2. At Narcissism cured we care to understand and help people to correct and
heal the emotional dysfunction they may have been facing all through their
life.
People with narcissistic tendencies don’t think that anything is wrong with
them and will not agree to go under therapy secessions. There is little an
evidence that therapy had successfully treats narcissism. So don’t push
your partner to stick with the therapy anyways, as it is not an effective way
to end verbal and other domestic abuse.
3. "When you hear about domestic abuse in the news it is easy to think ‘oh that is
not me’. but if your fights get to push and shove and one or both of you
throw things or lash out at each other when you are angry - this is domestic
abuse and we are here to help you."
4. Domestic abuse usually describes domestic violence but I wonder;
Are you in a marriage that makes you feel weak rather than strong?
Do you feel your partner undermines you rather than supports you?
Do you feel that you cannot relax or be yourself when they are around?
If you answered yes you may be part of a Narcissistic / Codependent
Marriage.
5. Domestic abuse may begin with a family member who feels vulnerable and
poorly equipped to deal with life and who may also fear abandonment.
On the outside this person may appear confident and strong, but their need
to control their family (and make them feel bad about themselves) shows
that this strength is in fact a pretense.
Abuse in families may also be fueled by emotionally needy family members.
The threat of leaving may escalate fights and so it is safer NOT to threaten
divorce or to leave in the heat of and argument and if you do wish to separate
please make sure you get our advice first on how to do this safely.
You should know that divorce is not your only option. We have advice that will
improve your situation if you leave or stay. Steve and I had about the worst
marriage in the world, but now 5 years on, I believe we have one of the best!
6. We offer help for victims to see how their own actions and reactions play
into their abusive relationship.
No matter how much you feel you are the innocent victim of a domestic
abuse statistics show that by leaving your partner (and putting all the
blame on them for your abusive relationship) you are like to form exactly
the same type of relationship again in the future.
7. Conflict and arguments between couples is natural, and can even strengthen
an already healthy relationship. When you are dealing with a highly insecure
spouse however simple problems can turn into big fights and even escalate
toward Domestic Abuse. If you find that even when you are calmly stating
your complaint or request your spouse is disrespectful or condescending the
reason could be more than just emotional immaturity. Domestic Abuse
occurs when a partner perceives he is being asked to provide more than he is
able to give.
This kind of ego threat is a common trait of abusive people. When the
arguments become circular, loud, explosive they can easily turn violent
because your insecure and threatened partner knows no other way out of his
painful state of mind but to end it with intimidation.
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8. One of the main causes of symptoms that lead to Domestic Abuse--
lying, cheating, yelling, hitting--is Narcissistic Personality Disorder. NPD is
a serious mental and emotional condition. With a deeply ingrained set of
learned behaviors, a highly insecure person or abusive husband uses
abusive tactics as tools to deal with his stress or low self-esteem.
Friends and family of Narcissists or emotionally abusive people often feel
insecure themselves as they wonder if they are doing "something wrong"
or could be doing something differently to avoid the Narcissist’s abuse or
prevent future Domestic Abuse.
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9. There are techniques and skills to learn how to not only recognize the
difference between an abuser’s behavior and your reaction, but also how to
diffuse or even intercept their triggers to avoid a dispute that may turn into
Domestic Abuse.
How can you prevent arguments from escalating to Domestic Abuse? The
first step is to realize that when your spouse or family member is acting out
they are really only crying to be heard. the first step is to not think that you
threatening to leave will change their behavior as this will most likely only
may it worse. Although it is natural to fight back in order to protect
yourself, reflecting their complaints in calm and understanding tones is often
an effective and disarming strategy.
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10. You need to put a solid support plan together and this is where Kim and
Steve can help.
To learn more visit www.narcissismcured.com.
Contact:
Kim Cooper
www.narcissismcured.com
11. Modpod
5/49 Telford Street
Newcastle, New South Wales 2300
Australia
612 49278446
info@narcissismsupport.com
http://www.narcissismcured.com/domestic-abuse.html
