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Communication I
What is
Communication?
It is an interactional process
in which meaning is
stimulated to the sending
and receiving of verbal and
non-verbal messages to
bring about mutual
understanding, feedback
and reaction
Communication Competencies
Listening and Organizing
Giving Clear Information
Getting Unbiased Information
Communication
could be…
VERBAL
One Way Two Way
NON-VERBAL
Of the total impact of a
message
 7% is Verbal
 38% is Vocal
 55% is Body Language
-Dr. Albert Mehrabian
The Communication Process
Feedback
Sender
Encoding
Transmission
Decoding
Receiving
Understanding
Functions of
Communication
Information
Delegation
Motivation
Expression
Control
Counselling
Selling
Listening and Organizing
Definition
Listening is a
process of absorbing
words and selecting
meanings.
- Bernice Hurst
Definition
Listening refers to your
ability to understand,
organize and analyze
what you are hearing so
as to decide what to
think and do in response
to a message
-Training House Inc
Definition
Organizing involves
breaking down and
analyzing and rebuilding
the complex message for
retention
-Training House Inc
Types of Listening
 Active-Active listening involves
interacting with the speaker,
asking questions, summarizing,
restating, clarifying, giving,
confirming feedback and so on
 Passive-Involves no interaction
with the speaker e.g. with a radio
or TV presentation, in a meeting
where we are silent
Types of Active Listening
 Empathizing - drawing out the
speaker, getting information in
a supportive way
 Analyzing - seeking concrete
information & trying to
disentangle fact from emotion
Fact Vs. Opinion
 Fact - verifiable by checking
hard data that exists
independent of the speaker
 Opinion - soft data that
cannot be verified
independent of the speaker
Listening for
Understanding
A message comprises the following
components
– Vocal – Actual words being said
– Non-Vocal – tone, speed, volume,
hesitancy and the body behaviour
of the demonstrated sender
Loaded & Neutral
Statements
Loaded Statements – Using
biasing words in an attempt to
influence the listener
emotionally
Neutral Statement – A
statement free of emotional bias
Barriers to Effective
Listening
When what you see or hear only fulfills
your own expectations, when you have
an inflexible mindset
When you are unconsciously
influenced by stereotypical views
We are also influenced by others and
often adopt their opinions without
thinking
Overcoming Barriers to
Effective Listening
Keep an open mind about
what people say
Checking to make sure you
understand the message
Overcoming Barriers to
Effective Listening Cont‟d
Develop an attitude of
wanting to listen
Focus your attention on
understanding the other
person‟s meaning not on
formulating your response
Overcoming Barriers to
Effective Listening Cont‟d
Show the speaker that you are listening
e.g. through body language
 Maintain eye contact-to show interest and
observe speaker
 Lean forward slightly to communicate
concern and to better comprehend the
message
 Nod your head to indicate understanding
 Smile when your speaker uses humour
Overcoming Barriers to
Effective Listening Cont‟d
 Allow for pause – don‟t feel you have to fill
the space with your words while the other
person needs time to collect his or her
thoughts
 Use open-ended questions to open up
communication
 Use paraphrasing to ensure understanding
 Summarize conversation to ensure
understanding and provide closure
The Art of Asking
Questions
We ask questions to obtain
information
Even before we word a
question, we anticipate a certain
kind of answer and this
expectation influences the way
we phrase the question
Questioning Techniques
Open questions - opens up a
discussion
Closed questions - is specific,
must be answered with a yes or
no or with desired details
Fact finding - aimed at getting
information on a particular subject
Questioning Techniques
Cont‟d
Follow up - intended to get
more information or elicit an
opinion
Feedback - aimed at getting a
particular type of information
The Art of Asking
Questions
Situations
When speaker uses unfamiliar
phrase(s) -ask speaker to clarify
or elaborate
Sample Questions
“Can you elaborate what you
mean by „modularized pre-
stressed struts‟?”
The Art of Asking
Questions Cont‟d
Situations
When a speaker gets into a sensitive
area and has stopped talking – Use
encouraging statements without bias
Sample Questions
“You say that things had started to
deteriorate with your marriage right
around that time?”
The Art of Asking
Questions Cont‟d
Situations
 When a speaker is digressing and not
telling you what you want to hear – draw
speaker back to issue at hand
Sample Questions
 “Perhaps I‟m mistaken, but weren‟t you
going to tell me about next week‟s report
schedule and the problems you
anticipate?”
The Art of Asking
Questions Cont‟d
Situations
 Speaker has been going round in circles,
saying same thing over and over. You
want to move on – Summarize and
probe for any additional information
Sample Questions
 “Let me see if I can summarize. You
said…is there anything else affecting
your decision?”
The Art of Asking
Questions Cont‟d
Situations
 Speaker has not explicitly stated what
you think is behind the words. – Employ
the „risk technique‟ and state what you
think is on his/her mind
Sample Questions
 Is this the situation: You feel if you
accept the job of supervisor, your fellow
workers will no longer accept you as one
of the gang?”
The Art of Asking
Questions Cont‟d
Situations
 The speaker has just said something
that doesn‟t seem to agree with a
statement made earlier. – Clarify
Sample Questions
 “But didn‟t you say some minutes ago
that…And now I hear you are
saying…aren‟t these two statements in
conflict?”
Listening Manners
Create an atmosphere where
you can listen (close out all
external distractions)
Tune out internal distractions
Monitor your body language
Tuning-In Techniques
S
0
F
T
E
N
Smile
Open Posture
Lean Forward
Tone
Eye Contact
Nod
Listening: A Ten Part Skill
Find areas of common interest
Judge content, not delivery
Withhold evaluation
Focus on central ideas
Stick to the issues
Listening: A Ten Part Skill
Show attention
Overcome distractions
Know your own biases
Take inventory
Listen critically
 Questions?
 Thank You!

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Basic Communication skills

  • 2. What is Communication? It is an interactional process in which meaning is stimulated to the sending and receiving of verbal and non-verbal messages to bring about mutual understanding, feedback and reaction
  • 3. Communication Competencies Listening and Organizing Giving Clear Information Getting Unbiased Information
  • 5. Of the total impact of a message  7% is Verbal  38% is Vocal  55% is Body Language -Dr. Albert Mehrabian
  • 9. Definition Listening is a process of absorbing words and selecting meanings. - Bernice Hurst
  • 10. Definition Listening refers to your ability to understand, organize and analyze what you are hearing so as to decide what to think and do in response to a message -Training House Inc
  • 11. Definition Organizing involves breaking down and analyzing and rebuilding the complex message for retention -Training House Inc
  • 12. Types of Listening  Active-Active listening involves interacting with the speaker, asking questions, summarizing, restating, clarifying, giving, confirming feedback and so on  Passive-Involves no interaction with the speaker e.g. with a radio or TV presentation, in a meeting where we are silent
  • 13. Types of Active Listening  Empathizing - drawing out the speaker, getting information in a supportive way  Analyzing - seeking concrete information & trying to disentangle fact from emotion
  • 14. Fact Vs. Opinion  Fact - verifiable by checking hard data that exists independent of the speaker  Opinion - soft data that cannot be verified independent of the speaker
  • 15. Listening for Understanding A message comprises the following components – Vocal – Actual words being said – Non-Vocal – tone, speed, volume, hesitancy and the body behaviour of the demonstrated sender
  • 16. Loaded & Neutral Statements Loaded Statements – Using biasing words in an attempt to influence the listener emotionally Neutral Statement – A statement free of emotional bias
  • 17. Barriers to Effective Listening When what you see or hear only fulfills your own expectations, when you have an inflexible mindset When you are unconsciously influenced by stereotypical views We are also influenced by others and often adopt their opinions without thinking
  • 18. Overcoming Barriers to Effective Listening Keep an open mind about what people say Checking to make sure you understand the message
  • 19. Overcoming Barriers to Effective Listening Cont‟d Develop an attitude of wanting to listen Focus your attention on understanding the other person‟s meaning not on formulating your response
  • 20. Overcoming Barriers to Effective Listening Cont‟d Show the speaker that you are listening e.g. through body language  Maintain eye contact-to show interest and observe speaker  Lean forward slightly to communicate concern and to better comprehend the message  Nod your head to indicate understanding  Smile when your speaker uses humour
  • 21. Overcoming Barriers to Effective Listening Cont‟d  Allow for pause – don‟t feel you have to fill the space with your words while the other person needs time to collect his or her thoughts  Use open-ended questions to open up communication  Use paraphrasing to ensure understanding  Summarize conversation to ensure understanding and provide closure
  • 22. The Art of Asking Questions We ask questions to obtain information Even before we word a question, we anticipate a certain kind of answer and this expectation influences the way we phrase the question
  • 23. Questioning Techniques Open questions - opens up a discussion Closed questions - is specific, must be answered with a yes or no or with desired details Fact finding - aimed at getting information on a particular subject
  • 24. Questioning Techniques Cont‟d Follow up - intended to get more information or elicit an opinion Feedback - aimed at getting a particular type of information
  • 25. The Art of Asking Questions Situations When speaker uses unfamiliar phrase(s) -ask speaker to clarify or elaborate Sample Questions “Can you elaborate what you mean by „modularized pre- stressed struts‟?”
  • 26. The Art of Asking Questions Cont‟d Situations When a speaker gets into a sensitive area and has stopped talking – Use encouraging statements without bias Sample Questions “You say that things had started to deteriorate with your marriage right around that time?”
  • 27. The Art of Asking Questions Cont‟d Situations  When a speaker is digressing and not telling you what you want to hear – draw speaker back to issue at hand Sample Questions  “Perhaps I‟m mistaken, but weren‟t you going to tell me about next week‟s report schedule and the problems you anticipate?”
  • 28. The Art of Asking Questions Cont‟d Situations  Speaker has been going round in circles, saying same thing over and over. You want to move on – Summarize and probe for any additional information Sample Questions  “Let me see if I can summarize. You said…is there anything else affecting your decision?”
  • 29. The Art of Asking Questions Cont‟d Situations  Speaker has not explicitly stated what you think is behind the words. – Employ the „risk technique‟ and state what you think is on his/her mind Sample Questions  Is this the situation: You feel if you accept the job of supervisor, your fellow workers will no longer accept you as one of the gang?”
  • 30. The Art of Asking Questions Cont‟d Situations  The speaker has just said something that doesn‟t seem to agree with a statement made earlier. – Clarify Sample Questions  “But didn‟t you say some minutes ago that…And now I hear you are saying…aren‟t these two statements in conflict?”
  • 31. Listening Manners Create an atmosphere where you can listen (close out all external distractions) Tune out internal distractions Monitor your body language
  • 33. Listening: A Ten Part Skill Find areas of common interest Judge content, not delivery Withhold evaluation Focus on central ideas Stick to the issues
  • 34. Listening: A Ten Part Skill Show attention Overcome distractions Know your own biases Take inventory Listen critically