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IMPOSTOR SYNDROME IN THE IT WORLD FROM A
CONFERENCE SPEAKER’S PERSPECTIVE
Antonio Cobo - @Mind_of_AC
LET ME TELL YOU A STORY…
@Mind_of_AC
@Mind_of_AC
FEELING ANXIOUS OUT OF PLACE
WORKING LATE DEPRESSED
OTHERS ARE AMAZING I’M ONLY BEING LUCKY
@Mind_of_AC
INTERNAL CONFERENCE DAY
@Mind_of_AC
LET’S LEARN MORE
• Pluralsight Scott Hanselman’s course
• Submit ideas not talks
@Mind_of_AC
@Mind_of_AC
YOU SUBMITTED YOUR TALK LIKE I DID
THE PROGRAM COMMITTEE THINK IT WILL BE GREAT
SO DON’T WORRY, IT WILL BE GREAT
@Mind_of_AC
ALL THIS TIME I WAS FEELING LIKE A FRAUD
@Mind_of_AC
HAVE YOU EVER COMPARED YOURSELF WITH OTHER
TEAM MEMBERS AND FELT LIKE A FRAUD?
@Mind_of_AC
HAVE YOU EVER FELT UNWORTHY OF YOUR JOB
PROMOTION?
@Mind_of_AC
HAVE YOU EVER DOUBTED OF YOUR SUCCESSES?
@Mind_of_AC
DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO COULD HAVE
ANSWERED “YES” TO ANY OF THOSE QUESTIONS?
@Mind_of_AC
IMPOSTOR SYNDROME
It is a psychological pattern in which one doubts one's accomplishments and has a
persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud”.
@Mind_of_AC
OCCURRENCE
70% of individuals experience impostor syndrome at least once in their lives
• New environment
• New city
• New university
• New company
• New country
• Underrepresented gender or ethnicity
@Mind_of_AC
TRAITS OF IMPOSTOR SYNDROME
• Afraid (or feel shame) to ask for help
• Having an unfinished project cause it’s not perfect
• Can’t start a project cause don’t know how to start (procrastination)
• Other people are talented, I am just lucky
• Looking for external validation
• Disregarding positive feedback and only looking for negative feedback
@Mind_of_AC
EXPRESSIONS OF THE SYNDROME
“I have been coding more than 20 years, my code is good, no need to review it”
“You want us to Opensource this… what if they find bugs?”
“I’ll go home later, just let me finish this” (most evenings)
@Mind_of_AC
FOUR HORSEMEN OF
IMPOSTOR SYNDROME
• Self doubt
• Perfectionism
• Anxiety
• Fear of failure
@Mind_of_AC
SELF DOUBT
• You feel you will never know enough
• Constantly seeking out training or certifications to improve or succeed
• Being in the role for some time but feeling you don’t know “enough”
• Feeling pressed to work harder and longer to prove your worth
@Mind_of_AC
@Mind_of_AC
PERFECTIONISM
• Do you feel like your work must be 100% perfect, 100% of the time?
• Setting excessively high goals for yourself, and when not reaching it you
experience a major self-doubt.
• Having difficulty delegating… because it will not be perfect
• Success rarely satisfying, I could have done better!
@Mind_of_AC
BINARY THINKING OF IMPOSTOR SYNDROME
PERFECT OR BAD
@Mind_of_AC
PERFECTION IS THE ENEMY OF GREAT
@Mind_of_AC
FEAR OF FAILURE
• Asking for help reveals their playing everyone
• Not applying for a job unless you meet every single requirement
• After being faced with a setback your confidence goes low with a feeling of shame
@Mind_of_AC
ANXIETY
• Isolating from others
• Trouble sleeping
• Working more hours
• Reducing social life
@Mind_of_AC
HOW DO I FIGHT IT?
• Facts vs feelings
• Save the positive feedback and check it from time to time
• Stop comparing
• Have someone to talk to
• Set yourself goals and deadlines (step by step)
• Be kind to yourself
• Walk (maybe with music)
@Mind_of_AC
REMEMBER YOU ARE YOUR WORST CRITIC
YOU DESERVE YOUR SUCCESS
@Mind_of_AC
IT IS LIKE A POISON…
A LITTLE BIT WILL HELP YOU DEVELOP IMMUNITY
AND BE BETTER
@Mind_of_AC
@Mind_of_AC

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Impostor sindrome in the IT world from a conference speaker's perspective

  • 1. © BJSS Ltd. 2020 Commercial in Confidence IMPOSTOR SYNDROME IN THE IT WORLD FROM A CONFERENCE SPEAKER’S PERSPECTIVE Antonio Cobo - @Mind_of_AC
  • 2. LET ME TELL YOU A STORY… @Mind_of_AC
  • 3. @Mind_of_AC FEELING ANXIOUS OUT OF PLACE WORKING LATE DEPRESSED OTHERS ARE AMAZING I’M ONLY BEING LUCKY
  • 6. LET’S LEARN MORE • Pluralsight Scott Hanselman’s course • Submit ideas not talks @Mind_of_AC
  • 8. YOU SUBMITTED YOUR TALK LIKE I DID THE PROGRAM COMMITTEE THINK IT WILL BE GREAT SO DON’T WORRY, IT WILL BE GREAT @Mind_of_AC
  • 9. ALL THIS TIME I WAS FEELING LIKE A FRAUD @Mind_of_AC
  • 10. HAVE YOU EVER COMPARED YOURSELF WITH OTHER TEAM MEMBERS AND FELT LIKE A FRAUD? @Mind_of_AC
  • 11. HAVE YOU EVER FELT UNWORTHY OF YOUR JOB PROMOTION? @Mind_of_AC
  • 12. HAVE YOU EVER DOUBTED OF YOUR SUCCESSES? @Mind_of_AC
  • 13. DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO COULD HAVE ANSWERED “YES” TO ANY OF THOSE QUESTIONS? @Mind_of_AC
  • 14. IMPOSTOR SYNDROME It is a psychological pattern in which one doubts one's accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud”. @Mind_of_AC
  • 15. OCCURRENCE 70% of individuals experience impostor syndrome at least once in their lives • New environment • New city • New university • New company • New country • Underrepresented gender or ethnicity @Mind_of_AC
  • 16. TRAITS OF IMPOSTOR SYNDROME • Afraid (or feel shame) to ask for help • Having an unfinished project cause it’s not perfect • Can’t start a project cause don’t know how to start (procrastination) • Other people are talented, I am just lucky • Looking for external validation • Disregarding positive feedback and only looking for negative feedback @Mind_of_AC
  • 17. EXPRESSIONS OF THE SYNDROME “I have been coding more than 20 years, my code is good, no need to review it” “You want us to Opensource this… what if they find bugs?” “I’ll go home later, just let me finish this” (most evenings) @Mind_of_AC
  • 18. FOUR HORSEMEN OF IMPOSTOR SYNDROME • Self doubt • Perfectionism • Anxiety • Fear of failure @Mind_of_AC
  • 19. SELF DOUBT • You feel you will never know enough • Constantly seeking out training or certifications to improve or succeed • Being in the role for some time but feeling you don’t know “enough” • Feeling pressed to work harder and longer to prove your worth @Mind_of_AC
  • 21. PERFECTIONISM • Do you feel like your work must be 100% perfect, 100% of the time? • Setting excessively high goals for yourself, and when not reaching it you experience a major self-doubt. • Having difficulty delegating… because it will not be perfect • Success rarely satisfying, I could have done better! @Mind_of_AC
  • 22. BINARY THINKING OF IMPOSTOR SYNDROME PERFECT OR BAD @Mind_of_AC
  • 23. PERFECTION IS THE ENEMY OF GREAT @Mind_of_AC
  • 24. FEAR OF FAILURE • Asking for help reveals their playing everyone • Not applying for a job unless you meet every single requirement • After being faced with a setback your confidence goes low with a feeling of shame @Mind_of_AC
  • 25. ANXIETY • Isolating from others • Trouble sleeping • Working more hours • Reducing social life @Mind_of_AC
  • 26. HOW DO I FIGHT IT? • Facts vs feelings • Save the positive feedback and check it from time to time • Stop comparing • Have someone to talk to • Set yourself goals and deadlines (step by step) • Be kind to yourself • Walk (maybe with music) @Mind_of_AC
  • 27. REMEMBER YOU ARE YOUR WORST CRITIC YOU DESERVE YOUR SUCCESS @Mind_of_AC
  • 28. IT IS LIKE A POISON… A LITTLE BIT WILL HELP YOU DEVELOP IMMUNITY AND BE BETTER @Mind_of_AC