1. Introduction: X3pure Men’s Series

2. Introduction: X3pure Men’s Series
• Steven Luff

3. Session 1: “Where We Are
and Where We’re Going”

4. Session 1: “Where We Are
and Where We’re Going”
• This program has:

5. Session 1: “Where We Are
and Where We’re Going”
• This program has:
- Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook
sections.

6. Session 1: “Where We Are
and Where We’re Going”
• This program has:
- Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook
sections.
- Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete.

7. Session 1: “Where We Are
and Where We’re Going”
• This program has:
- Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook
sections.
- Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete.
- Find a quiet place to think about the material.

8. Session 1: “Where We Are
and Where We’re Going”
• This program has:
- Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook
sections.
- Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete.
- Find a quiet place to think about the material.
- If you feel comfortable, pray before you begin each video teaching.

9. Session 1: “Where We Are
and Where We’re Going”
• This program has:
- Fifteen online video teaching with fifteen corresponding workbook
sections.
- Each one should take 10-15 minutes to complete.
- Find a quiet place to think about the material.
- If you feel comfortable, pray before you begin each video teaching.
- Above all, be patient with yourself.

10. Remember

11. Remember
• Your sexuality is an important and
sacred part of you

12. Remember
• Your sexuality is an important and
sacred part of you
- Don’t suppress or destroy it

13. Remember
• Your sexuality is an important and
sacred part of you
- Don’t suppress or destroy it
- Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being

14. Remember
• Your sexuality is an important and
sacred part of you
- Don’t suppress or destroy it
- Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being
• Many of you are entering this process at
different places of recovery and different places
along the journey

15. Remember
• Your sexuality is an important and
sacred part of you
- Don’t suppress or destroy it
- Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being
• Many of you are entering this process at
different places of recovery and different places
along the journey
- Be patient with the program

16. Remember
• Your sexuality is an important and
sacred part of you
- Don’t suppress or destroy it
- Celebrate it and understand it as an important part of your being
• Many of you are entering this process at
different places of recovery and different places
along the journey
- Be patient with the program
- New discoveries about yourself are well worth the time and effort

17. Journals

18. Journals
• Get a journal

19. Journals
• Get a journal
• Examine your struggle

20. Journals
• Get a journal
• Examine your struggle
• Inspiration strikes at odd times so write it down

21. Objectives

22. Objectives
1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and
what addiction means.

23. Objectives
1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and
what addiction means.
2. Comprehend what change for the better
really is.

24. Objectives
1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and
what addiction means.
2. Comprehend what change for the better
really is.
3. Learn what is going on in our bodies and
brain when we have to turn to sex
compulsively.

25. Objectives
1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and
what addiction means.
2. Comprehend what change for the better
really is.
3. Learn what is going on in our bodies and
brain when we have to turn to sex
compulsively.
4. Discover the real reasons why we have
turned to compulsive sexual behavior.

26. Objectives
1. Understand if we are indeed addicted and
what addiction means.
2. Comprehend what change for the better
really is.
3. Learn what is going on in our bodies and
brain when we have to turn to sex
compulsively.
4. Discover the real reasons why we have
turned to compulsive sexual behavior.
5. Unleash some powerful tools that will help
us live lives full of purity, honor and pride.

27. Are you really addicted?

28. Are you really addicted?
• Have you turned sex into an idol?

29. Are you really addicted?
• Have you turned sex into an idol?
• The act of relying on sex or sexual activities,
as a source of unconditional love instead of
friends, family, community or God Himself.

30. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test

31. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to
act out sexually?

32. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to
act out sexually?
2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so
to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you
had originally intended?

33. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to
act out sexually?
2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so
to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you
had originally intended?
3. Do you have a continual desire to act out sexually or have
tried to stop, reduce or control acting out sexually but
been unsuccessful?

34. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to
act out sexually?
2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so
to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you
had originally intended?
3. Do you have a continual desire to act out sexually or have
tried to stop, reduce or control acting out sexually but
been unsuccessful?
4. Have you spent an inordinate amount of time either trying
to get sex, be sexual, or recover from some sexual
experience?

35. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
1. Do you have a pattern of failing to resist the impulse to
act out sexually?
2. When you do act out sexually, do you find that you do so
to a greater extent, or for a longer period of time, than you
had originally intended?
3. Do you have a continual desire to act out sexually or have
tried to stop, reduce or control acting out sexually but
been unsuccessful?
4. Have you spent an inordinate amount of time either trying
to get sex, be sexual, or recover from some sexual
experience?
5. Are you preoccupied with acting out sexually or preparing
to act out sexually?

36. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test

37. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
6. Do you find yourself acting out sexually even though you
are expected to meet job, school, home or social
commitments?

38. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
6. Do you find yourself acting out sexually even though you
are expected to meet job, school, home or social
commitments?
7. Even if you know you have a social, educational,
financial, mental or physical problem caused by your
sexual behavior you continue to act out in that behavior
anyway?

39. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
6. Do you find yourself acting out sexually even though you
are expected to meet job, school, home or social
commitments?
7. Even if you know you have a social, educational,
financial, mental or physical problem caused by your
sexual behavior you continue to act out in that behavior
anyway?
8. Do you find that you need to increase the intensity,
frequency, number or risk of sexual behavior to get the
physical effect you want? Conversely, does the same level
of intensity, frequency, number or risk of sexual behavior
produce less of an effect?

40. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test

41. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
9. Do you find yourself quitting or reducing social,
professional or recreational activities because of your
sexual behavior?

42. Sexual Addiction Screening
Test
9. Do you find yourself quitting or reducing social,
professional or recreational activities because of your
sexual behavior?
10. Do you find yourself upset, distressed, anxious, restless
or even violent if you cannot act out sexually, especially in
the ways in which you have developed as a pattern?

43. Why We Are Here

44. Why We Are Here
• To help you gain information, support and
encouragement so that you may live a life of
freedom, joy and purity

45. Assignment

46. Assignment
• Spend some time answering these questions.
Answer them honestly and completely.

47. Assignment
• Spend some time answering these questions.
Answer them honestly and completely.
• Go easy on yourself

48. Assignment
• Spend some time answering these questions.
Answer them honestly and completely.
• Go easy on yourself
• Pray

49. Assignment
• Spend some time answering these questions.
Answer them honestly and completely.
• Go easy on yourself
• Pray
- “Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to accept the things I can, and the wisdom to know the
difference.”