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Judo as a Metaphor
for Business and Daily Living
by Gary S. Goltz, MBA, 8th Degree Black Belt
Sensei Gary’s thoughts on judo…
"Judo brings people together by neutralizing differences of race, gender,
religion, nationality, language, politics, wealth, education, professions, etc. In a
judogi we are all equal. Our love of this sport is the common denominator to
build upon friendships, mutual respect, and self-confidence.”
“In judo you learn that in order to complete a throw you must risk being
thrown. This is a valuable metaphor for life knowing sometimes the things you
need to do in order to get ahead may result in being hurt, rejected, criticized,
embarrassed, and unpopular. However, with proper training and hard work,
the risks can be reduced significantly yielding many terrific rewards.”
What is judo?
Japanese martial art
invented in 1882 by
by Dr. Jigoro Kano,
a famous educator,
meaning gentle way
Kano refined certain jujitsu throws, pins,
strikes, strangles, and locking techniques
into a safe method of practice
Today, judo is an Olympic sport practiced
by men, women, and children worldwide
Judo is also…
The practice of life skills
in a dojo (or lab, safe
environment) under the
careful supervision of a
sensei (trained professional)
An art where students learn through
experiments how to interact with people
A study of one’s self in order to works
towards the perfection of one’s character
Judo Basics
“Fall down seven times get up eight.” Mifune
Key Definitions:
 Judoka - a student of judo
 Seiroyoku Zenyo – make the best use of energy
 Jita Kyoei - you and me shining together
 Kiai - shout of inner strength
 Mushin - no mindedness
 Gumbari - with gusto
 Kaizen - continuous improvement
 Jiko No Kansei - self awareness goal (high EQ)
Judo Basics:
Kuzushi – Balance
Tsukuri – Entry
Kake – Execution
Shizen / Jigo Hontai – Posturing
Ayumi / Tsugi Ashi – Walking
Tai Saboki – Turning
Jiko Ashi – Pivoting Foot
Note – Timing is a crucial factor!
Judo Forms of Practice
Judo Forms of Practice:
Uchikomi - Repetitious
Randori - Open
Kata - Prearranged
Shiai - Contest
Judo Components
Components:
Gripping
Falling
Throwing
Holding
Strangling
Locking
Striking
Judo Rank Promotions
Based on knowledge, skill,
fighting ability, time in
grade, contributions,
leadership, wisdom, and
most importantly –
being a good character
Judo Ranks:
 Rokyu – Nursery School
 Gokyu – Kindergarten
 Yonkyu – Grade School
 Sankyu – Jr. High School
 Nikyu - High School
 Ikkyu – College
 Shodan – Entry Level Business
 Nidan – Manager Position
 Sandan – Regional Manager
 Yondan – Vice President, MBA
 Godan – COO, CFO, CIO, CMO
 Rokudan – President, PhD
 Shichidan – CEO, Chairman
 Hachidan – Professor Emeritus
 Kudan – Nobel Prize Winner
 Judan – Sainthood
Judo Contest Scores
Contest Scores:
A Win -
 Ippon - Full Point
An Advancement -
 Wazari - Half Point
A Penalty -
 Shido - Warning
 Hansokumake – Disqualification
Judo Competition
Strategies
Before and After a Match:
Preparation
Bow In
Bow Out
Meditation
Reflection
Humility
Judo Tactics
Types of Attacks:
 Tokui Waza, Direct
 Renwaku Waza, Combinations
 Gaeshi Waza, Counters
 Retreating / Escaping
 False Attacks / Stalling
 Matte, Surrendering (Tap Out)
 Kachi, Decisions & Ties
Judo Competitive Wisdom:
A skilled judoka never initiates a struggle
from an unbalanced stance when his
opponents balance is strong
A skilled judoka defines the competitive
space to make his opponent lose their
edge by entering unfamiliar ground
A skilled judoka after an initial attack,
follows through fast to finish his opponent
More Competitive Wisdom:
A skilled judoka seeks first to understand
and then to be understood, (Covey’s fifth
habit of highly effective people)
A skilled judoka adjusts the energy level
of his response based on an awareness of
the situation, of self, and of others
A skilled judoka learns from each defeat
and uses that insight in the next match
A skilled Judoka never anticipates his
action in a match, but his mind is as
clever as a polished mirror which enables
him to foresee precisely anything to
happen and he displays freedom of his
physique to cope with any change.
(Mifune’s Canon of Judo)
In order to learn a skilled judoka shows
up with an empty tea cup (Bruce Lee)
More Competitive Wisdom:
When to Apply Judo:
If you’re a smaller player facing off
against a stronger player, (David vs.
Goliath)
If you’re a new player at an existing
event, (entering uncharted territory)
If you’re a large player moving into areas
where powerful opponents may already
be entrenched
Judo Life Skills
Self Valuation Questions
 Do you approve of yourself?
 Do you like yourself?
 What is your self worth?
 What would happen to you if you fell in
love with your life?
 It's not about relaxation, its an awareness, like being in a movie about
yourself in which you're part of the audience, not the director.
 Think of a stirred glass of muddy water waiting till it settles. This is
analogous to concept of a clear mind and focused on the here & now.
 Drop the concepts of a hierarchy or ranking, righteousness - right or
wrong, healthy or unhealthy, and making judgements - winner & looser
 Suffering comes from being carried away by emotions, depression, social
anxiety, avoidance, ruminating, rationalizing, & addiction.
 Fear (false expectations appearing real) comes from the desire to block
panic of embarrassment, (OCD comes from this too).
 Boredom comes from not wanting to spend time with yourself.
 Mindlessness comes from your mind wandering.
 Breathing is the anchor.
More on Mushin - (Mindfulness)
Judo Leadership Qualities:
 Integrity
 Perseverance
 Courage to Risk
 Knowledge Quest
 Self Defense Skills
 Divergent Thinking
 Giving Back to Society
Two Forms of Interaction
Networking
Selling
Traditional Networking
The skill of developing and maintaining
quality relationships that enrich your life,
empower you to achieve your goals, and help
others to achieve theirs.
Judo is the study of networking!
Steps in the Sales &
Networking Process
 Close – Yes
 Rejection – No
 Advancement - A definitive next step
 Continuance - Worse than “No” (in limbo)
Sometimes it’s just a matter of perspective
Keys to Successful Networking
 Parlay information into action
 Like a skilled judoka, “seek first to understand, then to be understood.”
 And a skilled judoka adjusts the energy level of his response based on an
awareness of the situation, of self (very key…high EQ), and of others (I
recommend going to their office)
 Take time to learn about others so well you can make a difference for them
(judo’s concept of interdependence)
 Learn how to do an “honest ask”
 Network when things are going well
 Strive to avoid burning bridges
Top 10 Characteristics a Judoka
& Successful Social Networker
Close the Loop
 Respond to all calls and email ASAP – even if out
of town (PDAs, laptops, etc.)
 Keep checking all the time – from wherever your
are – getting back to the most important, always!
Have an Unique Card
Make it memorable with all your current contact information
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How to Interrupt Nicely
I don’t mean to interrupt, but you seem
like a friendly group.
I’m new here, do you mind if I join you?
That reminds me…(Lt. Columbo)
Tips on Dealing with Difficult People
By Author and Psychiatrist Dr. Mark Goulston
 When you confront someone, you need to have skin in the game!
 Ask yourself the ICU question, is this; Important – Critical – Urgent
 Establish ground rules to keep disagreements from escalating to a war
 Use principle of what's fair & reasonable & remember:
Aggression +principles = passion
Aggression -principles = hostility
 Unsolicited advice = telling the person their stupid
 Very difficult people push you into your rage, (a state of loss of control)
 Poise, begins with a pause (breathe)
 Consider using the line, I'm getting close to wanting to avoid you
 Hold their eyes, & blink
 Ask, can you say that in a normal voice?
 Key is to deal with people in the present, ‘mushin’ (no mind)
 Use the power of an unsolicited apology
Step 1 - text them
Step 2 – say, would you agree we see things differently?
Step 3 - admit not taking the time to see things the way they do
Step 4 - admit you didn't really want to hear this
Step 5 - finally ask; how or can I / we fix this?
Note - The amygdala is brain's modulator for emotion and over reactions
Tips on Dealing with Difficult People
By Author and Psychiatrist Dr. Mark Goulston
The MICE Rule in Espionage:
M = MONEY
I = IDEOLOGY (Relativism, Humanism,
Political, Religious, etc.)
C = COMPROMISE (i.e. Secret Service
Agents in Columbia)
E = EGO (Beware of friends that aren’t
willing to be truthful)
How to Win Friends and Influence People –
by Dale Carneige, a contemporary of Kano
 The only good way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
 Show respect for the other person’s opinions and never say their wrong.
 If you’re wrong admit it quickly and emphatically.
 Begin in a friendly way.
 Get to “yes-yes” with the other person immediately.
 Let the other person do most of the talking.
 Try to really see things from the other person’s point of view.
 Let the other person feel that the idea was theirs.
 Be sympathetic with the other person’s idea’s and desires.
 Avoid using “I” and use “we” instead.
Professor Daniel’s 7 Standard
Rules for the Student:
1. Never be over-awed by authority.
2. Be open to conviction, but refuse to be convinced until conviction
becomes a necessity.
3. Read little, think deeply and much.
4. Seek TRUTH and pursue it. Seek not mere "knowledge" but
UNDERSTANDING; perchance WISDOM may follow.
5. Never lie to yourself.
6. Learn to "think beyond the thoughts of men who lean on things
they see.”
7. Make it your golden rule to never consult an author on any subject
until after you shall first have thought deeply about it and reached
your own conclusion.
Perpetual Optimism is a Force Multiplier
“The ripple effect of a leader's enthusiasm and
optimism is awesome. So is the impact of cynicism
and pessimism. Leaders who whine and blame
engender those same behaviors among their
colleagues. I am not talking about stoically
accepting organizational stupidity and performance
incompetence with a ‘what, me worry?’ smile. I am
talking about a gung-ho attitude that says ‘we can
change things here, we can achieve awesome goals,
we can be the best.’ Spare me the grim litany of
the realist give me the unrealistic aspirations of the
optimist any day.”
General, Colin Powell
The 5 Biggest Regrets that people express
when they die - Complied by Bronnie Ware, Palliative Care Nurse
1. I wish I pursued my dreams and aspirations, and not the
life others expected of me
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard
3. I wish I had the courage to express my feelings and speak
my mind
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends
5. I wish I had let myself be happier
Favorite Quote by Peter Drucker
Favorite Quote by Theodore Roosevelt
“It is not the critic who counts, not the one who
points out how the strong man stumbled or how the
doer of deeds might have done better. The credit
belongs to the man who is actually in the arena,
whose face is marred with sweat and dust and
blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes
short again and again; who knows the great
enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends
himself in a worthy cause; who, if he wins, knows
the triumph of high achievement; and who, if he
fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his
place shall never be with those cold and timid souls
who know neither victory or defeat.”
Favorite Gary Videos
Conan
Black Belt
Highway Patrol
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Judo - Life Skills & Buisness Talk

  • 1. Judo as a Metaphor for Business and Daily Living by Gary S. Goltz, MBA, 8th Degree Black Belt
  • 2. Sensei Gary’s thoughts on judo… "Judo brings people together by neutralizing differences of race, gender, religion, nationality, language, politics, wealth, education, professions, etc. In a judogi we are all equal. Our love of this sport is the common denominator to build upon friendships, mutual respect, and self-confidence.” “In judo you learn that in order to complete a throw you must risk being thrown. This is a valuable metaphor for life knowing sometimes the things you need to do in order to get ahead may result in being hurt, rejected, criticized, embarrassed, and unpopular. However, with proper training and hard work, the risks can be reduced significantly yielding many terrific rewards.”
  • 3. What is judo? Japanese martial art invented in 1882 by by Dr. Jigoro Kano, a famous educator, meaning gentle way Kano refined certain jujitsu throws, pins, strikes, strangles, and locking techniques into a safe method of practice Today, judo is an Olympic sport practiced by men, women, and children worldwide
  • 4. Judo is also… The practice of life skills in a dojo (or lab, safe environment) under the careful supervision of a sensei (trained professional) An art where students learn through experiments how to interact with people A study of one’s self in order to works towards the perfection of one’s character
  • 5. Judo Basics “Fall down seven times get up eight.” Mifune
  • 6. Key Definitions:  Judoka - a student of judo  Seiroyoku Zenyo – make the best use of energy  Jita Kyoei - you and me shining together  Kiai - shout of inner strength  Mushin - no mindedness  Gumbari - with gusto  Kaizen - continuous improvement  Jiko No Kansei - self awareness goal (high EQ)
  • 7. Judo Basics: Kuzushi – Balance Tsukuri – Entry Kake – Execution Shizen / Jigo Hontai – Posturing Ayumi / Tsugi Ashi – Walking Tai Saboki – Turning Jiko Ashi – Pivoting Foot Note – Timing is a crucial factor!
  • 8. Judo Forms of Practice
  • 9. Judo Forms of Practice: Uchikomi - Repetitious Randori - Open Kata - Prearranged Shiai - Contest
  • 12. Judo Rank Promotions Based on knowledge, skill, fighting ability, time in grade, contributions, leadership, wisdom, and most importantly – being a good character
  • 13. Judo Ranks:  Rokyu – Nursery School  Gokyu – Kindergarten  Yonkyu – Grade School  Sankyu – Jr. High School  Nikyu - High School  Ikkyu – College  Shodan – Entry Level Business  Nidan – Manager Position  Sandan – Regional Manager  Yondan – Vice President, MBA  Godan – COO, CFO, CIO, CMO  Rokudan – President, PhD  Shichidan – CEO, Chairman  Hachidan – Professor Emeritus  Kudan – Nobel Prize Winner  Judan – Sainthood
  • 15. Contest Scores: A Win -  Ippon - Full Point An Advancement -  Wazari - Half Point A Penalty -  Shido - Warning  Hansokumake – Disqualification
  • 17. Before and After a Match: Preparation Bow In Bow Out Meditation Reflection Humility
  • 19. Types of Attacks:  Tokui Waza, Direct  Renwaku Waza, Combinations  Gaeshi Waza, Counters  Retreating / Escaping  False Attacks / Stalling  Matte, Surrendering (Tap Out)  Kachi, Decisions & Ties
  • 20. Judo Competitive Wisdom: A skilled judoka never initiates a struggle from an unbalanced stance when his opponents balance is strong A skilled judoka defines the competitive space to make his opponent lose their edge by entering unfamiliar ground A skilled judoka after an initial attack, follows through fast to finish his opponent
  • 21. More Competitive Wisdom: A skilled judoka seeks first to understand and then to be understood, (Covey’s fifth habit of highly effective people) A skilled judoka adjusts the energy level of his response based on an awareness of the situation, of self, and of others A skilled judoka learns from each defeat and uses that insight in the next match
  • 22. A skilled Judoka never anticipates his action in a match, but his mind is as clever as a polished mirror which enables him to foresee precisely anything to happen and he displays freedom of his physique to cope with any change. (Mifune’s Canon of Judo) In order to learn a skilled judoka shows up with an empty tea cup (Bruce Lee) More Competitive Wisdom:
  • 23. When to Apply Judo: If you’re a smaller player facing off against a stronger player, (David vs. Goliath) If you’re a new player at an existing event, (entering uncharted territory) If you’re a large player moving into areas where powerful opponents may already be entrenched
  • 25. Self Valuation Questions  Do you approve of yourself?  Do you like yourself?  What is your self worth?  What would happen to you if you fell in love with your life?
  • 26.  It's not about relaxation, its an awareness, like being in a movie about yourself in which you're part of the audience, not the director.  Think of a stirred glass of muddy water waiting till it settles. This is analogous to concept of a clear mind and focused on the here & now.  Drop the concepts of a hierarchy or ranking, righteousness - right or wrong, healthy or unhealthy, and making judgements - winner & looser  Suffering comes from being carried away by emotions, depression, social anxiety, avoidance, ruminating, rationalizing, & addiction.  Fear (false expectations appearing real) comes from the desire to block panic of embarrassment, (OCD comes from this too).  Boredom comes from not wanting to spend time with yourself.  Mindlessness comes from your mind wandering.  Breathing is the anchor. More on Mushin - (Mindfulness)
  • 27. Judo Leadership Qualities:  Integrity  Perseverance  Courage to Risk  Knowledge Quest  Self Defense Skills  Divergent Thinking  Giving Back to Society
  • 28. Two Forms of Interaction Networking Selling
  • 29. Traditional Networking The skill of developing and maintaining quality relationships that enrich your life, empower you to achieve your goals, and help others to achieve theirs. Judo is the study of networking!
  • 30. Steps in the Sales & Networking Process  Close – Yes  Rejection – No  Advancement - A definitive next step  Continuance - Worse than “No” (in limbo) Sometimes it’s just a matter of perspective
  • 31. Keys to Successful Networking  Parlay information into action  Like a skilled judoka, “seek first to understand, then to be understood.”  And a skilled judoka adjusts the energy level of his response based on an awareness of the situation, of self (very key…high EQ), and of others (I recommend going to their office)  Take time to learn about others so well you can make a difference for them (judo’s concept of interdependence)  Learn how to do an “honest ask”  Network when things are going well  Strive to avoid burning bridges
  • 32. Top 10 Characteristics a Judoka & Successful Social Networker
  • 33. Close the Loop  Respond to all calls and email ASAP – even if out of town (PDAs, laptops, etc.)  Keep checking all the time – from wherever your are – getting back to the most important, always!
  • 34. Have an Unique Card Make it memorable with all your current contact information
  • 35. 35 How to Interrupt Nicely I don’t mean to interrupt, but you seem like a friendly group. I’m new here, do you mind if I join you? That reminds me…(Lt. Columbo)
  • 36. Tips on Dealing with Difficult People By Author and Psychiatrist Dr. Mark Goulston  When you confront someone, you need to have skin in the game!  Ask yourself the ICU question, is this; Important – Critical – Urgent  Establish ground rules to keep disagreements from escalating to a war  Use principle of what's fair & reasonable & remember: Aggression +principles = passion Aggression -principles = hostility  Unsolicited advice = telling the person their stupid  Very difficult people push you into your rage, (a state of loss of control)  Poise, begins with a pause (breathe)  Consider using the line, I'm getting close to wanting to avoid you
  • 37.  Hold their eyes, & blink  Ask, can you say that in a normal voice?  Key is to deal with people in the present, ‘mushin’ (no mind)  Use the power of an unsolicited apology Step 1 - text them Step 2 – say, would you agree we see things differently? Step 3 - admit not taking the time to see things the way they do Step 4 - admit you didn't really want to hear this Step 5 - finally ask; how or can I / we fix this? Note - The amygdala is brain's modulator for emotion and over reactions Tips on Dealing with Difficult People By Author and Psychiatrist Dr. Mark Goulston
  • 38. The MICE Rule in Espionage: M = MONEY I = IDEOLOGY (Relativism, Humanism, Political, Religious, etc.) C = COMPROMISE (i.e. Secret Service Agents in Columbia) E = EGO (Beware of friends that aren’t willing to be truthful)
  • 39. How to Win Friends and Influence People – by Dale Carneige, a contemporary of Kano  The only good way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.  Show respect for the other person’s opinions and never say their wrong.  If you’re wrong admit it quickly and emphatically.  Begin in a friendly way.  Get to “yes-yes” with the other person immediately.  Let the other person do most of the talking.  Try to really see things from the other person’s point of view.  Let the other person feel that the idea was theirs.  Be sympathetic with the other person’s idea’s and desires.  Avoid using “I” and use “we” instead.
  • 40. Professor Daniel’s 7 Standard Rules for the Student: 1. Never be over-awed by authority. 2. Be open to conviction, but refuse to be convinced until conviction becomes a necessity. 3. Read little, think deeply and much. 4. Seek TRUTH and pursue it. Seek not mere "knowledge" but UNDERSTANDING; perchance WISDOM may follow. 5. Never lie to yourself. 6. Learn to "think beyond the thoughts of men who lean on things they see.” 7. Make it your golden rule to never consult an author on any subject until after you shall first have thought deeply about it and reached your own conclusion.
  • 41. Perpetual Optimism is a Force Multiplier “The ripple effect of a leader's enthusiasm and optimism is awesome. So is the impact of cynicism and pessimism. Leaders who whine and blame engender those same behaviors among their colleagues. I am not talking about stoically accepting organizational stupidity and performance incompetence with a ‘what, me worry?’ smile. I am talking about a gung-ho attitude that says ‘we can change things here, we can achieve awesome goals, we can be the best.’ Spare me the grim litany of the realist give me the unrealistic aspirations of the optimist any day.” General, Colin Powell
  • 42. The 5 Biggest Regrets that people express when they die - Complied by Bronnie Ware, Palliative Care Nurse 1. I wish I pursued my dreams and aspirations, and not the life others expected of me 2. I wish I didn’t work so hard 3. I wish I had the courage to express my feelings and speak my mind 4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends 5. I wish I had let myself be happier
  • 43. Favorite Quote by Peter Drucker
  • 44. Favorite Quote by Theodore Roosevelt “It is not the critic who counts, not the one who points out how the strong man stumbled or how the doer of deeds might have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred with sweat and dust and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause; who, if he wins, knows the triumph of high achievement; and who, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory or defeat.”
  • 45. Favorite Gary Videos Conan Black Belt Highway Patrol
  • 46. 10 – 4 !
  • 47. Now, Sweep the Competition!