5. “Sex” vs. “Gender”
• Sex is biological Based off of
genitalia, hormones, chromosomes, etc.
• Sex is assigned We are given a sex at birth
• Sex is a spectrum, not a binary:
-Male, Female, and Intersex
• Sex can also be social Categories between
male and female are subjective
6. “Sex” vs. “Gender”
• Gender is social. Roles and expectations
associated with masculinity and femininity
differ across cultures.
• Gender is internal. We are the only people
who can understand our gender.
• Gender is a spectrum:
– Man, Woman, Genderqueer, Trans, Fluid
7. Gender Expression
• Gender expression is external.
-How external characteristic and behaviors
are perceived by other people.
• External gender expression doesn’t determine
internal gender identity.
-We shouldn’t make assumptions
• Gender expression is a spectrum:
– Masculine, Feminine, Androgynous
8. “Transgender”
• Trans or transgender identities broadly include
people whose gender identity and expression don’t
match up with the expectations associated with their
assigned sex.
9. “Cisgender”
• “Cisgender” refers to people whose gender identity
and expression matches with expectations associated
with assigned sex
10. Why is “cisgender” important?
• Having a specific word shows that cisgender
isn’t normal or better. It’s just cisgender.
• Cisgender = “cis”
12. Trans Identities
• Trans is a diverse range of identities
• Use of “trans” vs. “transgender”
– Transsexual
– Transgendered
– Trans*
• Trans is not a sexual orientation
Trans people can be straight, gay, bisexual, etc.
13. Trans Identities
• Trans does not always mean somebody is
physically changing their body
Because gender is internal, identifying as a certain
gender doesn’t tell us anything about anatomy.
You don’t have to transition in order to be trans.
For some trans people, being a woman with a penis
makes perfect sense
14. Trans Identities
• Why might somebody “transition” their body?
-May be an important step in feeling comfortable with
their body
-Passing Being read as the “correct” gender
-May be a matter of physical safety
15. Trans Identities
• Some trans people may want to transition to
another gender category.
– May use the words “transman”(FtM) or
“transwoman” (MtF)
– May transition completely and use the words
“man” or “woman”
– May refer to themselves simply as “trans”
16. Trans Identities
• Genderqueer May describe someone
whose gender doesn’t fit into the box of
“man” or “woman”
• Genderfluid May include moving between
genders. Gender isn’t fixed.
• Some people may even identify as having
multiple genders or no gender at all
• Some people just don’t like labels!
17. Trans Ally Tip
• Self-Authorship Each individual is the only
person able to articulate their own gender.
– When somebody discloses their gender identity to
you, there’s no need to question them.
20. Pronouns
Use that in a sentence?
She forgot her lunch money.
He forgot his lunch money.
Ze forgot hir lunch money.
They forgot their lunch money.
21. Pronouns
• Pronouns are part of our identities
We wouldn’t want somebody calling us the wrong name
• When somebody “comes out” as trans, they
might go by a new name or set of pronouns to
better reflect their identity
-Somebody may go through several sets of pronouns (or
names) before they settle on ones that fit
-Pronouns/names may be different than what we assume
about someone based on their gender expression
22. Pronouns
• May be “out” to different people, so could use
different labels depending on location
• If you don’t know somebody’s gender
pronouns, using their name or “they” is
always a good choice
• SELF-AUTHORIZATION! Nobody has to justify
their gender pronouns
23. Trans Ally Tip
• Call people by the name and pronouns that
they want to be called
-Sometimes we’ll slip up
-Mis-labeling somebody sends the message that you
don’t think their identity is “real”
26. Understanding Cisgender Privilege
1. Our society puts a higher value on cisgender
people than trans folks (hierarchy)
2. Cisgender people are systematically privileged
by social institutions
3. Transphobia maintains this hierarchy and allows
cisgender people to continue benefitting from
their privilege
28. Privilege
• Privilege is a sociological term that refers to
unearned systematic advantages that benefit
one group of people over another
Systematic Ways we are treated (structurally
and culturally) not for our merits or actions as
individuals but for how others perceive our
social identification
-Privilege is received by the “dominant”
group in each hierarchy
29. Privilege
• Refers to how we are treated by social
institutions (media;
educational, religious, and political systems)
– Ex 1 : White Standards of Beauty
– Ex 2 : Gendered Access to Characteristics
• Privilege is invisible
• Privilege doesn’t automatically make you
happy or successful
30. Privilege
• Intersectionality We all have many
identities (race, gender, class, etc). These
identities can only be understood in relation
to one another
– For black women and white women, gender is
experienced differently
• People can be both privileged and
marginalized
31. Transphobia? What’s That?
• Transphobia Intolerance and discrimination
against people who are gender variant (fit
outside binary or transgress our expectations)
-Individual Bullying in school
-Institutional Not having trans-specific
protections in school anti-bullying policies
32. According to the National Center for Transgender
Equality’s 2011 Survey “Injustice At Every Turn” :
• 41% of respondents reported attempting suicide
at least once in their lives
• In K-12, there were alarming rates of harassment
(78%), physical assault (35%), and sexual violence
(12%)
– Almost 15% of respondents dropped out
• Respondents experienced double the rate of
unemployment
• 26% reported that they had lost a job due to
being trans. 50% reported harassment at work
33. According to the National Center for Transgender
Equality’s 2011 Survey “Injustice At Every Turn” :
• 19% reported having been refused a home or
apartment
• 52% of respondents reported being verbally
harassed or disrespected in public (retail,
restaurants, transportation)
• 22% have been harassed by police
• 19% have reported being refused medical care
34. Transphobia
• When trans people are institutionally and
systematically marginalized, this intolerance
and hatred becomes “normalized.”
– Maintains the hierarchy there’s so much
intolerance and hatred that we start to think that
maybe trans people are less valuable
35. Understanding Cisgender Privilege
1. Our society puts a higher value on cisgender
people than trans folks (hierarchy)
2. Cisgender people are systematically privileged
by social institutions
3. Transphobia maintains this hierarchy and allows
cisgender people to continue benefitting from
their privilege
36. What Would You Do?
You’re excited about this whole “cisgender
privilege” thing. When you explain it to your
sister, however, she says:
“I don’t have privilege. I’m a lesbian/Latina/girl”
39. Language
• My gender is not excluded from everyday
language. When it is, there are many people
around me who can understand the feeling.
-Language we use on everyday basis is very gendered
(pronouns, waiter/waitress, actor/actress)
-Leaves out identities that do not conform to the
gender binary
40. Language
• I have never had to consider breaking down
the construction of the gender binary
(outside of an academic setting).
-Beyond Pronouns Gendered sports
teams, bathrooms, clothing, classroom, etc.
-Cisgender people don’t need to examine the binary
because they fit comfortable within these categories
41. Gender Authenticity
• My gender identity, when conveyed to
others, is seen as legitimate and authentic.
-Cisgender men and women feel entitled in claiming
gender identity
-We scrutinize trans people’s
“personality, expression, and physical body” for flaws
that would indicate their deviance from “real” gender
identities (Serano, 172)
42. Gender Authenticity
• I have access to a broad definition of gender
that is not limited to my genitalia.
-Obsession with genitalia undermines legitimacy of
trans identities and it’s dehumanizing
43. Trans Ally Tip
• Don’t engage in “what’s down there?”
discourse.
-While you might be curious, you would never
ask a cisgender person about their genitalia
-Conflation of “sex” and “gender”
44. Institutions
• I expect first-response teams like the EMS or
the Fire Department to not refuse service
based on my gender identity.
-1% of trans people reported being physically attacked
in the emergency room because of their gender
identity or expression (NCTE)
45. Institutions
• I do not have to "teach" doctors how to care
for my body.
-50% have to educate their medical provider about
transgender care (NCTE)
-Doctors don’t always know how to treat
(Mammograms or Prostate Cancer)
-Objectification
-Refusal of health care coverage for unrelated issues
46. Institutions
• I do not have to "teach" law enforcement
officers my rights to express my gender as I
choose.
-Cisgender men and women are more likely to feel
comfortable contacting law enforcement
-22% of trans people report harassment by police officers
due to bias; 38% for trans people of color (NCTE)
47. Institutions
• Public restrooms are readily available for me.
-Restrooms alienate people who don’t adhere to
the binary
-The problem of “bathroom policing”
-Gender Neutral Bathrooms & “Bathroom Talk”
-Trans people need to pee too!
48. Institutions
• I can relate to representations of gender
identity and expression in the media.
-As if trans people don’t exist, and if they do they are
nothing more than crime victims
-Media shapes popular perception of identities
49. Health and Finance
• I can't imagine spending months and
thousands of dollars on a therapist so they
can tell me something I already know.
-Medical model of trans identities: “sick and sane”
discourse (Gender Identity Disorder)
-Pathologizing of trans identities
50. Health and Finance
• If I am physically healthy, I don't need to
consider undergoing surgery to feel safe and
legitimate.
-Passing as a means of safety and legitimacy
-Financial burden of surgeries (cosmetic)
-Health risks involved in “pumping” silicone
breast implants and street hormones
51. THE ULTIMATE PRIVILEGE
• I don’t have to acknowledge cisgender
privilege and transphobia if I don’t want to.
55. What To Do With This Privilege
• Navigate the tension between taking
responsibility for our privilege without feeling
overwhelmingly guilty:
-Educating ourselves and other people
-Being an ACTIVE ally to trans communities
-Calling other people out on their privilege
(being productive and generous)
-Embrace other people calling you out on your
privilege
Notas del editor
This idea of a spectrum (many options—not all of which we have a name for) vs. a binary (two options, that’s it) is a theme we’ll continue discussing
I’m not trying to say that gender is important and sex isn’t. Both, to an extent, are constructed. But as we’ll continue to discuss, when gender and the relationship between gender/sex affect how we are treated by others and society, the ways we understand and talk about gender particularly are important What do I mean by that? Gender is just that feeling of “feeling” right. That, for me, the word man is comfortable to use because I feel like it fits who I am.
Think about how the way we dress, wear our hair, the way we walk, talk, stand these are all coded as masculine or feminine.
Somebody might have been biologically assigned female at birth, but now identifies as a man. Because these two don’t match “normative” (or normal) expectations, we might think of this person as being trans—transcending or moving across gender expectationsTrans can mean A LOT of different things to each person, as we’ll continue to discuss
For me, I was biologically assigned male at birth, and I identify as a man. So that would make me “cisgender”.
We don’t want to be like “oh, here’s trans people, and here’s the normal people”. No, here’s trans people. Here’s cis people. Both are equally validJust like straight isn’t normal or better than gay. It’s just straight.
Usually we think of transgender as an umbrella term to describe people who, as we’ve said…But it’s a term that is always evolving. It’s nice to have because it always us to talk about a whole group of people. But really, all trans people have unique experiences, some that are radically different from one another. We group it with LGB, but it’s different because it’s talking about gender identity, not sexual orientation
And for some trans people, transitioning is a priority, for other people it’s not at allWays to “change the body” Hormones, Sex Reassignment Surgery, “top surgery”, electrolysis, tracheal shave 1. We don’t think of “transition” as being “the surgery” 2. We also don’t think of transition as a necessary part of being trans 3. None of our business It’s not for public display
Passing includes gender expression, appearance and behavior Her gender is being “coded” correctly Passing isn’t necessary--presenting yourself as ambiguous is OK tooWanting to pass doesn’t make you vain. For most people, in fact, we want others to think about us in the way we think ourselves. Our culture is intolerant of people who aren’t part of the “normative” binary of “man” and “woman” Our society discriminates a lot against people who we can’t automatically “read” as a man or a woman. They may not be able to tell what your gender is, and think that’s a good reason to beat the shit out of youWe want to say that “transition” is for the individual, but sometimes we need to take safety into account These are some important things to consider, but it doesn’t really matter why somebody transitions, just respect it.
There are a lot of ways to talk about trans identity. Here’s a couple, but each person may use them differently
Polygender. Agender.Mention the critique of, “too many differences”, “too complicated”, “just pick one”
Take a volunteer
But that doesn’t make them greedy or indecisive. They’re just trying to figure out who they are and how they want to present themself So somebody who looks masculine to you might not go by masculine pronouns
Sharing/asking pronouns in group spaces
These are three parts of a model to understand how cisgender privilege works.
Often these categories are socially constructedDoesn’t refer to the actual value of these groups. But rather, the value that society assigns them Dominant groups may be perceived as better, smarter, more attractive, more capable, “normal”, more human!!! I’m not talking about individuals, but rather the collective value that society assigns these groups
Not “privileged” in the common use of the word
It doesn’t mean that all white women are seen as beautiful or that all women of color are ugly. Privilege isn’t about individuals. Its how white people are generally and systematically associated with beauty. It doesn’t mean that men aren’t judged for their physical appearance, but that they systematically have access to more social characteristics that women
Race affects the way they are treated because of their gender and how they experience their gender. White women may be seen as innocent whereas black women may be seen as hypersexual Important to not that cisgender privilege isn’t experienced the same way by all people. Gay men can definitely cisgender privilege, but this privilege looks a little differently than how straight men experience it -That doesn’t mean his male privilege and racism he faces cancel each other out. But that privilege is more complex than that
Transphobia (these statistics) wouldn’texistwithout the hierarchy. It’s not like «Oh, I’mgoing to wake up today and discriminateagainstthese people. »
It’ssystematic. It’s more like « It has been instilled in me that not only are these people differentthan me, but thatthey’relessvaluablethan me. So for thatreasonI’mgoing to pick on them ! »
Acknowledge Universal “He”
I identify as a woman I live my life as a woman Other people relate to me as a womanThere is still discourse that one is less “real” than another – monopoly on defining gender Julia Serano, “Whipping Girl” (2007)
Conflation of “sex” and “gender”Inability to access a more comprehensive definition of gender Within the feminist context…we’re comfortable fighting for the right that women should be able to express themselves anyway they want, but acknowledge the fact that only certain women are able to benefit from this narrow understanding of feminism. Somehow, it seems, that the sex-gender correlation has become a gatekeeper of whether or not we should be able to access a full definition of gender. Not OK!
*Unless they offer the information
Many policies don’t cover trans-related care. Transphobic providers may use that as an excuse not to treat trans people at all Objectification They’re curious and using their professional status to take advantage of trans patients bodies
A need to layer in intersectionality and say that the trans experience isn’t monolithic. Race and gender coincide in a way that trans people of color may understand and experience their identities (because of the added component of racism) differently that white trans people may
We can’t let men into women’s bathrooms, they’ll sexually harass them! -Assumes there’s a primal link between men and sexual assault (“they can’t help themselves”)-Again, reduces trans people to their genitalia = not cool-Places that have gender neutral restrooms have not experienced any increased rate in sexual assault (unwarranted assumptions)
We need to hold the media accountable for realistic and fair portrayals
American Psychiatric Association—sets the precedent of treatment.The power to define yourself and right to be taken seriously
-Start with the hierarchy: Cis people are valued more than trans people-Because of this hierarchy and the fact that cisgender people are seen as more valuable, they are given systematic, unearned advantages AKA privilege -Because trans people are valued less, they are seen as a target. The hierarchy creates this hate and intolerance.
This hierarchy is WACKY! There’s nothing normal about it. How are you going to go say one person is better than another, that some people are just worth more? To me, this is an absurd concept. But these hierarchies exist—and these inequalities become not only acceptable, but normal; the status quo; not worth challenging. Cisgender privilege permeates our society—a collection of unearned advantages. But it’s invisible—we don’t talk about it. And so it becomes normalized, a part of our daily routines. Cisgender privilege is both created by a hierarchy that values cis people over trans. But it also creates that hierarchy. Because when we have inequality and we don’t say anything about it, then we justify that inequality. And as we give cisgender privilege our silent approval, then we are saying that they deserve this privilege, writing this hierarchy into stone. Unless we challenge privilege, we agree that “Yes, cisgender people are more valuable. And that’s why I will allow them to benefit from inequality.” When we allow transphobia to occur—when we justify the unequal treatment of trans people—then we likewise say “Yes, they are less valuable.” Transphobia and cis privilege are two halves of the same coin. One privileges cisgender people; the other marginalizes trans people. Both justify the idea that there is an unequal hierarchy. And in order to create justice, we can’t just fight transphobia. Because it’s only one part of the puzzle. Transphobia wouldn’t exist without cisgender privilege. We need to fight both of them. We need to look inside of ourselves and have the courage to ask, “How am I privileged even if I don’t feel powerful? How can I be hurting somebody without even meaning to? How can I acknowledge my privilege? How can I take inequality and transform it into justice?”