Tactics
Is Your State E!ective for Your Intention?
Yes No
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14. Acknowledge Your Current State
Set Your Intention
Access Your Resource State
Build Rapport
Choose Tactics
Is Your State E!ective for Your Intention?
Yes No
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25. Access Your Resource State
Acknowledge Your Current State
Body Language
Frame / Filter / Perspective
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26. NonVerbals
• Mirroring
• Tension
• Breath
• Open vs Closed
• Pace
• Tone
Build Rapport
Word Choice
• VAK *squishy*
• I, You, We
• Universals
• Nominalization
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