12. FIRST
REQUEST
• Small enough favor so the
person is likely to agree
• Big enough so the person
feels good about doing it
• The request should serve
a meaningful purpose
• Should be completely
voluntary (no financial
incentive)
• Best requests improve
person’s self-image (i.e.,
helping others)
14. “Would you look at a new product
sample and give me your opinion?”
15. “I see you’re an active networker
on LinkedIn. Do you have a
phone number for…?”
16. SECOND
REQUEST
• Should be similar in nature
to the first request
• Timeframe between two
requests is unimportant
• Even more effective when
a different person asks for
the second – but related –
favor
• It’s beneficial to mention
that others are also helping
by agreeing to the second
request
21. 1. The best time to reach a
decision maker is early in
the morning, before the
secretary arrives. (Second
best time is 1:30 p.m., when
the secretary is at lunch.)
44. “Most salespeople lean on
establishing credibility through
presentations about their
company, it’s reputation, and
the wonderful products and
services it provides.”
Jeff Thull, “Diagnostic Conversations: The
Optimal Source of Differentiation,” Inc.com
50. Jeff Thull
“The beauty of [diagnostic sales]
is that it allows you to guide the
customer through the process
without ever resorting to the
‘sales techniques’ that customers
find so distasteful.”
51. For change to occur,
an individual must
believe that any
pain caused by
change is less than
the pain caused by
not changing.
52. “Our ability to understand customers’
problems and help them understand
their situation more clearly will set us
apart from the competition.”
Jeff Thull
55. 57percent of each purchasing decision is
made prior to contacting a supplier
SOURCE: Adamson, B., Dixon, M., & Toman, N. (2012). The end of solution sales.
The old playbook no longer works. Star salespeople now seek to upend the customer’s
current approach to doing business. Harvard Business Review.
56. Adamson, Dixon, and Toman
“Sales reps are adept at selling
‘solutions,’ but customers have
become skilled at finding their
own; they don’t need reps as
they once did.”
57. WAY AHEAD
OF YOU
• Researched
possible solutions
• Ranked their
options
• Set supplier
requirements
• Benchmarked
pricingSOURCE: Adamson, B., Dixon, M., & Toman, N. (2012). The
end of solution sales. The old playbook no longer works. Star
salespeople now seek to upend the customer’s current
approach to doing business. Harvard Business Review.
58. Our customers are coming to
the table armed to the teeth with a
deep understanding of their
problem and a well-scoped RFP
for a solution. It’s turning many
of our sales conversations into
fulfillment conversations.
–High-tech company CSO
63. “Mobilizers…don’t want to be
asked what keeps them awake at
night; they’re looking for outside
experts to share insights about what
their company should do.”
- Adamson, Dixon, and Toman
70. “Here’s our response to your RFP.
You can read that on your own. I’d
like to spend my limited time talking
about three things not included in
your RFP that I think should have
been – and why.”!
71. “The star sales rep uses the
occasion to reframe the
discussion and turn a
customer with clearly defined
requirements into one with
emerging needs.”
Adamson, Dixon, and Toman
78. EARLY
DAYS
! Born in England in 1911
! Dropped out of college
! Moved to Paris where he
worked in a hotel kitchen
! Returned to England to
sell stoves door-to-door
for Aga Cookers
! At age 24, wrote a sales
manual for Aga that
Fortune called “probably
the best sales manual
ever written”
80. “The more prospects you talk
to, the more sales you expose
yourself to, the more orders
you will get. But never mistake
quantity of calls for quality of
salesmanship.”
David Ogilvy
87. “In the modern world of
business, it is useless to be
a creative, original thinker
unless you can also sell
what you create.” Ogilvy
88. The Business of Selling
David Ogilvy believed that the
purpose of advertising is to sell.
Therefore, the job of advertising
professionals is to create solutions
that improve their customers’ sales.
96. Our “product costs are
substantially tied to commodities
and as such we fully expect to
see our supplier’s [sic] prices
drop as these commodity
changes occur.”
97. “With rates at historic lows
in many of these areas, this
must be something we speak
to with our key suppliers/
partners. Let’s think outside of
the box on this to show a nice
partnered savings delivered.”
Follow-up email from
Procurement Analyst
100. “When the gains to each
side are known, many
individuals
simply
because they deem the
division of gains to be
unfair.”
Shrewd bargaining on the moral frontier:
Toward a theory of morality in practice.
101. Burdened with a learned bias
toward salespeople, buyers
expect you to be deceptive. In
their minds, not expecting that
behavior from you places them at
a negotiating disadvantage from
the very beginning.
102. GAME ON
Some people see negotiating with
salespeople as a game, and bluffing
and haggling are part of the fun. And
the moment
you make your first sales pitch.
103. U.S. firms are beginning to adopt
the approach – common in Japan
– of having a handful of suppliers
with whom they maintain close,
trustful working relationships.
105. “These new arrangements,
have in some
instances replaced the short-
term, arm’s-length dealings of
market transactions.”
106. With buyers dependent on a smaller
group of suppliers, dependency becomes
an incentive for nurturing long-term
vendor relationships.
107. It’s all about getting the
best price. Right?
Usually, but there’s
in a buyer-seller collaborative,
parties recognize purchasing
deception as a breach of trust.
Buyers who might otherwise
succumb to internal pressures to
deceive salespeople will stop to
consider the ethical consequences
on their buyer-seller relationships.
108. “
”
Adaptability is about the
powerful difference between
adapting to cope and
adapting to win.
Max McKeown
Author & Behavioral Strategist
118. Service, Service, Service
Girard told customers to come directly to
him with any maintenance problems.
Then he treated shop mechanics to
dinner once a month. The mechanics
loved him so much they gave his
customers top priority.
122. “Broken Windows…argued that
crime is the inevitable result of
disorder. If a window is broken and
left unrepaired, people walking by
will conclude that no one cares and
no one is in charge. Soon, more
windows will be broken…sending a
signal that anything goes.”
Malcolm Gladwell
The Tipping Point
123. 72percent
drop
in
NYC’s
homicide
rate
SOURCE: Kirchner, L. (2014, January 7). Breaking
down the Broken Windows Theory. Pacific Standard.
141. Finding Her Calling
Ash once accepted a challenge to
sell ten sets of encyclopedias to
earn a free set. What typically took
the company’s top salespeople
three months to accomplish only
took Ash a day and a half.
142.
143. One of Stanley’s
top producer,
Ash grew frustrated watching
men with less talent get
promoted over her.
144. “Oh, Mary Kay,
you’re thinking just
like a woman.”
–fellow board members
at World Gift Company
145. Ash resigned from World Gift
in 1962, after the company
named a man she had
trained her supervisor and
paid him twice her salary.
146. Setting out to write a
book on selling, Ash
realized she had the
perfect business plan.
147. DREAM
COMPANY
! Ideal for working women
with families
! Where everyone gets
treated equally
! Where promotions are
based on merit
! Sells product that women
would recommend, and that
they would use up and
reorder over and over
! Could be started with
$5,000
151. Following the Golden
Rule, Ash believed in
“sandwiching every bit
of criticism between two
heavy layers of praise.”
152. “Pretend that every single person
you meet has a sign around his
or her neck that says ‘Make Me
Feel Important.’ Not only will you
succeed in business, you will
succeed in life.”
Mary Kay Ash
155. “
D A L E C A R N E G I E !
YOU CAN MAKE MORE FRIENDS
IN TWO MONTHS BY BECOMING
INTERESTED IN OTHER PEOPLE
THAN YOU CAN IN TWO YEARS
BY TRYING TO GET OTHER
PEOPLE INTERESTED IN YOU.!
156. TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT!
AND THEY’LL LISTEN FOR HOURS!
Dale Carnegie
157. “
”D A L E C A R N E G I E !
Develop success from
failures. Discouragement and
failure are two of the surest
stepping stones to success.
161. THERE IS ONLY ONE
WAY TO GET ANYBODY
TO DO ANYTHING.
Dale Carnegie
162. DALECARNEGIE
Personally I am very fond of
strawberries and cream, but I have
found that for some strange reason,
fish prefer worms. So when I went
fishing…I didn't bait the hook with
strawberries and cream. !
182. REASONS
PEOPLE REMAIN
SILENT
! They don’t believe it’s
their place to voice a
concern
! They’re afraid of
questioning – and
possibly offending –
their more experienced
co-workers
! They’re worried about
impeding approaching
deadlines
! They think someone
else will step forward
183. In reality, employees share
not only the right to reject
inferior quality, but also
to do so.
193. assumptions
“can only be identified by someone
who has not become hijacked by the
corporate conventional wisdom and
whose career success does not depend
on being able to apply it unerringly to all
business solutions.”
–Mike Brooks, “The Unspoken Assumption
Problem” Accountancy, September 2005
194. “If we have a cardinal
strategy that forms the
bedrock for all our practices,
it may be this: Ask why. Ask it
all the time, ask it any day,
every day, and always ask it
three times in a row.”
Ricardo Semler
The Seven Day Weekend
200. Solomon Asch
Subjects went along with the clearly
erroneous majority 33 percent of the time
74 percent conformed to the
majority at least once
28 percent conformed more
than half the time
201. “The illiterate of
the 21st century
will not be those
who cannot read
and write, but those
who cannot learn,
unlearn, and
relearn.”
Alvin Toffler
213. Serving on a nonprofit board
exposes you to other leaders,
group dynamics, and a high-level
view of a business organization.
214. Alice Korngold
Fast Company
THROUGH SERVICE, YOU HAVE
TREMENDOUS OPPORTUNITIES
TO DEVELOP AS A LEADER,
BECOME A MORE VALUABLE
PROFESSIONAL WHERE YOU
WORK, AND MAKE A
MEANINGFUL CONTRIBUTION
IN IMPROVING YOUR
COMMUNITY AND THE
WORLD.”
216. ethical misstep
In this age of instant
information, any
is just a click away
from the world’s
desktop.
217. The barrage of news stories
reporting the transgressions
of powerful people is
creating an overwhelming
generalization among the
American population:
218. “A little man may
do a great deal of
harm; and pray,
why not a little
man do a great
deal of good?”
Cotton Mather, 1825
Essays to Do Good
219. By choosing to live with
integrity, you’ll help to fight
back the onslaught of
unethical behavior.
220. You might not get the
publicity afforded
business scoundrels
and dirty politicians.
221. But you’ll succeed in proving that there are still
HONORABLE PEOPLE
in the world today.