14. Habit 1: Be Proactive
¨ I AM THE FORCE.
¨ I am a responsible person.
¨ I take initiative.
¨ I choose my actions, attitudes, and moods.
¨ I do not blame others for my wrong
actions.
¨ I do the right thing without being asked,
even when no one is looking.
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Proactive vs. Reactive
Can-Do People No-Can-Do People
Take initiative to Wait for something to
make it happen. happen to them.
Think about solutions Think about problems
and options. and barriers.
Act. Are acted upon.
16. Where do you fall?
Very
Reactive
Very
Proactive
Can you CHOOSE to be more
PROACTIVE?
17. “It sort of makes you stop and think, doesn’t it?”
19. Practice:
You have a group
project but no one
is doing anything…
You see people
making fun of
someone
Your parents said
you could not take
the car out alone.
I’ll divide the project into
smaller tasks and ask
each person which one
they want to do
Event Do
22. Habit 2: Begin With the End in Mind
¨ CONTROL YOUR OWN DESTINY OR
SOMEONE ELSE WILL.
¨ I plan ahead and set goals.
¨ I do things that have meaning and
make a difference.
¨ I look for ways to be a good citizen.
23. Some famous Mission Statements
¨ To organize the world's information and
make it universally accessible and useful?
¤Google
¨ Passionately committed to providing personal
mobility for people around the world.
¤Ford Motor Company
¨ To bring inspiration and innovation to every
athlete in the world.
¤Nike
24. THE GREAT DISCOVERY
¨ A Personal Mission Statement will help you put
together the pieces of this puzzle by opening
your eyes to what is important to you.
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25. Mission Statement, Part 1:
Write your name in a circle. Out from the circle, write
words that describe you as you are NOW.
Zaheer
kind
athleticartistic
social
26. Mission Statement, Part 2:
Next think about what kind of person you WANT to be.
Make a list.
I want to be a:
1.Hard worker
2.Intellectual expert
3.Kind person
4.Rich, have all the good things in life
5.Well travelled
27. Mission Statement, Part 3:
Use the two lists to write a mission statement. This is a sentence or
paragraph about the person you want to be. Here are some examples:
My mission is to:
•Laugh and bring smiles to faces around me
•Learn like a sponge
•Be kind and warm the hearts of those I
interact with
•Be in the best shape and physical fitness
•Have a meal in every country in the world.
28. How does saying “no” sometimes help
you with “beginning with the end in
mind”?
What things do you have to say “no” to?
31. Habit 3: Put first things first
¨ WILL AND WON’T POWER.
¨ I spend my time on things that are
most important.
¨ This means I say no to things I know I
should not do.
¨ I set priorities, make a schedule, and
follow my plan.
¨ I am disciplined and organized.
34. ABC Prioritizer is a tool that helps
you organize your time.
¨ A:
¤ Things that are Urgent and Important
¨ B:
¤ Things that are Important but not Urgent
¨ C:
¤ Things you could do if you had time after
doing all the A’s and B’s
35. ABC Prioritize the following list:
¨ Call your grandma; it’s her birthday today.
¨ Watch a TV show.
¨ Work on a project that’s due next week.
¨ Babysit your little sister after school.
¨ Go to a movie with a friend.
¨ Play video games.
¨ Do homework for tomorrow.
¨ Practice for rehearsal on Friday.
36. Steps to Planning
1 Identify your big
rocks.
2 Block out time for your
big-rock activities.
3 Schedule everything
else.
37. I will do the
following 3 big
rocks…
This week…